Is Jagya really Anandi's True Love???

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have always wondered whether J (I hate to take his full name too!!!😡) is really Anandi's true love as the Creatives have lead us to believe..for the following reasons!!!..

Firstly..J & A have been together right from their childhood..and have fought,bickered & stuck to each other as how any normal friends would do at that age and this has grown with their age too and cannot be really construed as true love...as we all know that at times true friendship is more powerful than love!!!

Secondly...Anandi is a shown as a very matured person (tooo matured at times i feel!!!)..who has an indepth understanding of how every relation is to be handled..and hence has been a perfect wife & a bahu... In rural india it is instilled very early in the minds of young gals that pati is parmeshwar...and his antics have to be tolerated ...blah blah 😡😡!!!.Guys...pati can never equal God at any day (he is human after all...and has his flaws!!!...)...Anandi too has been influenced by these values to an extent that she has overlooked all the flaws in his personality and still proclaims to love him..!! ...Well. one might love & support and at times may be also forgive their friends for such blunders..but I guess one will not have the same levels of tolerance in case their beloved cheats on them with another person...!!

Finally..just as J hasnt had much interaction with gals other than Anandi & Phooli during his growing up years..(.Its only after he goes to mumbai he is in a group of guys & gals )..so has Anandi not known any other guys apart from Jagya..so she hasnt really known what true love might be if given a chance (am not saying that J & G ' love is true!!)...for her Jagya has been her entire world till this date...so there has really been no opportunity for her to discover whether the emotions which she feels for Jagya is true friendship or true love!!...If we were to forget for a moment that J&A are married since childhood..the relationship looks like a perfect friendship (from Anandi's side atleast)..and doesnt sound like true love!!!

JUST HOPING ANANDI FINDS HER TRUE LOVE WHICH SHE SO MUCH DESERVES!!!😊😊

...AND CVs...DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!!!


WHAT DO YOU SAY EVERYONE????...AWAITING COMMENTS..



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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi needs to get out from the village and get more exposure...she hasent known anyone except j so naturally she feel's he is her true love...I want I have had enough of jaitser...CVs should show her going out to a normal college...get a makeover and then fall in love with someone good who truly deserves her.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Anandi loves Jagya, with his faults and goodness. and thats given.

Jagya never loved Anandi, he always used her and was attracted to her physically and probably cared about her at one point.


Now,
When Anandi goes to the city , and starts seeing some other guy and starts seeing how nicer people are there in the world compared to Jagya.. will she fall for so and so.

hmmm
Now the big question is,

lets say Anandi and jagya are married and she gets an opportunity to see men who are better than Jagya in all aspects. Will she start flirting with them and start having an extra marital relationship because she will realize that , well I never loved Jagya because we were married young but I like this so and so now.

hmm?



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you are asking this question because Jagya has left Anandi and there is a scope for her to get another man in her life. What if she was still married to jagya.

Remember that Question taht Gehna asked Sumitra , when she said, how will it be when there would be another man in Anandi's room just like how gauri is in Jagya's room now and,. if we were asked to be patient. Would we be patient?

Remember the face of Sumitra...


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Its not about opportunities , or exposure. Anandi has seem some great men in her life,

Bhairav, shayam who are examples of educated men with good morals.
And she is a woman of high moral. And even though now, if she gets an opportunity to go to college and meets men , more better and worthier than Jagya, will she just start a new life with them?

I do not think so.

a) She has been seasoned like that and it won't change. No matter how much the exposure.

b) She is still in love with jagya and after being so hurt by him, will never get that vulnerable side out ever again.


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Its a complicated Question with a simple answer No.

and thats the reality of it.




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Posted: 14 years ago
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Choice of selection has 2 b respected by all means!!
But the right choice certainly takes some time !!
Anandi had enough of time to study J & then after convinced that he really wanted her at one point of time (may b due 2 phy..reasons) & also as a childhood friend who can understand her very well...she kept her first crush as deity of her heart n living 'through as any normal wife..
when the definitions are changed for no fault of her it would certainly a blow to the long cherished beliefs ..& if a 16 year long companionship is changed in a fraction of time span,,,whom could she believe & on what basis for how long?J's action certainly breaks belief on the entire men!!And to heal n convince her, takes ages for any guy...Any how,let's hope 4 d best!!
I always wanted A 2 lead a happy married life!!

But since the story is of a social reformer,she might not marry as the people are her children,brothers n sisters,mothers n fathers..

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