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Posted: 14 years ago
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If I ever faced a situation like Anandi's, where my husband left me, finding faults in me then I would definately leave the house when he would bring the second wife.I believe there would be no point arguing with him, so I would act maturely and would try to forgive him the way Anandi did.

I may feel completely tortured, hurt or broken down by this act of his, but staying in the same house would hurt me even more, so I would move out of the house, continue with my career and settle down as much as I can.
Life may have something good stored for me as well, so I would wait for those moments to return to my life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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well if I was in this situation and Jag left me... ...I would consider it as his loss...yeahh whatever ! why would I bother?... AND I would start dating again...go out have fun...hit the nearest club in the town, down a couple of shots and dance the night away 😆 or may be go on a world tour or something...😆 (just kidding 😉) ...faltu mein uss bhootiya haveli mein kyon rehna? live life queen size ! I would have done something for "myself"
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: divmath

well if I was in this situation and Jag left me... ...I would consider it as his loss...yeahh whatever ! why would I bother?... AND I would start dating again...go out have fun...hit the nearest club in the town, down a couple of shots and dance the night away 😆 or may be go on a world tour or something...😆 (just kidding 😉) ...faltu mein uss bhootiya haveli mein kyon rehna? live life queen size ! I would have done something for "myself"


Kaashh it was so easy 😊 like the way you put it. I still have to hear my co-worker(who is an American) going on and on about her failed marriage. She is not hitting the club anytime soon. She is in the midst of dirty custody battle and it isn't pretty... I just count my stars I am not in Anandi's situation... that's all...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: redapple1


Kaashh it was so easy 😊 like the way you put it. I still have to hear my co-worker(who is an American) going on and on about her failed marriage. She is not hitting the club anytime soon. She is in the midst of dirty custody battle and it isn't pretty... I just count my stars I am not in Anandi's situation... that's all...


I know it ain't easy...I was just putting it lightly ..hence said JK 😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I have gone thru the pain that Anandi is going thru now. I was married at 16 when I was in 12 std. I gave birth to a child when I was 18. My husband remarried while I was at my parents house for my delivery. I got the news over the phone after my child was born. He didn't have the courage to call me, he called one of my uncle and gave this news. I didn't look back after that. I joined college, completed my studies, took a job and stayed with my parents. My parents were very supportive and helped me through out. My daughter is 16 now and I haven't repented even a single min of my life without him. I don't even know if he is dead or alive. For me he died the day he married someone else. In fact now as I looked back I think it was a blessing in disguise as I got the chance to study further and lead an independent and happy life.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: heal

I have gone thru the pain that Anandi is going thru now. I was married at 16 when I was in 12 std. I gave birth to a child when I was 18. My husband remarried while I was at my parents house for my delivery. I got the news over the phone after my child was born. He didn't have the courage to call me, he called one of my uncle and gave this news. I didn't look back after that. I joined college, completed my studies, took a job and stayed with my parents. My parents were very supportive and helped me through out. My daughter is 16 now and I haven't repented even a single min of my life without him. I don't even know if he is dead or alive. For me he died the day he married someone else. In fact now as I looked back I think it was a blessing in disguise as I got the chance to study further and lead an independent and happy life.


🤗🤗🤗 I salute you ! 👍🏼 ( I wont say sorry that it happened...because that would be an insult !) you rock ! really...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: heal

I have gone thru the pain that Anandi is going thru now. I was married at 16 when I was in 12 std. I gave birth to a child when I was 18. My husband remarried while I was at my parents house for my delivery. I got the news over the phone after my child was born. He didn't have the courage to call me, he called one of my uncle and gave this news. I didn't look back after that. I joined college, completed my studies, took a job and stayed with my parents. My parents were very supportive and helped me through out. My daughter is 16 now and I haven't repented even a single min of my life without him. I don't even know if he is dead or alive. For me he died the day he married someone else. In fact now as I looked back I think it was a blessing in disguise as I got the chance to study further and lead an independent and happy life.



its women like you that are called ICONS.👏 👏 👏. I am happy you see it as a blessing. you baby girl is lucky to be away from that Airhead!...I hope that you never gave up on true love...cos its out there...remain happy!!!!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: heal

I have gone thru the pain that Anandi is going thru now. I was married at 16 when I was in 12 std. I gave birth to a child when I was 18. My husband remarried while I was at my parents house for my delivery. I got the news over the phone after my child was born. He didn't have the courage to call me, he called one of my uncle and gave this news. I didn't look back after that. I joined college, completed my studies, took a job and stayed with my parents. My parents were very supportive and helped me through out. My daughter is 16 now and I haven't repented even a single min of my life without him. I don't even know if he is dead or alive. For me he died the day he married someone else. In fact now as I looked back I think it was a blessing in disguise as I got the chance to study further and lead an independent and happy life.



You are very courageous...👏! Very inspiring..😊
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Posted: 14 years ago
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If I were in Anandi's place...I would inform my parents,call them at Jagya's place...and put my situation in black and white in front of everyone ..and this is what I'd have said most probably to Jag's family, keeping my own family by my side...

"What is done is done...you guys need to welcome Jag's new wifey. I am not interested in going back to him anyways. Mumbai seems to be a good place than Jethsar...where Jags got his new wife and career. If this idiot can manage so much there, I guess, I being a state topper, could create wonders!!...Help me with an accommodation there, and my education and ofcours some decent allowance too...so that I too can live comfortably and focus on a career...

Also you people need not worry about finding a guy for me...I did quite a mistake letting you all decide things for me...but that's alright, I will find a guy on my own this time. Love ya people... We'll stay in touch...!"😳
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: hima_123

If I were in Anandi's place...I would inform my parents,call them at Jagya's place...and put my situation in black and white in front of everyone ..and this is what I'd have said most probably to Jag's family, keeping my own family by my side...

"What is done is done...you guys need to welcome Jag's new wifey. I am not interested in going back to him anyways. Mumbai seems to be a good place than Jethsar...where Jags got his new wife and career. If this idiot can manage so much there, I guess, I being a state topper, could create wonders!!...Help me with an accommodation there, and my education and ofcours some decent allowance too...so that I too can live comfortably and focus on a career...

Also you people need not worry about finding a guy for me...I did quite a mistake letting you all decide things for me...but that's alright, I will find a guy on my own this time. Love ya people... We'll stay in touch...!"😳



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