@bmadhu2006,
Sorry to step in with ur reasoning to Anu's post about Gauri's lack of experience, well i respectfully disagree, what experience does Anandi has , she has spend years in that haveli cooking food, praying in that temple and serving others. She has much more experience in mollycoddling Jagat, she spend her whole lyf being a fodder to Jaggu's ego. Her lack of education, professional aspirations were the biggest reason for Jagat's feeling of self promotion and his arrogance. SHe has just seen the facets of lyf as the beendhni of the Singh family not as Anandi, an individual.
Gauri , will never have my sympathy, coz she married a much married man and is rather than blaming Jaggu is cursing Anandi left, right and centre. But whatever her flaws be we cannot disassociate the fact that she atleast enjoyed the freedom to make her choices be it wrong or right. She has a profession to fall back on.Her lack of experience in not being a beendhni or realizing the legal mess can never explain the hurry or need for that quick marriage. Whatever happens in the future atleast it will be her own choices and decisions , she can atleast alayz have her own identity as a Doctor, take away Anandi's last surname what does she has?
And if u say that Jaggu's thinking is more align with Anandi becoz of her experience of marriage and al.l then that is indeed regretful, it is assuming that an independent , educated woman cannot successfully manage a relationship, she will not understand the importance of marriage. Ths is like saying marry girls and keep them home and room around with educated girls to look cool.
Jaggu never luved anyone , lets be clear on that, he has alwayz loved himself, he remembers A only when if realizes that Gauri answers him back or is not serving his ego.He cannot fathom a girl be more successful and independent than him.
The only happy ending BV should have is 1st to see J in jail or in some hole drinking to his misery, Gauri apologizing to Anandi for everything and leaving to discover her Jaggu free lyf while Anandi completes her education and embarks on her career while taking care of the Singh family emotionally and financially not the other way around!!
Edited by charminggenie - 14 years ago