i dont think asking such a question is dumb .the situation made her ask that question the way jagya seemed feeling bad ,confused ,a little different ,she is just r u feeling bad ,different ,then its natural becoz after all ur were married ,j was geting embarised for his behavoiur(for being uncomfortable) with gauri ,so she was just being comfortable with him as a friend before being a wife she is his friend,that was not any enquiry ,in first place if J would be comfortable with her ,not make an ugly face ,woudnt stare at anandi she wouldnt have said such a thing.we are simply blaming gauri.