What Would You Do?

On the forum i have seen many posts about what Anandi should do, how Anandi should act and comments on her character.

if i would have been in anandi's place..i wud have left the haveli n gone to my mayeka n start with my studies.😛

Originally posted by: siyona

if i would have been in anandi's place..i wud have left the haveli n gone to my mayeka n start with my studies.😛

Originally posted by: Illyria

So why would you go back to you parents house and not stay in the haveli? What would your reasoning be to go back to studying, for yourself or to show Jagiya that you are not uneducated, or both?

Personally, I would stay in the my in laws or in a outhouse part of the haveli. I would not go back to my parents, because I know there is a very apparent stigma attached to women who leave their 'husbands' house and come back to their parents. I would not want to put my parents through that situation, or have them be the topic of conversation on anyone's lips.

I would carry on with my studies, both for my self and to show my husband that the comments he made about me were unjust and incorrect. I was uneducated, not because I didn't have the capability to study, but because I didn't have the opportunity. I want him to see what I could have become with him had I been given the chance, just like he was.

Another reason for me to stay in the house is because I would want my husband to see me. Not because I have some feelings for him, but because I want to be a reminder to him, to the mistakes he made, to what he could have had, this may seem selfish, but I am human afterall. Also because I have forged this relationship with a family that love me and I love, I don't want to feel like I am leaving them because of someone else, why should I be the one that has to leave my home.

Are u serious? U would hang around to remind him of his mistakes surely are worth more then that! Eventually he would get used to seeing u and the novelty of the first wife would wear off once he settled with new wife and kids? And Ur rents hooked u up at a young age w/o education so they should foot the bill of u returning ..money..there Pride..your Self esteem.
If I were anandi :)))) I would kiss myself then walk down the street to join icha from Uttran and ...Say hello .. Dang people :p

Not just because of that, mainly the family element and because if i then left it would seem that he has made me leave, and i dont want it to happen like that. So yes to begin with i would stay in the haveli, because i would not want to go back to my parents and be a burden to them, staying in the haveli would give me a support system and a roof over my head whilst i am studying.

And yes i would hang around at the beginning, so that he knows he is aware of his action, because Jagiya right now seems like the kind of person who is under the notion that if it's not in front of me, it doesn't exist.

I don't think I should have to leave just because he no longer accepts me as his wife, but if the family no longer wanted me there as well, then I would gladly leave.

That does not mean that I would continue to live there for the rest of my life, once my life is sorted study wise and financially, then I would look to live elsewhere, just like anyone else would do if they were living with their parents and then thinking of moving out.

So god didn't break the mold after he made anandi? Would u take jagaat back if he ditched gauri tomorrow ? Or if gauri left him? Jag walked all over anandi .. If he doesn't fluant his love for gauri infront of anandi .. He def flaunts his disrespect. Go back to ur parents anandi V2.0 u wasted Ur childhood on him! Don't waste another day!

No way, jus because i want to stay in the house doesnt mean that i would want to go back with him, one can happen without the other.

Originally posted by: Illyria

Personally, I would stay in the my in laws or in a outhouse part of the haveli. I would not go back to my parents, because I know there is a very apparent stigma attached to women who leave their 'husbands' house and come back to their parents. I would not want to put my parents through that situation, or have them be the topic of conversation on anyone's lips.

I would carry on with my studies, both for my self and to show my husband that the comments he made about me were unjust and incorrect. I was uneducated, not because I didn't have the capability to study, but because I didn't have the opportunity. I want him to see what I could have become with him had I been given the chance, just like he was.

Another reason for me to stay in the house is because I would want my husband to see me. Not because I have some feelings for him, but because I want to be a reminder to him, to the mistakes he made, to what he could have had, this may seem selfish, but I am human afterall. Also because I have forged this relationship with a family that love me and I love, I don't want to feel like I am leaving them because of someone else, why should I be the one that has to leave my home.

though i wudn't've done like u r saying & may b sum oder course alongwid 2 remind wat he'd lost(may b not like staying there only) but still i find it quite interesting & thatswhy i pressed like button!!😊😊