blessing turned to curse

I remember 2 months before when we saw Anandi's inlaws supporting her and shunning their son I was really proud. Not only I liked the justice of Singh family but I was happy becoz I felt now Anandi has everything and jagya has lost a lot. Anandi was always better than Jaggu in studies, So I though now with complete family support she is going to raise high.

I would have even been ok with her becoming a doctor. And if she has chosen social work then I would have liked her to be an IAS or I would have atleast expected her to start an NGO...I have personally worked with many NGOs, the goverments gives many aids and supports but an NGO also make their own money. Women do embroidery or make some handicraft products and sell it to make money. Women are taught to survive by themselves. Other activities like adult education, education for their kids, food supply also takes place. As a head of NGO one needs to enterprising, meet different people to get benifits and also new projects..

I would have applauded what Anandi is doing right now if jagya had never left her and stayed with her in love. In that case along with her family responsibilities I would have admired her potential to do her bit to the society. But in the current scenario I feel she can do way better because she is no more bound.

looks like the Justise of Singh family which I thought as a blessing has turned a curse to Anandi.

right vasuja.so true.everything now seems so pretentious.kisi ka bhi intention ye nahi dikhta ki anandi life mein kuch solid achieve kare.they are all jus getting over the guilt it seems.n anandi is setting her target very low!koi please usko sahi rasta dikhao!

I agree Vasu. I cannot understand why, when it comes to A's education and standing on her own feet she takes matters so lightly. She seems to get diverted by other things so easily keeping herself away from getting a bright education. All that she is doing right now is very noble indeed but she needs to educate herself first (more education) before imparting it to others. She herself needs more exposure before teaching others what is better than the lifestyle they are leading today. She has lived her whole life in the very same environment and culture, so is she supposed to get some divine intervention of how things are done in another environment? Unless she gets more exposure she will not be able to know what are the good points of her culture and how things can be done in a better way from how they are been done presently. This is basic common sense which doesn't seem to be common with the CV's line of thought.

Another issue which I am also not liking is that in the case of any eventuality in future how is she going to fend for herself? Today she can sponsor herself and what she is doing because the Singh's have the money. But this social work is her decision and not the Singh's, hence she needs to find ways of funding her work on her own accord and not depend on the Singh's. When she earns her own money she can divert it to any thing she wants. No parent is entitled to financially support their child through out his or her life. Once a person gets his education and becomes an adult he/she has to eventually fend for themselves and infact then take care of their parents. What the Cv's are showing here is not putting across a good message.They have messed up the whole issue big time and are trying to salvage whatever they can with senseless trp increasing tracks which we do not expect from a show like BV.