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Posted: 14 years ago
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the frustrations in the forum are running a bit too high!?


I think we have to think positive (to the point of foolishness) to remain sane. This is a show and def. CVs will drag it as much as they can.

Jagya and Anandi will get back together (as per the SBS Statement of Anandi) So thats all we have to look towards now.


Whether we like it or not.


I have started to take this show a day at a time. Its not as boring as it was before due to all this drama and anticipation and even light moods thats being shown. So I am glad that thats a nice thing the CVs are doing and beYOOND that I do not think we can expect anything else.

So .. thats about that u know. No point beating the dead snake.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Look Suchi why accept it? It's not like a personal issue between characters on marriage. We're talking of a serious social issue called child marriage! First they handle it with kid gloves, don't show harsh reality AT ALL and sugar-coat everything. They are now justifying child marriage!

And again, why try to prove that educated girls are of loose or questionable character, selfish and too much to handle?

There is no denying they messed up royally.

Why only in forum? I think people need to raise voice against it and call for a ban on this show once again.

What in the world is meant by kachchi umar ke pakke rishtey?😲
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Posted: 14 years ago
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you know suchi,all these segments do point to a jaAn reunion ,true, but the comments of anandi (to reporters of sbb)have been this optimistic from a long long time-even before jagya married gauri it was like this🤔-woh bhatak gaya hai wapas aayegaa.🤪...
i feel its the colorschannel people who tell actors what to say...but even after these anandi comments jagya still married gauri,those 2 still want to be together inspite of regular fights ,ocassional anandi flashbacks but he still wants to be with gauri ... sometimes i feel these sbb segments are just to keep the diehard jaAn fans happy ...story could move in totally different direction whatever anandi says in these saas bahu segments...🤔
Atleast iam hoping NO JaAn reunion ever ,someday anandi moves on with her own life educated successful ..😍...Maybe its wishful thinking but 😉kya karoon ,iam just eternally optimistic when it come anandi ki padhaai...😳😆...ho naa ho i'll keep hoping...😍


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Posted: 14 years ago
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aree yaar...esa hi kuchh dikhaya gaye tha pehele v...jahan tak mujhe yaad hai ki...jagiya kavi v anandi ko dhoka nehin dega just few days after gauri's entry!!...

anandi v kuchh esa hi bolrahi thi...but hua kya!!😆
guys just chill...!!
jyo ki baat se bilkul agree karti hoon main!!😳
those r the instructions from channels...manytimes noticable in live interviews...kehete kuchh aur hain...but hota kuchh aur hai!!😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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They have again hinted at this - by showing the pandit giving akhand saubhagyavati blessing to Anandi and Anandi again having flashbacks of SR/romance.🤢

Yesterday's episode's moral was also about relationships being strong and prevailing despite all cracks!🤢
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I do not want their union at all , but I am afraid , thats the track they have taken 🤢

even in today's episode with his all jealousy rage, he was so unsupportive of Gauri and soon she will realize whom she has married. THen what the slime ball will creep back and apologize and this stuff will go on for a while but then , after that they will show that,

the only person who could handle ( or tolerate) was Anandi.

So they will show that.

I do not think jagya will change. EVER.

And ANandi will keep on tolerating him.

:(

My hopes are gone! so I am just living it by the day u know

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: annika20

Look Suchi why accept it? It's not like a personal issue between characters on marriage. We're talking of a serious social issue called child marriage! First they handle it with kid gloves, don't show harsh reality AT ALL and sugar-coat everything. They are now justifying child marriage!


And again, why try to prove that educated girls are of loose or questionable character, selfish and too much to handle?

There is no denying they messed up royally.

Why only in forum? I think people need to raise voice against it and call for a ban on this show once again.

What in the world is meant by kachchi umar ke pakke rishtey?😲

Hello Annika, if you have to hire a person for a Programmer Analyst position, will you show interest in a guy with Bachelors+4 Years of Exp / Masters+1 Yr exp? 4 Years of experience guy will have more exposure. In the same way Anandi because of her child marriage experienced so many things and Gauri has no such experience. The only experience she has is betrayal. So, she thinks that it is the only problem in world. But our well experienced Anandi has seen almost each and every corner of life. It is not to prove that educated girls are of loose / questionable character. Gauri took such a step just because of lack of experience. Coming to uniting JaAn, CVs showed the ill effects of child marraige and explained the legalities of child marraiges. At the same time, they will show the mahaantha of Indian marriage system.
Coming to Jagya, he is the most confused and cunning person I have ever seen. He is in the first night room with Gauri, but thinking about the days with Anandi. He loves Anandi, but he don't know and realized that and he was attracted to Gauri as she is upto his expectations (salwar kameez, education, modern thinking etc). But she is not suitable for his attitude. Because both of them have the same attitude of dominating people. So, two like minds won't stay together. That is why whenever they come close, there will be a big fight between them. I think Gauri will be separated and do some samaj seva and will marry that NRI guy after bade papa convincing him. I think we have watch this serial at least for coming 6 months.
I hope CVs gives a happy ending to Balika Vadhu...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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that is what most likely going to happen madhu.

Thats the way this story is going to be handled , whether we like it or not
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Posted: 14 years ago
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@bmadhu2006,

Sorry to step in with ur reasoning to Anu's post about Gauri's lack of experience, well i respectfully disagree, what experience does Anandi has , she has spend years in that haveli cooking food, praying in that temple and serving others. She has much more experience in mollycoddling Jagat, she spend her whole lyf being a fodder to Jaggu's ego. Her lack of education, professional aspirations were the biggest reason for Jagat's feeling of self promotion and his arrogance. SHe has just seen the facets of lyf as the beendhni of the Singh family not as Anandi, an individual.

Gauri , will never have my sympathy, coz she married a much married man and is rather than blaming Jaggu is cursing Anandi left, right and centre. But whatever her flaws be we cannot disassociate the fact that she atleast enjoyed the freedom to make her choices be it wrong or right. She has a profession to fall back on.Her lack of experience in not being a beendhni or realizing the legal mess can never explain the hurry or need for that quick marriage. Whatever happens in the future atleast it will be her own choices and decisions , she can atleast alayz have her own identity as a Doctor, take away Anandi's last surname what does she has?

And if u say that Jaggu's thinking is more align with Anandi becoz of her experience of marriage and al.l then that is indeed regretful, it is assuming that an independent , educated woman cannot successfully manage a relationship, she will not understand the importance of marriage. Ths is like saying marry girls and keep them home and room around with educated girls to look cool.

Jaggu never luved anyone , lets be clear on that, he has alwayz loved himself, he remembers A only when if realizes that Gauri answers him back or is not serving his ego.He cannot fathom a girl be more successful and independent than him.


The only happy ending BV should have is 1st to see J in jail or in some hole drinking to his misery, Gauri apologizing to Anandi for everything and leaving to discover her Jaggu free lyf while Anandi completes her education and embarks on her career while taking care of the Singh family emotionally and financially not the other way around!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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i never felt til now j ever luved anandi,it was more of excitement between teenagers.n if show jaan together then wats the msg?if tomorow anandi tries to stop child mariges then the vilagers wil say u r nicely happy in ur life n wants to stop my daughter s wedding.is it nt the waste of al these 6 months watever we saw.nways my msg to everyone is just watch show ,relax,dnt analyse the future story bcoz dat wil cause tension n we wont be able to enjoy the episode.

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