Practicality of BV characters - Page 4

how can we say J luved ?? only time & CVs "ll tell wats going 2happen!! i may agree G luved J but not J as he start keeping distance from A wen he went 2 mumbai & met g & started comparing A wid G in reagard 2 her educn & dresses. and its only J who tricked DS 2 make A stop studying as she was getting better than him!!

Originally posted by: tiny15

how can we say J luved ?? only time & CVs "ll tell wats going 2happen!! i may agree G luved J but not J as he start keeping distance from A wen he went 2 mumbai & met g & started comparing A wid G in reagard 2 her educn & dresses. and its only J who tricked DS 2 make A stop studying as she was getting better than him!!

and luv doesn't mean u shud ruin their spouse's lives & esply those whose whole life surrounds their spouses!!if i ever i fell in luv wid sum1 & cums 2 know abt his marriage i won't marry him . as the prsn who cudn't remain faithful 2 his wife of so many yrs. then how can he remain loyal 2 me & above all just 4 my happiness i won't ruin sum1's life even though prsn tell me that i won't go back 2 my wife & etc.!!

and whos saying A shud accept J?? 2or 3 ppl want it but all oders r saying that A shudn't accept J back but G shudn't also get happiness as she intentionally & knowingly married a already a married prsn & hurt the same prsn who once in the childhood helped her wen G's parents'd left her at the doorsteps of Singh family after "mahapanchayat" nullified G's marriage wid J saying J is already married 2 A & at that time J also didn't want 2 get marry wid G!!

and wen G & J never though abt oder's happiness & esply A's then why shud we or A bother abt their happiness. they've right 2 wish that G & J won't live peacefully in the life!!

But the argment remains...Gauri didn't ruin Anandi's life..Jagya had ended his relation with Anandi anyways...so if Gauri had said "no" to Jagya...would Anandi's life be any better?

Originally posted by: hima_123

But the argment remains...Gauri didn't ruin Anandi's life..Jagya had ended his relation with Anandi anyways...so if Gauri had said "no" to Jagya...would Anandi's life be any better?

may b yes!! as she wudn't've 2 see their on-going romance series!!and A wud'd cope up easily!!and rejection might'd make J see sense as hes only infatuated wid G!! so 4 the "abnormal" ppl like me think that G has also played her role in ruining A's life!! may b 4 u its not unethical but i place human values above all!!i believe in live & let live & that rules can b changed but not moral & human values!! so whether G's "no" wud 'd make A's life better or not but atleast she shud b felt given justice!! wenever a murderer gets life sentence 4 sum1's family member does it make victim's family's life better or bring back the victim 2 them?? no but still we gave murderer either capital punishment or life sentence!! why we do this??😕😕

Originally posted by: tiny15

may b yes!! as she wudn't've 2 see their on-going romance series!!and A wud'd cope up easily!!and rejection might'd make J see sense as hes only infatuated wid G!! so 4 the "abnormal" ppl like me think that G has also played her role in ruining A's life!! may b 4 u its not unethical but i place human values above all!!i believe in live & let live & that rules can b changed but not moral & human values!! so whether G's "no" wud 'd make A's life better or not but atleast she shud b felt given justice!! wenever a murderer gets life sentence 4 sum1's family member does it make victim's family's life better or bring back the victim 2 them?? no but still we gave murderer either capital punishment or life sentence!! why we do this??😕😕

you mean Gauri should have punished Jagya on Anandi's behalf(by leaving him)...to make Anandi feel better?

Originally posted by: hima_123

But the argment remains...Gauri didn't ruin Anandi's life..Jagya had ended his relation with Anandi anyways...so if Gauri had said "no" to Jagya...would Anandi's life be any better?

@ Bold-- There was a fair chance na... As you know..even in the western world, lot's of marriage's fail because people cheat on their spouses (talking of those who get caught😆)...or may be fall out of love...or simply out - grow relationships... that doesn't mean they don't even start working to do damage control ..that's what pinches... People go visit counselor's, get family involved.. there's no guarantee that the relationship will start working.. but they atleast try na... As far as Gauri is concerned ... She should have ensured this guy doesn't have baggage...when she went on to investigate and found out all about him..shouldn't she have made sure that he's actually seperated? And as for Jagya..he's done something really unethical... does even a boyfriend break up on phone? That's really sad isn't it...

Originally posted by: hima_123

But the argment remains...Gauri didn't ruin Anandi's life..Jagya had ended his relation with Anandi anyways...so if Gauri had said "no" to Jagya...would Anandi's life be any better?

I disagree Ankit.. in reality.. ppl r more complex and with multitudes of situation affecting their decisions its hard to predict their next move..