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vivacious_priya

@vivacious_priya

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Why Gauri always compares herself wid Anandi?????????
Why d educated MS pursuing city gal Gauri always wants to become like a 12th pass village gal Annadi????
What is dere to compare
Jagat loves Gauri... Left Anandi... He is living wid Gauri has done marriage wid her although dats of no use😉
okk so if gauri wants d comparison let me compare
1) A is a less educated village gal
G is MS pursuing modern gal.
2) A is now very much confident dat wat she has to go for her aim n has self confidence.
G is also confident to go for her aim but has less self confidence.
3) A is calm n patient
G's silencer can burst out anytime
4) She got J's love but not called d legal wife
A is d poor soul who is abandoned by her husband but still she is d legal wife
5) A first thinks about others n den takes her decission.
G can never do dis.
6) When Jaan was dere A never had a shaq on J
In JAGO/GAGA G is always insecure, jealous, and have a shaq on Jagat.
7) Acc to A ashirwad can never be snatched its d blessing of elders wat dey can give when dey really want
But acc to G yaar chodo i think all of u know G ko ASHIRWAD CHAHIYE😆
8) A never compares herself wid G
but G always..
9) A never has shouted on anyone in d family or in front of elders
but G hmmm😆
10) JAGO/GAGA relation started wid lie as not only J but G has also lied to him abt her childhood marriage.
but A has never lied anything to her love..

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Khusi

@khusi_*

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Posted: 14 years ago

she just wants the position of anandi...anyhow!!

jagiya's beendni...not jagat's wife!

haveli's beendni...not just blessing!

sumitra's ladoo...not only DIL!

jagdish's respect for anandi...not only jagat's love!!

today's episode is the so clear on that!!

she doesnt trust jagat...!!

just want anandi out of jag's life!!

the girl seriously need some help!!

koi iske badepapa ko mail karo yaa!!

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vivacious_priya

@vivacious_priya

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: khusi_*
she just wants the position of anandi...anyhow!!

jagiya's beendni...not jagat's wife!

haveli's beendni...not just blessing!

sumitra's ladoo...not only DIL!

jagdish's respect for anandi...not only jagat's love!!

today's episode is the so clear on that!!

she doesnt trust jagat...!!

just want anandi out of jag's life!!

the girl seriously need some help!!

koi iske badepapa ko mail karo yaa!!

yes khushi she wants to be d haveli's beendni who can never follow d customs of d family... like eating in beend's thali or doing a pallu..

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woman11

@woman11

Voyager

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Posted: 14 years ago

yes priya. Gauri's mission in life revolves around her competition with Anandi. And ironically she goes and lectures Anandi about how she should stop fighting Gauri😛 Who is in a battle here? Who remembers the saut day and night even in her absence?😛

Gauri is not happy with Jagya being with her, she wants Jagya to stop respecting Anandi. Anandi is not even entitled to respect, Gauri has the sole right to it.

Gauri wants the haveli people to stop loving Anandi and give her that position.
Gauri wants Phooli to be her best friend, not Anandi's.
Gauri wants Nandu to consider her as his bhabisa, not Anandi.
Gauri wants Anandi's tea-making rights
Gauri wants Anandi's status in front of the villagers
Gauri wants to be called mahaan like Anandi without having an iota of her qualities
Gauri is jealous of Anandi's ghagra and jwellery, the tiffin box Sumitra gives her, Anandi's gatte making skills and maybe Anandi's status as an abandoned woman which brings her sympathy.

So what should Anandi have in Gauri's opinion? NOTHING.

Gauri's fight is solely with Anandi and Anandi only. She is not concerned about her career, her own status as a mistress, her own future, her own life. All she bothers about is her comparison with Anandi.

If this is not obsession what is??

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nihsheeth

@nihsheeth

Beginner

Posted: 14 years ago

what a blind character g is😡

cunn c anything ...aankh sey andhi, dil sey andhi dimag sey to total fuse😕

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

Sparkler

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Posted: 14 years ago

LOL Anthara and kushi and priya you guyz SUMMED IT all up!!

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charminggenie

@charminggenie

Stunner

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Posted: 14 years ago

Antara and priya ,

Nicely quoted, it is the bigest irony that she blames Anandi for everything in her lyf, she mocked Anandi on studying further, she despises Anandi for the luv and the respect she has not only from the SIngh family but Jaggu dada as well.

SHe doesnt trust the luv that Jaggu shwos for her , she is constantly under the fear that Anandi will snatch her Jaggu.

She should understand the trials and the troubles that Anandi went through all this, and if she is truely in luv with Jagat then she should embrace the fact that Anandi will alwayz be a part of his lyf, yet here she driven by her own insecurity which i guess would be a constant can of worms in this relation and I for one am glad about it.

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vivacious_priya

@vivacious_priya

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

God knows when Gauri's frustration will calm down...
😡
U know my dad is ardent fan of BV..
he was saying cvs can do dis if one day Annadi will become a big social worker and also a politician and one day she will be called as a chief guest in d hospital where Gauri is a employee...
Gauri ke to hosh ud jaiyenge...😆
in short by higher education G can never take place of Anandi neither socially nor even mentally!!

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vivacious_priya

@vivacious_priya

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

One more thing i forgot to mention
if u all remember G's dialogue yesterday at d college dean office she said sir hum logo ki sewa karna chahte hai hume 1 chance dijye... seems G is going to give competition to Anandi in d social work mission too...
ok may be G can do social work but how can she say dat on d behalf of J... someone should tell her how J bashed d poor villager who came to him for his cure when his hospital in Jaytsar was opened...🤢
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642126

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Gauri still has that inferiority complex and unresolved feelings of resentment and neglect since childhood!😡

The worst part is that she has selective memory! She remembers that Anandi had broken her and Jagya's gathbandhan, but why doesn't she remember that she herself never wanted to get married? Why doesn't she remember that even Jagya had said at that time - Meri beendni toh Anandi hai na, main kisi aur se shaadi kaise kar sakta hoon??!

Her parents had left her to die in rain outside Singh haveli. It was Anandi who had helped her, attended to her and taken care of her. She had talked to her and both girls had discussed how child marriage had crippled their lives! How they had been tricked by adults!

BUT NO! This girl does not remember any of that. All she remembers is her stopping of pheras by Anandi!😡

She was pissed off seeing even the villagers respect her. She thought everyone will kick out Anandi since she was modern, educated and perhaps a finer version of Anandi - educated plus skilled in household work (as per her!).

She is pained, not because of herself, but seeing the immense importance and attachment of Singh family to Anandi. She cannot fathom how they could ignore their son for her!

Perennially jealous, always comparing herself to others. Big time inferiority complex, despite having attained education, independence, support from parents and having the man of her choice by hook or crook!

Why couldn't she get a sense of achievement of self respect even after standing on her own feet? Why such low self esteem till date?😲

Her esteem will go further into gutters when she will learn that it is Anandi who's been financing her studies and her poha/chaats!🤢

Gauri dear you needed to have thought earlier. You should have been with a man for whom you were the original person in his life. You yourself chose to go on with a second hand guy and replace the woman in his life!

Sorry for Gauri. Her whole life is not for her but for proving a point to someone else or having a one up over someone else!

Strange how she can trust Jagat still. Such a man can lie and move over to some other woman too, even after you get him divorced from his first wife!

Bachpan ki zidd poori karne ke liya apni saari zindagi daav par laga di hai. Jagya is not worthy of a woman like you Gauri or a woman like Anandi!