Jagia- a big manipulator

ankit111 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#1

Hi friends, i m not a regular visitor of this forum, but after Anmol invitation for his GaGa marriage thread, i read some post here, particular his posts and felt tht my friend hs lost his way somewhere. he hs started the same logic against which he was fighting in other forum😆, so i decided to put some sense in him. i dont know how sensitive this forum is, so if my post hurt anyone, just ignore it.

i find Jagia a big manipulator, who use emotional blackmailing to prove his point. lets analyze his action:

i dont support child marriage and its very harmful for society, but in Jagia case, i dont know he was forced or not for marriage, becoz i didnt watch it from start, but wht ever i watched i know tht he was fully accepted it till his adventure with Gauri. they were a ideal pair till thn. wht is this now saying tht he didn't love and they were just a friend. didnt Jagia know tht she was her wife and not just a friend, tht time he was going gaga MY BINDANI, why he didnt tell tht time tht they r just a friend and he doesn't love her. he realized this ONLY FRIENDSHIP relation whn he met to Gauri??😡may be his marriage with Anandi, was a mistake, but its happened and now not only his but Anandi life also depends and u cant take one sided decision to break this. Anandi, who did so many sacrifices for his, even due to her, he is still alive. He was also feeling very proud on her and always stand for her as his Bindani and not as ONLY FRIENDSHIP. Thn why now he is giving this relation name ONLY FRIENDSHIP, just for his convenience? A lot of things in life happens, which sd not be, but once its happened and u accepted u hv to live with it. Its like an unwanted child who come due to some reason, but if once its come u cant throw him in dust been by just saying tht it was ur mistake. If u did tht mistake u hv to live with it. Such people like Jagia, can say tht his parents r also forced and he didn't wanted such parents, so want to change thm.🤣

Ok if he realized tht he doesn't love Anandi (tomorrow he can realize tht he doesn't love Gauri too), thn he sd first tell it to Anandi, becoz her life was also depended on his decision and not cheat every body. He cheated Anandi, he cheated Gauri he cheated his parents, he cheated his friends, he cheated every relation. (pls don't say filmy dialogue, in love everything is rit) once a cheater always a cheater. Its his nature. He not only cheated all relation but his thought is polluted in City pollution. He hate is origin, he feel shame on his birth place, he hate villagers and call thm Gawanr. He feel jealous whn Anadi topped in examination, in short he hs been spoiled in all department. Jagia was a pure heart person but Jagdish Prasad is a cheater, a layer, a manipulator. His nature is absolutely selfish, he didn't think abt Anandi, who sacrificed everthing for him, he even didn't think abt Gauri (whom he claim to love), he thought only abt himself and now trying to justify his act with emotional drama. He even dosnt hv any guilt feeling for hurting innocent Anandi, but he is accusing her and behaving rudely. A dead heart person.

As concern to Gauri, I liked her till she was unaware abt the fact and hd sympathy with her as victim, but now I think she really deserve Jagdish Prasad. Wht is this logic tht even if she will not get marry Jagia will not return to Anandi, so better I sd accept him. Its like justifying ur crime, like if I wd hv not murdered, other wd hv murdered. If I wd hv not taken bribe, other wd hv taken. Arey madam u think wht is rit and wrong and not IF BUT to cover up ur action. U both r really good pair. I m happy tht atleast Anandi is not wasting her life after this loser and making her own identity, which she hd lost due to this loser, who dosnt deserve it. This is only good message in this serial.

Sorry for long post, but as I don't post here regularly, so wanted to put my all thoughts in one post.

Created

Last reply

Replies

129

Views

11.5k

Users

32

Likes

488

Frequent Posters

Blukitten thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 14 years ago
#2
Gr8 Post Ankit 👏
Exactly my thoughts...Jagiya is selfish to the core and dosnt deserve Anandi as well as Gauri.If Gauri marries him it'll be her biggest mistake.I dont know why are people supporting GaGa pair just coz they look good together.
Is it all about looking good and chemistry?? Character and general conduct of the person is unimportant ??I dont want to be rude or personal but just imagine if your relative or a close frn is involved with a person like Jagya will you support her desicion to marry him ?
Both A ang G should leave him.I have sympathy with Gauri she deserves someone better.
Sunna_Deewani thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 14 years ago
#3

You are right - Jagya is manipulator. He uses the situation to his advantage. In yesterday's precap he was justifying the second child marriage saying that marriage occured as they were made for each other. If thats true, Jagya-Anandi child marriage is also god's wish and they are also made for each other, according to jagya's logic.

He is being very selfish like always. He says he doesn't love anandi and decides to get married to gauri. OK Lets agree that he has right choose his life partner. Still Anandi is living at his haveli as his wife. Doesn't he have any responsibility towards her? I think Jagya should meet Anandi and his family, inform them of his decision before getting married to gauri. They deserve that much.
When he doesn't even want to inform them of his decision to get married, why is he taking gauri to the haveli? to get their blessing - is it? He doesn't even respect any of them. why does he want their blessing? They should go to mumbai and live their life.
One more thing, I don't understand why gauri agreed to this hurried marriage. It's not like his parents are going to separate him from gauri. They have given up on him. They could inform them, get married whether they bless them or not and go to mumbai and get on with their life. Maybe he wants the money and comfort from his dadisa. Even he decided to tell the truth to gauri only after the money stopped coming.
tiny15 thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 14 years ago
#4

Originally posted by: ankit111

Hi friends, i m not a regular visitor of this forum, but after Anmol invitation for his GaGa marriage thread, i read some post here, particular his posts and felt tht my friend hs lost his way somewhere. he hs started the same logic against which he was fighting in other forum😆, so i decided to put some sense in him. i dont know how sensitive this forum is, so if my post hurt anyone, just ignore it.

i find Jagia a big manipulator, who use emotional blackmailing to prove his point. lets analyze his action:

i dont support child marriage and its very harmful for society, but in Jagia case, i dont know he was forced or not for marriage, becoz i didnt watch it from start, but wht ever i watched i know tht he was fully accepted it till his adventure with Gauri. they were a ideal pair till thn. wht is this now saying tht he didn't love and they were just a friend. didnt Jagia know tht she was her wife and not just a friend, tht time he was going gaga MY BINDANI, why he didnt tell tht time tht they r just a friend and he doesn't love her. he realized this ONLY FRIENDSHIP relation whn he met to Gauri??😡may be his marriage with Anandi, was a mistake, but its happened and now not only his but Anandi life also depends and u cant take one sided decision to break this. Anandi, who did so many sacrifices for his, even due to her, he is still alive. He was also feeling very proud on her and always stand for her as his Bindani and not as ONLY FRIENDSHIP. Thn why now he is giving this relation name ONLY FRIENDSHIP, just for his convenience? A lot of things in life happens, which sd not be, but once its happened and u accepted u hv to live with it. Its like an unwanted child who come due to some reason, but if once its come u cant throw him in dust been by just saying tht it was ur mistake. If u did tht mistake u hv to live with it. Such people like Jagia, can say tht his parents r also forced and he didn't wanted such parents, so want to change thm.🤣

Ok if he realized tht he doesn't love Anandi (tomorrow he can realize tht he doesn't love Gauri too), thn he sd first tell it to Anandi, becoz her life was also depended on his decision and not cheat every body. He cheated Anandi, he cheated Gauri he cheated his parents, he cheated his friends, he cheated every relation. (pls don't say filmy dialogue, in love everything is rit) once a cheater always a cheater. Its his nature. He not only cheated all relation but his thought is polluted in City pollution. He hate is origin, he feel shame on his birth place, he hate villagers and call thm Gawanr. He feel jealous whn Anadi topped in examination, in short he hs been spoiled in all department. Jagia was a pure heart person but Jagdish Prasad is a cheater, a layer, a manipulator. His nature is absolutely selfish, he didn't think abt Anandi, who sacrificed everthing for him, he even didn't think abt Gauri (whom he claim to love), he thought only abt himself and now trying to justify his act with emotional drama. He even dosnt hv any guilt feeling for hurting innocent Anandi, but he is accusing her and behaving rudely. A dead heart person.

As concern to Gauri, I liked her till she was unaware abt the fact and hd sympathy with her as victim, but now I think she really deserve Jagdish Prasad. Wht is this logic tht even if she will not get marry Jagia will not return to Anandi, so better I sd accept him. Its like justifying ur crime, like if I wd hv not murdered, other wd hv murdered. If I wd hv not taken bribe, other wd hv taken. Arey madam u think wht is rit and wrong and not IF BUT to cover up ur action. U both r really good pair. I m happy tht atleast Anandi is not wasting her life after this loser and making her own identity, which she hd lost due to this loser, who dosnt deserve it. This is only good message in this serial.

Sorry for long post, but as I don't post here regularly, so wanted to put my all thoughts in one post.

well said ankit!!👏 and i agree 2 each of ur word!! 👏⭐️⭐️⭐️its really disheartening that our frnd has decided 2 support wrong deed by defending the manipulator's tactics which hes opposing sumwhere else!!😕😕
and i agree that everything is fair in luv & war is a filmy dialogue & that 2 b always made by villain & never ever by hero or a +ve ckt!!4 me this statement can b given only by weak ppl who r afraid of truth & rightousness bcoz they r afraid that they loose by supporting rightousness & can't stand the defeat even though its only 4 time being!( i m giving it as a general POV & not concerned wid any of the member's post though i'd read them)😊
and i agree that i only liked & sympathesised gauri till she was unaware of jagia's marriage & living wid him. but now she knows abt it. so she can't justify it by saying that he luvs her. though i don't agree that he even luvs her leave alone anandi he only luvs himself. and i can bet that jagia like prsn again feel jealous once gauri bcums more successful than him!! he"ll defntly left her given the choice!!😡🤢🤢🤢
@Red i agree wid u here.👏👏👏 and in the garb of child marriage jagia or oder prsns who'd child marriages can't b justified 4 the bigamy or infidelity!!i watched the interview given by both the actors playing jagia & gauri & they were defending their on-screen ckts & their wrong deeds. but they've 4gotten that though rules can b chnaged but not ethics & morals & even its said by channel host that 2 show the -ve effects of child marriages CVs r trying 2 justify & defend bigamy/infidelity!!🤢🤢🤢
ammoos thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 14 years ago
#5
Hi Ankit.. his name is Jagdish Singh.. not Prasad..Great post.. Jagya is not just a manipulator ..he is the biggest manipulator.. He cheated each and every relation and so far got away very easily until Bhairon abandoned him..
But yes as you said he has the right for his happiness or decision but at the same time has a responsibility towards Anandi/... not just because she is living as his wife but for the reason that she used to be his best friend .. who used to do homework for him and prayed for him and even saved his life once.. Ok dont count all these sacrifices or her deeds atleast there is something called humanity.. Before he is a son/husband/ even a doctor he is a human and what has he done to any other human ever since he joined at the medical college.. Except to stop the ragging fiasco he has done nothing...
Child marriages are forceful and not many go ahead with it right.. but there is adecent manner to deal with the situation thats where JAgya failed to perform.. He thought he LOVED Anandi but later realised it was lust.. but is that a way to get ger out from his life.. Come on she was his best friend why he couldnt open his heart to her..
he found his LOVE in Gauri.. why couldnt he gather courage to tell her the truth.. If he had opened up earlier the situation could have been better..
At this time I feel its Anandi who is the biggest victim of child marriage (Among the three) but at the same time she is the biggest winner as well.. Naa JAgya ye sab karta naahi woh doctor ban paathi...
Indirectly hi sahi Jagya did something nice.. But still I would say he is the biggest manipulator..👎🏼 I always had sympathy for GAuri for falling for this cheater but now if she is choosing him whole heartedly I shave more sympathy for her or if she is marryng him to teach him a leson then👍🏼 from me.. because if anyone could make him a human once again its only her.. Hoping to see our sweet nice Jagya atleast once before the end😆
And sorry for the long post.. what to do.. got a chance to lash out my anger at Jagya after two months...😛
ankit111 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#6
If Jagia didnt love Anandi and calling her ONLY best friend thn its biggest lie. he loved or not but he was sure defaming friendship name. If she was his friend, why he hided everything from her whn her life was on stake. is it FRIENDSHIP??? and why whn truth came out he started hating Anandi and even doing emotional blackmailing to his mother by saying KISI GAIR LADKI KE LIYE APNE KHUN KO THUKARATI HO. why he didnt felt anything for his BEST FRIEND, whn she was one to suffer. he hs no guilt feeling for his acts and even instead of taking Anandi in confidence (if he claim he is friend), he tried everything to ensure tht she sd be tortured from Dadisa (whn she topped in exam). He is neither a good husband, nor a friend, nor a lover (his love started with cheat). his soul hs been dead and he hs not feeling for anybody except himself. forum is not a court where we sd discuss legality only, humanity is also something.
khusi_* thumbnail
20th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 14 years ago
#7
hello Ankit!!
nice points about jagiya...show what a big manipulator he is!!
yesterday precap was a big example...where he is pointed finger towards gauri for hiding the fact about her child marriage with him!!😡
himmat toh dekho!!!!😡...it shows he can do anything to get what he wants!!...his marriage with anandi is a mistake n his marriage to gudiya(as a child) is janam janam ka saath😕!!...he is actually a master degree holder in manipulating things!!😆
ohh today i decided not to comment on jagiya's selfishness anymore!!
but after reading ur post i couldn't stop myself from posting my reply!!😆
jagiya ki band baje aur main samil naa hoon...ho hi nehin sakta!!😃
Edited by khusi_* - 14 years ago
intruderfast thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Trailblazer Thumbnail + 4
Posted: 14 years ago
#8
😃oh u have put across ur pov very nicely and it feels really wierd that i have to disagree with u never thought this day would come😆😆
tumne mujhe katghare mein khada kar diyaa😆ab mera kyaa hogaa. i need a lawyer😉.
first of all jagya and tappu r not same. lets just not compare them .
i say this i am not playing a double game here
in the beginning when this track had started , i had this same opinion, i always supported this
i just kept quiet cos i was very sure my friends would never have liked it.
trust me i have put a lot of thought behind this.😊
the first time i opened my mind here, many were shocked
but i have taken a stand and i refuse to budge from it .
from day one i am saying that jagya approach has been wrong. i wish he could have handled things sensibly so that the message could have been conveyed in a better manner.
and i have said it repeatedly that i dont mind if g dumps him after she gets to know the truth.
even if she dumops him now , i have no problem
i understand a man has many roles, a husband, a son, a friend., a father,
he failed in all his roles😡
he would have failed in his relationship with gauri too had he not found the guts to tell her the truth. i only wanted the truth to come out before they take any decision to marry and i wanted jagya to tell the truth himself.
even before he wrote the letter , i have said jagya should tell gauri the truth otherwise will not support their relation
after that its gauri decision. and till now kal ka episode dekha , g is in no mood to forgive him,
she is not spoiling anandi life.saying bad words abt her make no sense
jagya has truly moved on with anandi, left her, his parents have disowned him, now g would realise that he has left everything for her , even if she does not accept him , he will not go back to anandi, so she chooses to accept him, fine its her decision
once a cheater , always a cheater, ok lets wait for this, if he does that , u can be rest assured jagya will get numerous gaalis from me
u know that iccha was one of my fav character but when she crossed limits, i started hating her too, same will happen agar yahaan bhi kuch aisa hua toh,
@dolly, i have not gone on a wrong path at all. we r friends but that does not mean we have to agree with each and every point , i totoally respect all ur opinions and if u think jagya is a very bad , cheater , ok , thats ur pov
😆😆i have never written this much, judge sahab bataaiyen mujhe chod denge yaa abhi sazaa denge
ankit111 thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#9
BTW, i like Gauri as actor, very pretti girl, but whn its come to anlyze a charecter in soap, its never influenced by my liking of actor and i do only on the besis of wht is shown and not on the basis of chemistry, geography, physiology or biology😆😆😆 chemistry can be liked without justifying wrong things😉
pjyo thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 14 years ago
#10
Welcome ankit111..good post👍🏼
HE claims to be a victim of child marriage to anandi and then proffesses 'true love' to gauri and says they are 'meant to be together' as its their destiny as they were married as children .😲.😲What an argument !! Breakup due to child marriage ,hook up because of child marriage 😲-HEADS bhi jagya ki tails bhi jagath ki.....Selfishness thy name is jagya.👎🏼.
Now he says anandi is 'bachpan kii bhool' 😲 if he ever gets bored of gauri she will become 'jawaani ki bhool'...🤪He is just a pathetic ,twofaced,selfish individual who twists situations according to whatever is his momentary 'object of obsessive affection ' ..
Sadly these girls are messing their lives going gaga over this deceitful ,manipulative
individual ...🤔

Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".