Door shown to Jagya&Gauri - Article - Page 4

Originally posted by: hooked

Am not sure I like the amount of venom on this thread against Gauri..🤢

Please don't forget Jagya is the one who married her, he didn't tell her the whole truth about his family or Anandi and he also agreed to come here for blessings when Gauri insisted. He is also the one refusing to go from here when Gauri has been wanting to leave for quite sometime now...

Jagya saw/sees no responsibility towards Anandi or her parents. After all he was calling them Saasuma and Bapusa too...

Whether J & G can make a good life together in Mumbai shud be no concern to those who love Anandi. After all, if we decide that she deserves better and is free of him, then we can afford to forget Jagya and his reasons for opting out. Right ? Wishing him ill is just plain spiteful. He is suffering and will continue to do so..He may not show it but the humiliation of asking for money is there on his face. And he knows this is quicksand he is standing on. Tomorrow if Bahiron or Anandi have a change of heart - J will be nowhere.

So please - be a little reasonable in disliking Gauri. Put blame where its due.

👏Well said hooked ..

Originally posted by: pjyo

👏Well said hooked ..

He has made huge mistakes,gauri has made wrong choices but now they have to live with the choices they made...Even when he was begging to anandi he clearly said 🤔"i didnt marry her out of any majboori and that he loves her"-not the smartest thing to say when begging money from your ex-so in a way he is standing by his decision so far,for how long only time will tell..🤔

These two have messed up anandi life but wishing them ill isnt going to solve anandi's problems.Let jagya gauri live their lives and understand their mistakes ,let anandi make something out of her life ..🤔

well said hooked and jyoti 👍🏼one thing many ppl dont understand that if gaga spilit up there r many chances of ja an reunion, ds will be very happy with that and ppl who r praising ds for this game then will curse her when she will force anadi to accept jagya back😆😆

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

Good!!! I hope Anandi's parents demand that Anandi come back w/ them, and change her status to single, and continue working. I can't wait for Bairon and DS to have their heads handed over to them!!!

yaa me too hope khajan singh does not listen to anyone now, but yaar yeh power packed episode ke baad i expect lot of rona dhona again , and a will somehow convince her parents in the end too i feelwhat if ds tells them abt her masterplan of reuniting jagya anandi😲phir naa jaane kyaa hoga

Originally posted by: intruderfast

yaa me too hope khajan singh does not listen to anyone now, but yaar yeh power packed episode ke baad i expect lot of rona dhona again , and a will somehow convince her parents in the end too i feelwhat if ds tells them abt her masterplan of reuniting jagya anandi😲phir naa jaane kyaa hoga

Oh wow! sounds interesting...DS will find out about the locket! 😈Who'll save Jag now😆

You know anmol, i look at dadisa's planning a bit differently🤔-Yes,she has been extremly cruel in the past but here she is not doing anything deliberately to make gauri look bad,she is just accepting whatever gauri wants but gauri childishly keeps expecting everyone to give more importance to her and forget anandi...


@Jyo and Hooked exactly my thoughts . We are looking here to get A into a well settled life and happy life since this girl has never done anything to deliberately hurt anyone and has genuinely done things for others happiness at the cost of her own. If A is out of J and G life her happiness should not be based on their suffering. In fact their existence it self need not affect her or her happiness.

J and G both are wrong and insensitive in their approach. But at the end of the day it is their decision and hence they have to live with it weather the outcome may be good or bad. But at the same time they need not impose this decision of theirs on others and throw a tantrum and insult others who are not accepting this decision of theirs. That's absolutely not their call. If they were that concerned about family approval they should have done all this before the marriage and not now. By doing it now they are indirectly imposing their decision on others who don't want to be party to it. If they want every one to respect their decision they also need to do likewise rather than force themselves on others. They have tried from their end and are well aware of the reasons of the family's disapproval. So just move out. Under these circumstances even expecting the family to support their living and education expenses is not justified in my opinion. They are old enough and educated enough to make a living. They married each other and it was only their decision to do so. Hence they need to support each other and not expect the family to provide for them.

About DS i would like to add one thing. In marriage compatibility is very important. This is exaclty what DS has sensed. J attraction to G is with her modern outlook, her modern dressing and education. But how much of this he has in himself? He has changed his outlook after going to the city to blend himself there, but how much of that he actually believes in? Is it just a way of claiming himself to be modern? For that matter G herslef is from a small village and we have seen in the past that she doesn't really believe in what she says. J and G although lived together, they have not seen the real side of each other. G always knew Jagat not Jagdish and J always knew Gauri not gudiya. Moreover they have had a smooth sailing in mumbai but when faced with hardships, it is how these two react to it is what will decide their compatibility. They both are very similar with regard to being strong headed, stubborn, impatient, immature and doing things their own way. If no one is ready to compromise and be patient fights are bound to happen. If one person is angry, stubborn, etc the other needs to be the opposite to settle matters calmly and this is probably what DS saw lacking in G and J relationship which was not true for A and J. Initially they may be ok with fights but with time how serious these fights get or how much at peace of mind these guys are, only time will tell.

But I do not find DS deliberately doing anything to cause any misunderstandings. If G wants to be a beendni in the haveli which she craves for in every episode she will have to be able to tackle the atmosphere in the haveli the way it is.

Originally posted by: andv

You know anmol, i look at dadisa's planning a bit differently🤔-Yes,she has been extremly cruel in the past but here she is not doing anything deliberately to make gauri look bad,she is just accepting whatever gauri wants but gauri childishly keeps expecting everyone to give more importance to her and forget anandi...


@Jyo and Hooked exactly my thoughts . We are looking here to get A into a well settled life and happy life since this girl has never done anything to deliberately hurt anyone and has genuinely done things for others happiness at the cost of her own. If A is out of J and G life her happiness should not be based on their suffering. In fact their existence it self need not affect her or her happiness.

J and G both are wrong and insensitive in their approach. But at the end of the day it is their decision and hence they have to live with it weather the outcome may be good or bad. But at the same time they need not impose this decision of theirs on others and throw a tantrum and insult others who are not accepting this decision of theirs. That's absolutely not their call. If they were that concerned about family approval they should have done all this before the marriage and not now. By doing it now they are indirectly imposing their decision on others who don't want to be party to it. If they want every one to respect their decision they also need to do likewise rather than force themselves on others. They have tried from their end and are well aware of the reasons of the family's disapproval. So just move out. Under these circumstances even expecting the family to support their living and education expenses is not justified in my opinion. They are old enough and educated enough to make a living. They married each other and it was only their decision to do so. Hence they need to support each other and not expect the family to provide for them.

About DS i would like to add one thing. In marriage compatibility is very important. This is exaclty what DS has sensed. J attraction to G is with her modern outlook, her modern dressing and education. But how much of this he has in himself? He has changed his outlook after going to the city to blend himself there, but how much of that he actually believes in? Is it just a way of claiming himself to be modern? For that matter G herslef is from a small village and we have seen in the past that she doesn't really believe in what she says. J and G although lived together, they have not seen the real side of each other. G always knew Jagat not Jagdish and J always knew Gauri not gudiya. Moreover they have had a smooth sailing in mumbai but when faced with hardships, it is how these two react to it is what will decide their compatibility. They both are very similar with regard to being strong headed, stubborn, impatient, immature and doing things their own way. If no one is ready to compromise and be patient fights are bound to happen. If one person is angry, stubborn, etc the other needs to be the opposite to settle matters calmly and this is probably what DS saw lacking in G and J relationship which was not true for A and J. Initially they may be ok with fights but with time how serious these fights get or how much at peace of mind these guys are, only time will tell.

But I do not find DS deliberately doing anything to cause any misunderstandings. If G wants to be a beendni in the haveli which she craves for in every episode she will have to be able to tackle the atmosphere in the haveli the way it is.

Me just wondering why Jaggu dada is waiting for train tickets??? If he talks to Anandi again she will get them the jeep and GAGA can leave immediately.

Me bored with Gauri repeatedly asking why u hate us? she must have understood that clearly by now.

The show would be interesting if GAGA move to Mumbai back to normal set up and then the dynamics of their relationship is explored...I don't expect a rosy relationship between GAGA because Jagya is not a great guy for any girl to be with.

GAGA in haveli is a complete bore now and the reason for them staying back is even more stupid. CVs you spent so much of time showing GAGA romance in mumbai, so why r u now torturing us keeping them in haveli... Repeating the same dialogues between Gauri and singh family in different color costumes do not make it interesting.

Gauri has to keep asking the same coz as Antara said in another post - G has 'super brain wipers'.