How does the legality of the JG marriage matter?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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I want to know what practical implications there would be for this couple even if the marriage were shown to them to be illegal - in the absence of anandi's unwillingness to file a case.
I mean they will just go to Mumbai and start living together like a married couple... and do everything like a married couple.
The only practical implication of this illegal marriage comes to light if Anandi were to file a case - then J will go to jail.
Everyone on the forum is saying that this will teach Gauri a lesson when she comes to know. But what lesson ? -- there will only be the initial "jhatka" - then she will forget it (given her short-term memory) and still continue to be J's wife in Mumbai.
Unless J goes to jail, (because he is the only culprit - he failed to reveal his marriage to anandi on the court document) - there will be no implications for gauri so what lesson will she learn?
BTW, out of curiosity, how do they document this child marriage of A and J? Does the village sarpanch and any two witnesses have to give testimony in court that these two were indeed married as children? what are the proofs they have to provide?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

I want to know what practical implications there would be for this couple even if the marriage were shown to them to be illegal - in the absence of anandi's unwillingness to file a case.

I mean they will just go to Mumbai and start living together like a married couple... and do everything like a married couple.
The only practical implication of this illegal marriage comes to light if Anandi were to file a case - then J will go to jail.
Everyone on the forum is saying that this will teach Gauri a lesson when she comes to know. But what lesson ? -- there will only be the initial "jhatka" - then she will forget it (given her short-term memory) and still continue to be J's wife in Mumbai.
Unless J goes to jail, (because he is the only culprit - he failed to reveal his marriage to anandi on the court document) - there will be no implications for gauri so what lesson will she learn?
BTW, out of curiosity, how do they document this child marriage of A and J? Does the village sarpanch and any two witnesses have to give testimony in court that these two were indeed married as children? what are the proofs they have to provide?



Agree completely with u.. that is one of the reason I don't want them to know now... If they know later after settling down in Mumbai and posing themself as couple to their friends then it will have some jatka, becoz both will fear their credibility and be scared to save their face.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: tinoo

I want to know what practical implications there would be for this couple even if the marriage were shown to them to be illegal - in the absence of anandi's unwillingness to file a case.

I mean they will just go to Mumbai and start living together like a married couple... and do everything like a married couple.
The only practical implication of this illegal marriage comes to light if Anandi were to file a case - then J will go to jail.
Everyone on the forum is saying that this will teach Gauri a lesson when she comes to know. But what lesson ? -- there will only be the initial "jhatka" - then she will forget it (given her short-term memory) and still continue to be J's wife in Mumbai.
Unless J goes to jail, (because he is the only culprit - he failed to reveal his marriage to anandi on the court document) - there will be no implications for gauri so what lesson will she learn?
BTW, out of curiosity, how do they document this child marriage of A and J? Does the village sarpanch and any two witnesses have to give testimony in court that these two were indeed married as children? what are the proofs they have to provide?


As far as proving J/A's child marriage is concerned, testimony by villagers is sufficient. Not to forget, DS likes to take family photos every once in a while, so they can carry some of those to show that Anandi was indeed a part of the family. With mangal-sutra. sindoor etc, it should be easy to identify that she was a beendni of the household. Ab Nandu ki beendni to ho nahi sakti 🤣, Anandi ki age-group ka ek Jagya hi hai šŸ˜† to ussi ki hogi na šŸ˜†.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Waise I was wondering the same thing.
I'd love to see jag going to court and having to pay allimony to anandi

but if they go to court, won't the rest of the fam. also have to face courttrials since ja-an and jagauri were underage at the time of their marriagešŸ˜•?
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Posted: 14 years ago
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it matters because gauri is very insecure towards jagya and its only legality of her marriage giving her power to face every one.deep down in heart she always knew their is some feelings exist between anadi and jagya so she will always have a fear of losing jayga which is her punishment
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mlbr

it matters because gauri is very insecure towards jagya and its only legality of her marriage giving her power to face every one.deep down in heart she always knew their is some feelings exist between anadi and jagya so she will always have a fear of losing jayga which is her punishment

Complety agree !!!
Gauri is being too insecure about her pati ... The "Erks and Irks" and the teeth biting she did 😔 while Anandi stopped her mum from taking her away from haveli clearly said she is insecure. She always wants to remind people and tell people that Jagya uska pathi hain ... everytime she says it, she gets on to my nerves 1. because of Anandi who choose to not reveal the fact abt the legality of the marriage and 2. because Gauri is constantly uttering the same words like she is scared people with snatch her husband again like it happened earlier. She really needs to know that Anandi is Jagya's wife and not her. Like a lot of others, though I dont wan to see Jagya and Anandi together but I wan Jagya and Gauri to realise and know what they are doing.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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this will bring one more thing in the show.. "Jag asking for Divorce from Anandi".. 🤢

probably thts why they r making this a factor.

aree... gauri ke bade papa kab apna role nibhayenge??šŸ˜†
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Posted: 14 years ago
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1stly.. tho child mrgs r illegal bt if happened, the court protects the child brides rights by terming the mrg legal if thy stay as H_W in society for a number of years and also if none of thm file case of divorce within 2 years after attaining maturity..

the legality of J_G's mrg is the last straw for G.. thr mrg is not accepted socially.. the only score she had was the legal one.. now it too gone she has no claims..

In eyes of villagers, she is already the "other" woman, which she feels is derogatory.. now in eyes of law too she wud b "other" woman.. this is a big jolt for J.. who is trying to assert her rights and claims as beendni.. and trying to justify and explain her mrg to J..

I guess G wud completely break down.. she wudnt b able to handle this pressure.. and her insecurities and jealousy for A wud increase.. and wud never b able to trust J completely.. J is not going to help the matters either..
Edited by achiever - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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jagya doesnt know but anandi does, for anandi's sake after knowing the truth why be tied down by legality to a man who wants nothing to do with you. How can she be expected to carry on her life five years without really finishing off this jagya nonsense once for all. Once the legality thing is out everybody will know the truth and can decide what they want, also what will jagya reaction be OH NO or THANK GODšŸ˜†šŸ˜†, anyways if a divorce is asked let her give it and be finished with it, jagya clearly wants gauri as his wife then so be it. Also once this thing is final she can truly put jagya behind and move on with her life and get another partner later in life without having anything to hide, feeling awkward, asking for a divorce then etc. It will save her a lot of trouble in the long run. Let them know, jagya wants divorce let him ask for it and face the legal aspect...

Why should anandi later ask for a divorce, anandi did not want it, jagya wanted to remarry, let him ask the divorce. I just do not want her to be tied down even legally to jagya anymore, his sorry you-know-what needs to be kicked straight from jetsar to mumbai

My POV, pls do not gang up on me 😃😃
Edited by pratts - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: mlbr

it matters because gauri is very insecure towards jagya and its only legality of her marriage giving her power to face every one.deep down in heart she always knew their is some feelings exist between anadi and jagya so she will always have a fear of losing jayga which is her punishment


Looks like it is Anandi who will be paying him alimony now

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