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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: pjyo

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i still don't think jaAn will reunite(😉i must be the only one😆),gauri ki tarah woh kisi kaa pathi snach nahi karegi 😉chahe illegal hi kyun naa ho😆..She herself said to him don't behave to gauri the way you behaved with me..
And sumitra said jagya will always NEED anandi and that's true naa,jab bhi zaroorath ho 1st person he thinks of is anandi-recommend to bapusa,send checks,b'day ke din,gauri kaisee hai,gauri hungry give food..So the most trustworthy person according to jaggu is still anandi even though he wants to be with gauri..
'kache umar ke pakke riste' can be with the whole family too ,anandi has unbreakable emotional bond with singh family- that ristha is pakka even now,with jagya she still has a bond ,sirf uss rishtey ke maayne badal gaye hain🤔,its no longer romantic for him...He has completely trampled her feelings yet she cares for him and he ,in his own flawed way,trusts her more than anyone else..
Who knows someday jagya may truly repent the way he mistreated her,make amends and out of their broken marriage they could salvage their childhood friendship ...🤔

@ blue part bold - mera mooh ki baat chinli pjyo 😆
I have always told in my post that their childhood marriage and social/parental conditioning did play a role in the developement of JA relationship - they might have been best friends but there is doubt whether J or A would have chosen to live with each other if there had been no marriage and social/parental conditioning to accept each other as beend/beendni
However, it cannot be denied that A is important in J's life - she has been his best mate, his life savior, he was dependent on her in every respect
So naturally, there will be soft spot for A all the time. but it happens in our life too that we respect a person, depends on a person but it's not necessary we like to have him/her as our life partner.
same thing happened with j too - a is/was his habit, his necessity but she did not conform to the dream partner he had pined.
anyways - let's see how our jaggu dada takes the responsibility of fatherhood and G.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: asru

@ doyelpakhi

That is what i said... JG breakup doesn't mean JaAn reunion!! I really hope JaAn reunion never happens..J doesn't deserve a person like A.
Yepp, J should be shown repenting for mistreating ad cheating A and G should be shown repenting for marrying an already married man and despite that accusing his family (especially his wife , who is already in a bad state) and trying to prove that his innocent wife is characterless!!

well said!! i m also of this opinion & always wants 2 say this wenever sum1 says that breaking of JG marriage is giving wrong msgs! if its the case then successful JG marriage"ll also give wrong msgs 1stly u can hide ur selfishness in the garb of so-called child marriage,
any man can ditch his child bride once he reached adult age like J ; and u can cheat ,lie & humilate ur child bride & leave her citing her "uneducated & Ganwar" & no1 even bother u wid criminal cases!!
i m also opposed 2 JA reunion as i think J doesn't deserve A. and esply after G gave birth 2 child bcoz i don't want A 2 take care of JG's baby & bcum 2nd mother 2 him/her.its really disgusting that in Indian shows they always show such situations & its really pathetic & disgusting thinking!!🤢🤢 that men can cheat & humilate their loyal & genuine wives, produce babies wid their "mistresses" & make the wife 2 take care of that baby.
does these CVs've guts 2 show that if a woman strays & after repenting truly & genuinely she'''ll b aaccepted not just by her husband but also by family??
earlier i used 2 say that G also doesn't deserve J but after she got married 2 him even after knowledge of his marrisge wid A i think they both deserve each oder but iw ant them 2 always fight over one or oder thing so that both shud repent abt wat they did & doing wid A & esply G she deserve the biggest punishment. i never thought i wud want bigger punishment 4 G. 🥱but shes so pathetic & a turning in2 a psychopath!!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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[oh i hope jyo and vrish jaisa tum log kehte ho vaisa hi ho
but trust me audiences wont like if anandi develops feelings for another guy
if jagya was dead then yes but jab tak jagya zinda hain wohi uskaa pati parmeshwar😆😆
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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ tiny15
Reality is even the law allows men/women to leave their childhood bride/groom even after spending few years.
I have learnt about the law from this serial and what we learnt that - a man/woman can nullify the childhood marriage if they file for divorce within two years of being adult.
Now there must be provisions for compensation, alimony etc - I don't know the details
But the fact remains that law is allowing a man/woman, bound in child marriage to stay together legally after being adult to know each other and then they can nullify their marriage if they take the right step in right time.
The law does not say that the marriage becomes legal after consummation, it does not say that couples have to make decision at 18 before they could stay together legally - but even the law is giving time to make the decision.
If we set aside JA for once, then the truth is that couples, married in childhood, start living together since they are 15-16. So, a man/woman can get out of the relationship quiet easily even after staying for 3-4 years.
Now coming back to JA, even Jaggu dada decided by 20-21 that he wants G and not A . Had he confessed the truth at right time, had done the right thing at right time, there would not have been much problem for him too 😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: doyelpakhi

@ tiny15

Reality is even the law allows men/women to leave their childhood bride/groom even after spending few years.
I have learnt about the law from this serial and what we learnt that - a man/woman can nullify the childhood marriage if they file for divorce within two years of being adult.
Now there must be provisions for compensation, alimony etc - I don't know the details
But the fact remains that law is allowing a man/woman, bound in child marriage to stay together legally after being adult to know each other and then they can nullify their marriage if they take the right step in right time.
The law does not say that the marriage becomes legal after consummation, it does not say that couples have to make decision at 18 before they could stay together legally - but even the law is giving time to make the decision.
If we set aside JA for once, then the truth is that couples, married in childhood, start living together since they are 15-16. So, a man/woman can get out of the relationship quiet easily even after staying for 3-4 years.
Now coming back to JA, even Jaggu dada decided by 20-21 that he wants G and not A . Had he confessed the truth at right time, had done the right thing at right time, there would not have been much problem for him too 😉

@bold i don't agree wid this only bcoz J didn't choose G bcoz he luvs G but bcoz he wants a trophy wife & ashamed of A of whom he never tried 2 make equavalent 2 him. so i can't buy this logic of his!!
and abt 20-21 yrs. age he wmade choice of G well after 22-23 yrs. age. as A was shown younger than J by 1-2 yrs.so by this logic wen she came 2 the singhs at the age of 18yrs. so J was atleast 20yrs. old at that time & he got selected after yr(may b) and went 2 college . after spending 6months 2 1yr he started disliking A but didn't start luving G. he started liking her only. so acc. 2 this calculn he must b 24-25yrs. wen he told A abt it!!
and in this case we can also say that J cheated A 4 his inaftuation 4 G!!😉
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Of course, he told A when he completed MBBS - he has already romanced with G for around 4 years already without giving any hint to anyone.
If we assume that he was 19, when A came, he was 20 when he went to medical college and he was 21 when he started disliking A and liking G
The point is - adult J after staying 1-2 years A has decided that he doesn't want to be with A.
It's another matter whether he was infatuated with G, really loved G or wanted a trophy wife.
The main thing is that if law has indirectly given a chance to the couples. bound in childhood marriage, to know each other for 2-3 years and then to decide if they want to live with each other or not - so why shouldn't J and A get the same chance?
Technically, J might not have been able to null the marriage as he might have been over 20 but nevertheless, if he could have said that right things at the right time, he would not have been in this mess.
also, instead of J, If A would have wanted to move out of the marriage, I would have supported her too. everyone has the right to choose the life partner, and if someone exercise the right, it's not a wrong thing - only one has to take care that it's done in a respectable manner without trampling another person's dignity.
Edited by doyelpakhi - 13 years ago
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Posted: 13 years ago
#47
I do not want to see J-A get back together. Now that G is pregnant, let J-G stay together and raise the child. It doesn't make any sense now to make J realize his love towards Anandi. Let him be loyal to Gowri or I am even ok if he ends up with no one. Time for A to move on. Since they don't want to show her as career oriented woman, that's ok too. Let her get degree in social services and work in that area. Now it is high time they show some happiness in her life. Or else the message will be if you are true and honest and you treat your elders with respect and take care of them, then you will end up miserable and lonely... Let this new guy bring some happiness in Anandi's life.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: intruderfast

[oh i hope jyo and vrish jaisa tum log kehte ho vaisa hi ho

but trust me audiences wont like if anandi develops feelings for another guy
if jagya was dead then yes but jab tak jagya zinda hain wohi uskaa pati parmeshwar😆😆

kyaa karen anmol ,iska pati parmeshwar is a param idiot🤪 but isse kaise samjhayen...
yeah, what we want and what CVs plan could be totally opposite ,wohi hotha hai jo manjoore CVs hotha hai ..but until it happens 😉i can still keep on hoping-r no jaan reunion ever -😛😆
mere hisaab se -No jaan left in JaAn😉

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