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Posted: 13 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: gagarulez

Rule No1 : Since J lied to G...she should not have accepted him...or married him...she should have forgotten her "Love" for him...ok their relationship was 5 years old...fine

when JG married they were unaware about the legal consequences...

and I want JG to live happily away from A and Singh family.

Gauri chose to accept him along with his past and is currently living with stress bcoz his past relationships keep intruding into their present 'yet not legal' marriage.

Anandi - did not have the option to reject Jagya after knowing about his lie coz she was already married and rejected by Jagya. How could A reject J in this case ? Yes, she could legally divorce him but that wud have included jail for him too and also taken her away from the Haveli. A cudn't bear to seperate herself and sadden DS by jailing J and so she stayed quiet. BUT, I do agree and most of us have always maintained that we'd be very happy if she hadn't decided to fund their city life.

When JG married - they were unaware about the legal consequences....

OKayyy ! they went to a court to get their marriage registered right ? A court has lawyers ? You can say he was married and ask how that can impact their brand new marriage ? WHY DIDN'T THEY ASK A LAWYER ? They are doctors - they can make physical diagnosis of diseases, not lawyers.

They had no business to assume that the child marriage must have been invalid and not even worth mentioning. Plus how do you explain J's not mentioning that little piece of info on the certificate and also bribing the peon ??

I want JG to live happily away from A and Singh family.

And they are living away from everyone. Except that - Ms. G wanted so badly to get blessed the first time and then she wanted to settle scores with A the second time and then she wanted to tell J about A having eloped the third time...

If only G wud keep the family and its news away from J and stop J from accepting any money from A...then, I do believe they could live happily in bby 😊.

I like G - honestly I do am not being sarcastic truly. Its just that her lack of control and pettiness makes it difficult to be loyal to her.

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gagarulez

@gagarulez

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#52

rit to hv their own opinion😆

BINGO !! and thats exactly what I, tansvismile and others who like JG mean by...we love JG and want them to be together...😆😉

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: gagarulez

rit to hv their own opinion😆

BINGO !! and thats exactly what I, tansvismile and others who like JG mean by...we love JG and want them to be together...😆😉

i don't think anyone is stopping anyone liking any pair, on the same time no one sd be stopped criticizing any character if they don't like. If G and J is criticized thn A is also.criticized. fair enough. But criticism sd.be logical and not just criticism for the sake of criticism.

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woman11

@woman11

Voyager

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Posted: 13 years ago

#54

hooked: I did not want to talk about such personal things, especially in a forum where I am a frequent visitor. Now having fposted that, I am having second thoughts about it now, but it's too late...so let me just say the girl in the story is not me but my friend (Jagya style). Or lets call it a hypothetical story, guys it's a fake story please don't assume anything 🤣 But seriously, every time I heard the argument "you won't understand unless you are in G's position," I thought to myself "I know exactly how it feels to be in G's position!" 😕 And that's why I liked G so much initially, because her plight reminded me of something I knew so well. But the G after her marriage is a G that is difficult to relate to, and now she is unbearable.🤢

ankit: lovely post. The post on G married J to do good to A, actually reminded me of your post on Jaggu dada's social mission of saving child brides😆 Seems you were right all along about Jaggu dada's noble intentions😆

gagarulez: I definitely think we all have a right to our opinions and we are just discussing them here, it's actually these arguments and counterarguments that make this forum so stimulating👏 About your comment on Anandi's and Gauri's weaknesses, I agree with you. Both girls have been extremely foolish and senseless in wasting their lives over a jerk like Jagya, but the only differences that I find between Anandi's pining for Jagya and Gauri's passion for Jagya are:

1. Anandi has had no exposure to the outside world, her social conditioning is much more intense than Gauri. We can expect a woman to exercise her feminist rights only when is exposed to education and outside world. As I said, there's a difference between my maid and me---and I cannot expect my maid to be as emancipated as me, precisely because she has not had the same privileges that I had. Gauri being educated, progressive, modern and apparently emancipated should have acted better than Anandi.
2. Anandi's pining for Jagya is more of a self-obsession. She will never pursue it to the point of hurting someone or ruining somebody else's life. The same cannot be said about Gauri.
3. Anandi has not lost sight of the bigger picture even in her blind love for Jagya. She has never ever blamed Gauri for the whole mess and she knows very clearly that Jagya is the main culprit here. Gauri on the other hand is so blind in her love that she does not see Jagya's fault at all, all she knows is blame Anandi for everything.

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Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#55

I think the biggest grouse is that Anandi did not show her rejection of Jagya by gifting him with a DIVORCE.

Now that - wud have been just perfect, wudn't it ? 😉

If only Anandi cud have gotten angry enuf to punish Jagya and slapped him with a divorce and stormed out of the Haveli and gone back to Bilaria - - - Ms. Gauri could have happily moved in and taken up the vacant role of Haveli ki chhoti beendni...😳. Maybe eventually Bapusa wud hv relented and continued funding their 7 straw nariyal paani romance.

But instead 😡, Anandi continues to keep her legal married status, continues to be the accepted Haveli bahu and continues to be in Jagya's good favors by sending him pocket money. Also, she refused to elope and apparently arranged to have herself kidnapped by goons just so J cud come over and rescue her !!!! I mean - how can anyone blame G for seeing red ?

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gagarulez

@gagarulez

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#56

Originally posted by: ankit111

BINGO !! and thats exactly what I, tansvismile and others who like JG mean by...we love JG and want them to be together...😆😉

Well...no one person can decide whether a criticism is logical or not, who is the judge of "logical/illogical"??? ....so I dont think any member can say mine or tanvi's statements do not have logic...because whatever we post is based on subjective judgements...so no one is right or no one is wrong !! and I dont think justifying every single post is important ! so yeah...what I write or any JG supporter writes is based on what we think is right...if others feel that's wrong...then nothing can be done 😊 because its our perspective and perspectives do differ from person to person ! not every individual can think alike and I dont think its necessary that we all should come to a consensus or agree with each others point of view...so its quite fair that I dont agree with your posts and you dont agree to mine...😃 no worries whatsoever ! but saying JG supporters criticism has not logic is unfair and unacceptable...well in that case we can also say A's supporters posts also dont have logic...as I said no one can judge others posts here 😉 we all are equals !

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 13 years ago

#57

Originally posted by: gagarulez
i don't think anyone is stopping anyone liking any pair, on the same time no one sd be stopped criticizing any character if they don't like. If G and J is criticized thn A is also.criticized. fair enough. But criticism sd.be logical and not just criticism for the sake of criticism.

Well...no one person can decide whether a criticism is logical or not, who is the judge of "logical/illogical"??? ....so I dont think any member can say mine or tanvi's statements do not have logic...because whatever we post is based on subjective judgements...so no one is right or no one is wrong !! and I dont think justifying every single post is important ! so yeah...what I write or any JG supporter writes is based on what we think is right...if others feel that's wrong...then nothing can be done😊because its our perspective and perspectives do differ from person to person ! not every individual can think alike and I dont think its necessary that we all should come to a consensus or agree with each others point of view...so its quite fair that I dont agree with your posts and you dont agree to mine...😃no worries whatsoever ! but saying JG supporters criticism has not logic is unfair and unacceptable...well in that case we can also say A's supporters posts also dont have logic...as I said no one can judge others posts here😉we all are equals !

cool down dear. Did i tell ur post illogical? 😕 😕

Edited by ankit111 - 13 years ago

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gagarulez

@gagarulez

Explorer

Posted: 13 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: ankit111

Well...no one person can decide whether a criticism is logical or not, who is the judge of "logical/illogical"??? ....so I dont think any member can say mine or tanvi's statements do not have logic...because whatever we post is based on subjective judgements...so no one is right or no one is wrong !! and I dont think justifying every single post is important ! so yeah...what I write or any JG supporter writes is based on what we think is right...if others feel that's wrong...then nothing can be done😊because its our perspective and perspectives do differ from person to person ! not every individual can think alike and I dont think its necessary that we all should come to a consensus or agree with each others point of view...so its quite fair that I dont agree with your posts and you dont agree to mine...😃no worries whatsoever ! but saying JG supporters criticism has not logic is unfair and unacceptable...well in that case we can also say A's supporters posts also dont have logic...as I said no one can judge others posts here😉we all are equals !

cool down dear. Did i tell ur post illogical? 😕 😕

I am cool 😊...I didnt say that you said my post is illogical...I just replied to your comment 😊

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#59

first of al,y should nt g accept him?some people dnt give one chance ,while others give,the situation which r forum member woman gave, its diferent ,here j was a victim of bal vivah,plus he left his family ,friends for her,many dnt have the guts to do dat,may be g wud have been mahan to us if she had to say j ,tum mujhe bhool jao,hamesha k liye ,give him kasam,then may be she wud been mahan like rani frm mujhse dosti karoge ,the guys wen pushed towards other gal ,that much they get atached to u like a magnet .may be j wud have gone to anandi ,bt he wud been more frustated ,bad to her

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 13 years ago

#60

gagarulez-Thanks for making it clear dat our statements r also logical n fair enough ,no one can say dat we r wrong n they r right,everyone has diff POV .Everyone POV is to be respected.

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