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dolly

@tiny15

Stunner

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#61

Originally posted by: vasuja
Loving the discussions going on..

It will be difficult to say to Gauri, "she did not deserve it" if the marriage turns sour...The whole argument of Ga ga is that now they are grown up adults and mature to make decisions and they have made it accordingly...so the bad and good out of it is their responsibility..If J had married G without all the revelation then it would have been sad...He told the truth( though he conveniently hid many) and she accepted it in face value and went forward...she could have taken time to marry atleast, really try to understand the whole truth and clarify things,. agreed for 5 years she was blinded with love, but the revelation was shocking enough to open her eyes atleast slightly. but anyways it was her decision...It was a decision taken with complete sanity...So if it works out bad then she has no one other than herself to blamed for...unlike anandi she had a choice.Why blame the cheater alone when the victim herself help them in cheating...

it is not about hating her. it is the reality. when we are grown up we ahve rights and power to take decisions and the god and bad out of it is completely our responsibility...Their is no passing the buck here

i agree wid u completely!!👏👏 @bold i second u on this & the same is the case wid luv or luv cum arranged marriages that watever gud or bad outcum is there prsns've 2 take the responsibilities. bcoz they've taken decisions wen they r matured enough & know the consequences of their actions!! and i m not against luv marriage or luv cum arranged marriages my own sis'd luv cum arranged marriage & still she has 2 adjust a lot & wen u go 4 it ppl won't accept it easily so theres a lot of adjustments.

i rem a real life e.g. of dharmendra- hemamalini marriage. wen D stood 4 rajya sabha membership he'd mentione his wife & he mentioned Prakash Kaur as his wife & not Hema but wen Hema came 2 know abt it she was hurt( it was in the news at that time) then i wondered why was she hurt??😕🥱 didn't she marry D knowing his marital status??🥱why didn't she think abt D's 1st wife & her pain at that time?? bcoz she was blinded by her so called true luv!!🥱🥱and now shes paying 4 that wenever D has 2 announce his official/legal wife it'll always b Prakash & not Hema!!

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 14 years ago

#62

at the end the truth is that she isnt aware about JAAN relationship ,i know she is responsible for it ,but if she would react the same way if she knew the truth then say she doesnt follow what she preaches ,for her jagat is child marriage victim just like her ,she hates the tradition but not the victims of child marriage ,she just gave him right to live for himself .

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andv

@andv

Inactive

Posted: 14 years ago

#63

Originally posted by: intruderfast
ok sorry guys , i think i was harsh in my previous statements

i guess i was just upset on so much hate pouring out on gauri so i had to vent out some frustration

pls carry on with ur thinking, sorry anita😊

ab aapke koi fav character par itnaa buraa bhala kahe toh ek baar hurt hota hain

promise it wont happen next time

Aww Anmol absolutely not dear, I understand your state of mind. From your POV you are right and as I said its always good to see the other side of the coin atleast for me since it keeps my thinking realistic. I only wanted to clear mine that's it, was not supporting anyone or anything.

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ankit111

@ankit111

Rocker

Posted: 14 years ago

#64

Originally posted by: tanvismile
at the end the truth is that she isnt aware about JAAN relationship ,i know she is responsible for it ,but if she would react the same way if she knew the truth then say she doesnt follow what she preaches ,for her jagat is child marriage victim just like her ,she hates the tradition but not the victims of child marriage ,she just gave him right to live for himself .

if she still unaware abt truth, thn i can say tht she is really dumb, a educated dumb😆😆 Jagu dada hd narrated his own story telling his friends story. after revealing truth she sd connect it and sd hv realised tht it was his own story, secondly, whn Gehna explained the reality and Jaggu dada lost his words, again she sd realise tht Jaggu dada is not dudh ke dhule. did she clarified it. No na, instead started giving bhashan. thn who is to be blamed, if she dosnt want to see the fact, which is shouting before her tht Jaggu dada is a liar, cheater and a manipulator😡

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deep153134

@deep153134

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#65

VB Note: No name calling the characters. This will be considered bashing

Edited by ammoos - 14 years ago

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Teeya

@Teeya

Voyager

Posted: 14 years ago

#66

VB Note: No name calling the characters. This will be considered bashing

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priya

@priya_27_23

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#67

VB Note: No name calling the characters. This will be considered bashing

nice description 🤣

Edited by ammoos - 14 years ago

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amrapali dubey

@amrapali_dubey

Dazzler

Posted: 14 years ago

#68

VB Note: No name calling the characters. This will be considered bashing

Edited by ammoos - 14 years ago

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rucha

@patelcharu

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#69

Originally posted by: muktha_cute
atleast.she.is.better.than.anandi
she.got.wat.she.wants

Yes, she got what she want...but her character as Gauri didn't gain respect in family, society or no body sympthies with her except those who love her.

we all are as audiance don't like her because she and Jagya cheated Anandi. so whats point if she received what she wants. She was not welcomed in house like Anandi, She don't have place in families heart as Anandi has. and the most...somewhere in her heart she knows that she is 2nd wife not 1st in families eyes, and her action to get marry with J is not right.

She lost more that she gained. and Aanadi Gained more that lost.

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rucha

@patelcharu

Explorer

Posted: 14 years ago

#70

Originally posted by: muktha_cute
ya.every1.knows.who.is.the.legal.wife
and.how.much.value.does.a.child.marriage.have.infront.of.law
and.every1.knows.who.is.legally.the.first.wife.of.jagya
its.only.gauri.the.legal.first.wife.of.jagya

and..what.is.anandi.place.infront.of.law.and.society
may.be.a.second.women
as.their.marriage.is.ilegal.and.not.valid

and.every1.knows.what.is.the.status.of.anandi.in.society.a.
second.women
and.where.as.gauri.legally.the.wife.and.bahu.of.jagya.and.his
family

If you go by law than Gauri's question to DS is totally irrlavent...she is enough educated so she should not look for sympathy from DS..she should be happy that Panchayat dropped her Childhood marriage...she needs to be happy but she is not..and she is trying convince family based on child marriage.

Yes Gauri lawfully married to Jag...but she is still 2nd wife of Jag not Anandi...as Society thinks Anandi is Jag's wife...and If Anandi go to Court ...based on society's Gavahi she will be his first wife as in adulthood they lived togather before JAG left to Mumbai. and today there are many marriages take place based on ritual and witnesses and not registered in court...people live happily...so because they haven't register in court, will you call them unmarried? answer is no...because Law also says that Any wedding take place infront of GOD, and society with proper hindu wedding ritual consider as legally husband and wife.

Child marriage taken place and it will be illigal if in there adulthood they didnt comsumed eachother...so still Anandi is his 1st wife and Gauri is 2nd.

and truly...if you fight on base of Law than...there is one law calls honesty...and our hindu ritual wedding considered to be married ...so as an humanity if you think than still Anandi is 1st and Gauri is 2nd.

Its not about LAW, or Legal...if thats the case than Family should haev accept them and throw Anandi out of house but they didn't do that.

Also Panchayet is LAW at the time they show this Show...the time they showed constitute was not that strong...or build...so A & J wedding is legal.

Sorry...but how much you will try to prove that Gauri is better, lawfull weded wife...etc...but at the end she is wrong...and so you are