Hi friends, i m not a regular visitor of this forum, but after Anmol invitation for his GaGa marriage thread, i read some post here, particular his posts and felt tht my friend hs lost his way somewhere. he hs started the same logic against which he was fighting in other forum😆, so i decided to put some sense in him. i dont know how sensitive this forum is, so if my post hurt anyone, just ignore it.
i find Jagia a big manipulator, who use emotional blackmailing to prove his point. lets analyze his action:
i dont support child marriage and its very harmful for society, but in Jagia case, i dont know he was forced or not for marriage, becoz i didnt watch it from start, but wht ever i watched i know tht he was fully accepted it till his adventure with Gauri. they were a ideal pair till thn. wht is this now saying tht he didn't love and they were just a friend. didnt Jagia know tht she was her wife and not just a friend, tht time he was going gaga MY BINDANI, why he didnt tell tht time tht they r just a friend and he doesn't love her. he realized this ONLY FRIENDSHIP relation whn he met to Gauri??😡may be his marriage with Anandi, was a mistake, but its happened and now not only his but Anandi life also depends and u cant take one sided decision to break this. Anandi, who did so many sacrifices for his, even due to her, he is still alive. He was also feeling very proud on her and always stand for her as his Bindani and not as ONLY FRIENDSHIP. Thn why now he is giving this relation name ONLY FRIENDSHIP, just for his convenience? A lot of things in life happens, which sd not be, but once its happened and u accepted u hv to live with it. Its like an unwanted child who come due to some reason, but if once its come u cant throw him in dust been by just saying tht it was ur mistake. If u did tht mistake u hv to live with it. Such people like Jagia, can say tht his parents r also forced and he didn't wanted such parents, so want to change thm.🤣
Ok if he realized tht he doesn't love Anandi (tomorrow he can realize tht he doesn't love Gauri too), thn he sd first tell it to Anandi, becoz her life was also depended on his decision and not cheat every body. He cheated Anandi, he cheated Gauri he cheated his parents, he cheated his friends, he cheated every relation. (pls don't say filmy dialogue, in love everything is rit) once a cheater always a cheater. Its his nature. He not only cheated all relation but his thought is polluted in City pollution. He hate is origin, he feel shame on his birth place, he hate villagers and call thm Gawanr. He feel jealous whn Anadi topped in examination, in short he hs been spoiled in all department. Jagia was a pure heart person but Jagdish Prasad is a cheater, a layer, a manipulator. His nature is absolutely selfish, he didn't think abt Anandi, who sacrificed everthing for him, he even didn't think abt Gauri (whom he claim to love), he thought only abt himself and now trying to justify his act with emotional drama. He even dosnt hv any guilt feeling for hurting innocent Anandi, but he is accusing her and behaving rudely. A dead heart person.
As concern to Gauri, I liked her till she was unaware abt the fact and hd sympathy with her as victim, but now I think she really deserve Jagdish Prasad. Wht is this logic tht even if she will not get marry Jagia will not return to Anandi, so better I sd accept him. Its like justifying ur crime, like if I wd hv not murdered, other wd hv murdered. If I wd hv not taken bribe, other wd hv taken. Arey madam u think wht is rit and wrong and not IF BUT to cover up ur action. U both r really good pair. I m happy tht atleast Anandi is not wasting her life after this loser and making her own identity, which she hd lost due to this loser, who dosnt deserve it. This is only good message in this serial.
Sorry for long post, but as I don't post here regularly, so wanted to put my all thoughts in one post.