I do think that bhairon and sumitra have put good sense into anandi.
Sumitra held anandi's hand and said to her 'do you have no self-respect? Why are you still putting sindoor after such a big insult?"Bhairon also said he would marry her off.Infact, anandi too has come around when she took the glasses out of jagya's hand and said "let us all accept the fact that it is over and not keep all sorts of mementos dangling".Anandi has done nothing to show gauri that she is interested in J at all.It is J who was running after the jeep, it was J who went to meet her at school, it was J who went to the cowshed in the middle of the night.So I think it is silly for G to assume that A is after him and needs to move on.That is just 'kaan mein phoonkh' from sumitra 😆As far as G's assumption that A is trying to become a doctor to win J's love back - that is ridiculous. Does she assume that A will just stay here in the haveli -- beendhless and uneducated to boot?She should have sense that A will educate herself and that bhairon will see to it that she is educated and she will now start taking a different direction back.