BV and my personal life - Page 2

hello friend, I also am an occassional reader in this forum...
i am not at all sure what to write, or with what words to reach you, which words can soothe ur aching heart...but still, i want to tell you that Im really touched by the way you told you story and let you let your heart speak...

I have always thought that grief connects ppl in a very sacred way.dear, everyone in this world suffers hardships...some suffer less, some a bit more..and some more than that, one cannot stamp out the sorrows life has for us...but victory always comes to those who are pure at heart and strong throughout just like your mom..she not only got pain but also two angels who will stand by her as her pillars throughout her life...
I know and have experienced that God is there, He sees and is the good judge and also He loves everyone and rewards those who patiently walk in His ways .

and coming to the show, the point that Balika Vadhu is still on and Anandi is still fighting,with all her strength,living and standing up for and on her beliefs, speaking abt on the injustice done towards her shows it all

ohh... i have nothing to say other than one line!!

THank u all, you all are very nice. I felt good after reading your posts. Ma, sister and I are happy now. I am earning and I can look after ma. My sister is also doing her graduation. She will also work after her studies. Yes, ma is very brave, but she had a lot of pain in her life. I really do not bilive in god after seeing her pain so i do not know if god will punish pitaji. I just hope god gives no more pain to ma.
Thank u again. i did not want simpathy from you. I only shared my life because I get very sad when I see men like Jagya. Maybe my pitaji also did second marriage for same cause. He did not like my mother anymore. I don't know...I think nothing will happen to Jagya and Gowri. Becos this is like reality.

Seema, your story almost made me cry...

Seema, even if your ma and pita ji had drifted apart, you and your sis deserved your father's love and support. However, you had rock solid support of your wonderful mom to take care of you...Now that you are grown, you really don't need him to get punished/not punished, for you to make life beautiful for you and your mom. Probably he is sick, suffering from a mental issue...if possible forgive him...if not, let him be, let him go...let his thoughts vanish away...
he is not like any of these tv characters...perhaps he is a different kind of person...perhaps he had some childhood issues or mental problems that he failed to give you a father's love.

also pls don't connect your father to jagya, if possible dont even think about it ...these Tv characters are not worth relating to...😊

P.S. to everyone else:
I will again repeat to all the posters---please refrain from making associations in Seema's life to the characters being shown in the serial. Its really not healthy for such mental associations to exist.

How do we know, that the memory/knowledge gaps that she has of her parents relation...in what way they are being filled by these reel characters...and how will it emotionally affect her?The TV serial producers are doing enough damage already...lets not add to it, and make her connect more to this crap they show on TV...

Originally posted by: seemajain

THank u all, you all are very nice. I felt good after reading your posts. Ma, sister and I are happy now. I am earning and I can look after ma. My sister is also doing her graduation. She will also work after her studies. Yes, ma is very brave, but she had a lot of pain in her life. I really do not bilive in god after seeing her pain so i do not know if god will punish pitaji. I just hope god gives no more pain to ma.
Thank u again. i did not want simpathy from you. I only shared my life because I get very sad when I see men like Jagya. Maybe my pitaji also did second marriage for same cause. He did not like my mother anymore. I don't know...I think nothing will happen to Jagya and Gowri. Becos this is like reality.

Dear Seema

Your story is so touching!! I truly wish the three of you the very best in life ahead. Your mom is a brave woman as she withstood all the injustice but did not let go of her girls. Instead she stood by you two so you could become independent.

Study hard and support your sister and mom, you are already doing a wonderful job. It is so important for girls to be financially independent these days and I am sure you understand why.

Do not worry about God punishing your father or grandmother. They are irrelevant to your current life. My life has taught me that while we wait for the evil to be punished we are wasting our precious minutes to see that happen. Instead, shift your focus to your current life, your group of friends, your sister. Take your mom out to movies, to eat "chaat", to shopping. Go on short trips with your sis and mom and have a blast.

The only way you can show that you TRULY WON is by living life on your own terms and living a LIFE BINDAAS!! Thats the best punishment to anyone who abandoned you and wished you evil.

I too have shaken belief in God due to my own experiences, therefore, I have stopped praying. I only believe in doing what is right by my conscience and making sure I do not hurt deliberately hurt other people. That is really all you need to know to lead a blessed life.

Good wishes.

Originally posted by: seemajain

THank u all, you all are very nice. I felt good after reading your posts. Ma, sister and I are happy now. I am earning and I can look after ma. My sister is also doing her graduation. She will also work after her studies. Yes, ma is very brave, but she had a lot of pain in her life. I really do not bilive in god after seeing her pain so i do not know if god will punish pitaji. I just hope god gives no more pain to ma.
Thank u again. i did not want simpathy from you. I only shared my life because I get very sad when I see men like Jagya. Maybe my pitaji also did second marriage for same cause. He did not like my mother anymore. I don't know...I think nothing will happen to Jagya and Gowri. Becos this is like reality.

Seema, Stay strong for your mom and sister. My cousin's husband had run away leaving behind two kids. The baby was just 6 months. My cousin had BA degree, even though she was educated it took her couple of years to accept the reality around her. We are very proud of her now. She completed law with two small kids and now is now is a powerful attorney. She is raising two beautiful confident children. There is always light at the end of the tunnel.

I'll pray for your success Seema 😊 May your mom derive all the happiness of her life from your success😊

Seema i have no words to comment ... but i want to say that your father will face the conciquences of what he has done ... yourdadi too will face same humilation .. just have faith in Almighty . Your mother is a brave woman be her strength which u r already .. be more focused and reach to the position where your father n adi would realize that what they have loose ... salute for your mom's braveness

ur mother need to put ur father behind the bars!!