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Posted: 13 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: .Vrish.

Unfortunately, a common thread about all these mahaan bahus in every serial is that each one of them tends to be excessively intrusive & nosy. It's like minding one's own business is being selfish or something 😕



That's so true! Interestingly enough , BV is one serial in which even the wannabe, not accepted-illegal Bahu beats everyone else in being "intrusive and nosy" 😆. If only she knew how to mind her own business and stop running to the haveli under multiple pretexts of begging ashirwad, abusing and badmouthing others, extorting acceptance, throwing challenges or to remove mukhoutas 🤣! Anandi is bitten by the mahantaa bug, what exactly is wannabe's bug? 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Antara...thank you so much for your post. 👏

I was getting afraid of the flood here. See when everyone bashes Anandi no one has problems but say one word against G and fatak se flood comes by. 🤣
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Thanks for the WU...A child fight turned into division of kitchen and ..Basant walking out of his ancestral home...Wish the adults could have resolved the dispute like the kids.
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Posted: 13 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

I partially agree with Sumitra, I think Anandi should have stepped aside for other panch members to take a decision regarding family. Just in case B&G were in fact right and she had made a judgement in their favor, villagers would have called her partial. Just like surgeons don't operate on their own family members, I think Anandi should have stepped aside. That way B&G would atleast not be angry with the family. Bhairav sometimes expects too much from Anandi.


And yes, it was EXTREMELY annoying and wrong of Anandi to try and talk to Nandu. If she was unaware of the promise he made to Gehna, atleast then she had some justification, but she knew Nandu had promised his mother and despite that, did she expect Nandu to break his mother's promise and talk to her??? Crazy girl!

Looks like Gauri is winning much more than the bet with Sumitra. Anandi's extreme mahanta (which used to be annoying even when she was a kid) is getting in the way of her being a realistic human being



One thing which surprised me a lot is Anandi who didnt want to go to court against Jagya as it will be a black mark on family reputation , how she was in a spectator role when rameshwar want to lodge a complaint. She could have convinced him and other panchayat members to give her some time to handle the issue. Even then if Basant refuses than she herself would ask rameshwar to lodge a complaint. That much consideration they would have given for sarpanch bitiya if she would have insisted strongly.
Edited by swetha_ch - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#25
Hats off to the daily update writers who have to bear the pain for watching such lame episodes.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree with sumitra. I dont think she is wrong, or trying to force anandi into being a bahu like herself. She has been very supportive -- but i think in this case, she was right to ask anandi to step down from giving a decision.
I agree with sumitra because I think anything we do -- whether it is a job or a hobby etc. is because it gives us a better quality of life -- why do we go to work? Yes, there are aspects of defining our identity and developing our personality, but the money that we get is also a powerful entity in improving our quality of life.
From sumitra's lenses (and my own) I dont see any point in a job that by its very nature destroys one's peace of mind and one's family's peace of mind. The quality of life declines.
Sumitra is not a typical evil type of mother in law who is jealous of anandi's success -- infact she is the rare nice lady who wants to help anandi -- in fact, she defied maasaa's anger to go and be the first student in anandi's class. She also used to prepare food for all the students in the adult education class.
She would be happy to help anandi soar to any heights -- in education, in career, in a second marriage, whatever makes her happy. But this sort of job which has a trade-off in terms of declining quality of life of family members is not a very effective endeavour is what she feels.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Vrish.

I think that if Gauri ever goes back to the haveli and Gehna is still there, this time, the latter would support Gauri in returning to this place, and accept her as a part of the family, thereby thumbing her nose @ Bairon & Sumitra.

Ha ha ha -- I can imagine gaur's shock that taisa sherni who lost no opportunity to humiliate her has now become her staunch ally 😆😆😆😆😆
gauri will be like 😲
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: monamie111

@ Tinoo

i think Anandi don't have a very complex mind like us..u know! she is innocent enough to forgive easily!..so when gahena screamed at her she didn't mind at all! instead she thought they have full right to be angry with her!...so she went to their room to give them food..
if sumitra or bhairon would be at anandi's place..then they also would have told gahena to at least feed nandu! we always think of the kids of the family first! she also did the same! what is wrong in it? 😕

what is wrong in it is that it is highly presumptuous for her to assume that nandu will go hungry too. gehna would have made something for him like a simple khichadi or given him some fruits. And once again she is trying to put a split between the boy and his parents. He is lying right there on the bed next to basant and gehna. When he hears this, it will be sowing seeds of resentment against his parents in his mind that they are depriving him of eating.
why does she presume that nandu will go hungry? And even if he goes to bed hungry, is it right to force herself about feeding him in this volatile atmosphere when his mother is so angry? She should have just dropped off the thali and left it there.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

I


And yes, it was EXTREMELY annoying and wrong of Anandi to try and talk to Nandu. If she was unaware of the promise he made to Gehna, atleast then she had some justification, but she knew Nandu had promised his mother and despite that, did she expect Nandu to break his mother's promise and talk to her??? Crazy girl!

Yes, this was extremely wrong. Forget about her expectations of Nandu, my question is did she not have any foresight as to where this would lead if he said yes to her story?
When gehna saw her telling a story to nandu -- nandu would be punished and gehna would become more volatile. Then it would further fan the flames of the problems.
Would telling him a story resolve the issue in any sensible manner?
Even if she wants to tell nandu a story, the matter should first be resolved with gehna, since she knows gehna has given the instruction and only after getting gehna's permission she should go forward.
I wondered how nandu would handle it -- Kudos to him and his cowardice -- best way to handle it he ran away from the discomfort of being put in a spot 😆😆😆 -- he just didnt want to deal with it.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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There is no surprising thing with the escapist step down campaigners like Sumitra find nandu's running away escaping solution so lucrative n handy...
with this attitude we need to search for a new job everyday as escapism is the sole solution to the slightest issue...that too even though you have done no mistake.
It is idiocy ...NOT cowardice to run away from obligations...
Sumitra can not control anything /anyone including her son...she is a follower..never a leader ,a silent obeyer of destiny...she can never think rationally nor any tact,except foolish challenges.

To her DS is diety...

She's the best example of a chulha chowka wali unpadhee gawar...ideology...
Had Anandi not taken initiative she won't allow tarakki of her own son...forget her bahu...
What could DS do?cd she offer any solution?she is the creator of all the problems to Haveli
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