BV and my personal life

I am silent member of forum and sometimes read many posts. I never wanted to comment in discusions because the story of BV is very personal to me. I did not wanted too much involve with the serial. so I only read the other posts. But yesterday's episode made me very sad and I want to post. I want to tell my personal story. My pitaji and ma was married in our village when they were before 18. My dadi was very strict lady and punished my ma for cooking, doing household works etc. But my ma is very pacient and keep silent all the time. She was happy because pitaji took care of her. I and my sister was born before pitaji went to the city for job. My dadi not allowed my ma go with pitaji and said bahu should stay in village and do duties.
Pitaji send money to my dadi and ma got very little. Still she send me and my sister to school and we got education. My pitaji came home sometimes and then we were happy. But only for few days, then again pitaji left and we stayed in village. Then my pitaji stopped coming home for 1 year. My ma wanted to find out and go to the city but my dadi said no need. Finally after 4 months we hear pitaji married a second wife in the city. The whole village got news about my pitajis second marriage and asked us. I was in class 8 then and my sister was in class 6, everybody teased us in school and we were very ashemed. My dadi told us to get out of the house and ask my ma to go to mama's house. My ma cried a lot but nobody had pity. We came to my mama's house. My mama was kind but my mami was angry. Finally she also let us stay there. My ma worked in a shop and got money for our studies. Many people taunted us but my ma was very brave. She cried and was very sad, but never show to anyone. Now I work and look after my ma and my sister.

My pitaji is happy with dusri shadi and my dadi goes to visit them in the city. We have no contact with them but hear news from other people. I am ashemed to call them pitaji and dadi. I have no interest, but I learnt one thing. Nothing happens to people like my pitaji and dadi when they do wrong. They live happily and bhagwan does nothing. Only my ma got pain all her life. And god punishes my ma only. Nothing bad happens to people like Jagya and Gowri, they live happily. God will only punish people like Anandi. Only good peopel suffer in real life and those who do wrong live happily. Jagya and Gorwi will live happily .I am sorry for telling you my personal story but yesterday's episode made me very sad. I don't comment on posts usually, I am sorry if I offend anyone with my post.

Very touchy and real story. I can just salute ur mother for her brave attitude and wish all happiness in life which I hope u two daughter will give her. I hope now atleast people will understand wht Jogia did was wrong. I hv nothing to add here.

i salute ur mom. very heart touching story. hope u n ur sister give her all the happiness she deserves and take care of her.

your mom is really brave!! Very touchy real life story...i wish u and ur mom the best of everything. i m sure God will look after all the injustice done!

seema ur story is really touching & i was feeling so sad!!😭😭😭 but believe me theres justice!! 😊😊though it may b late but defntly justice will b done in both reel & real. kahten hain naa"bhagwaan ke ghar der hai andher nahi"!! so keep up ur strength 2 support ur mom & sis!!😊😊

Originally posted by: Heenap

your mom is really brave!! Very touchy real life story...i wish u and ur mom the best of everything. i m sure God will look after all the injustice done!

don't leave the belief in god definitly god will do some thing that will make ur family's life according to ur ma's ambitions...i salute ur mom...wil pray 4 u and ur family... may god bless u and ur family

Seema, I could not like your story because it made me sad, but all 3 of you are brave women. I know that this is something that happens IRL. I admire your strength.

Really feel for you...and your courage commands respect and much appreciable. I pray and hope you get even stronger...and life gets better for you.

To everyone...pls don't compare her situation to the serial characters and make her feel worse. She has gone through much more compared to ALL the issues we r talking abt...its the pain of a father abandoning responsibilities of his children...and no financial support to mother, who has single handed taken the responsibilities of her children, with no resources. This is 100 times more serious than all the issues we have discussed...the characters have struck a chord with her--but don't define her situation, which has been so much more challenging, and her mother is so brave and respectable compared to all these un-real characters...

Wish you the best Seema, you deserve much more happiness...and you'll get it..😊

oH MY!!!!!...I had tears in my eyes while reading your story, but my tears are mostly for your thoughts on how God works. I know you maybe Hindu and i am a christian, but we all believe in God. My bible say all things work together for the benefit of those who love God.

It may seems they are not punish and they are living their lives happily, but wait and see. God is waiting for the right time to do his things...he doesn't work by our clock. ...not our time. Sometimes we want something right now!, but God gives us that thing when we need them. Their Punishments may come when they will not have a way out. Maybe if they are punished now! it may not really be clear to you since you dont have connects with them, so God may want to wait until when you, your sister and your mom to be in a position where only you can safe them...only then will their punishment come.

I would tell you never lose Faith in God ( he knows whats best for us...okay?) and work hard...its known that the best way to put the evil doers in shame is when we are successful and happy.So just please be happy and continue to work hard and I promise you ...