toh kya Gauri galath hai? is she wrong?

Kya Gauri galath hai? disregarding what happened in the precap which was definately wrong.. I mean a girl whose husband, whose life, whose whole existence you have snatched from a small hands is actually defending you, and you turn around and accuse her, blame her, yell at her.. That is the most stupidest thisng Gauri could have done and Im actually happy that CVs are showing Gauri as not capable of being badi haveli's beendhni cause then justice can be served and we all dont feel bad when she is kicked out. anyways back to what i was saying

Kya Gauri galath hai? I mean Anandi was defending her but in no way can you excuse such behaviour. here she is going on about legal and illegal but the question isnt the legality of the marriage but how she was behaving. doesnt she realise that Anandi has lived in that house, been their beendhni for 12 years approximately.. does she really think that she can walk in, prove the legality of the marriage, which is actually illegal so she is wrong there as well, or say that they were the ones that got her married to jagya in childhood as well, and actually be proclaimed the beendhni of the house. I mean each and every memeber of the family is emotionally attached to Anandi and ashamed that their son could just walk out on her and she wants them to just leave Anandi and come treat her like a daughter in law. even mere habits take long to forget and change and Anandi is a living human being who has endured soo much and done soo much for the family and is still protecting their reputation. Not once has she made the whole family ashamed or treated her elders with disrespect. Just cause Gauri is from the city doesnt mean she can just change their culture and treat elders and guests with disrespect. There is such things as morals and sanskars. I mean i live in a modern country yet when i go to my home country i make sure i am dressed appropriately, that i speak with manners and dont raise my voice at anyone. I keep my morals with me. Gauri is not unfamiliar with this environment, infact she grew up in it, then she should know how to behave. Yes she has been treated badly and since Jagat got married to her, she does have rights. but she needs to take up her responsibilities before she is entitled to those rights. Even Anandi has put up and gone through a lot. I mean dadisa was horrible. Anandi gave up her education and her future for Jagya. and Gauri cant even keep her patience. Thats why i dont think Jagya love Gauri or vice versa cause they dont even know the real them. I mean Jagat doesnt know how gauri will act in the haveli and now he does. Yes she looks all great in the city but see her amongst your family. she just cant handle it. And Gauri loved jagat not jagya. she cant handle jagya at all. forget handling the family. do u think that this relationship will last. and then on top of that insecurities.

all in all i dont think gauri was right. she was wrong. but thats my opinion and guys lets not forget that this is a serial but i think that the way we discuss these shows help us understand who we are, what we think, how we think and what we tolerate and like. Maybe these things can help us decide what kind of life partners or friends we want. anyways thanks for reading this superlong post. tc😃

Lol i dont even know if that makes sense but i was trying to get my thoughts down b4 i forgot them so it might be a little muddled..

Angel x