BV Update 31st Jan '11 - Page 4

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

Once truth is revealed, it is better for Anandi to leave in my opinion. For starters, DS will torture her and put all the blame on her so that's not acceptable. Second, even if Jagya comes back sans Gauri, there is no way Anandi can live with him after the way he has been behaving with her. Third, with her relationship with Jagya broken, it is meaningless for her to stay at her sasuraal, however supportive her in-laws are

SO TOTALLY AGREE 👍🏼...nothing good has happened for her since she entered this house..All she wanted was to learn but she was brainwashed to such an extent that she gave up even studying -that too for a ehsaan faramosh dadisa😡 and an even arrogant hubby who thinks of her as "below his standard "now that he has moved ahead in life...

Originally posted by: ammoos

Satyajit ji rocks.. he is essaing Basanth so naturally.. his awkwardness today was so real..Hope he lives GOOD ever after the HM..

As fro Anandi, i really want to see some guy coming and befriending her and it should be some far far relative of massa so he has free acess to the haveli too.. Anandi getting comfy with another guy might make Jagya realise his mistake.. Hope the writers think this way.. we can see some Mr. Perfect for some time atleast😉

you r right i hope jagya realise his mistake

well...........tausa and bhatija ka character exchange hogaya hai kya??

Originally posted by: iloveidiotbox

It was BEFORE Mahavir was revealed to be Basanth's father. Ever since the reveal, Basanth has never strongly opposed Maasa abt anything

Oh ok .............well then I hope he does but that might be asking for too much.

I have been a silent lurker mostly but have been following the show from a long time. I can't believe how mean and selfish Jagya has become. All along, I have been kind of justifying his change of behavior and attributing it to the change of environment, change of society & culture, etc etc. But he has literally forgotten that he's pushing the same wife away who once almost gave up her life to save his sad existence! If Anandi wouldn't have saved him back then, forget Gauri and healing the world, there'd be no Jagya at all... But this is a sad reality of our society unfortunately. Many people after going abroad or going to cities from villages do end up changing and forgetting the very roots that they belonged to. I, too, want some worthy guy to come along and sweep Anandi off her feet so that Jagya gets to be jealous this time and realize the folly he did. Not only that, I am sure of this that Gauri is the supposed 2nd wife of Jagya.. I can so foresee her character falling for Jagya and then turning negative. I hope I am wrong though and we see her finding out about Anandi and then sending Jagya right where he belongs.. Only then I want Anandi to take a step and move the heck away from him so that he can realize that a bird in hand is better than the 2 in the bush.. *sighs*

Btw, loved some of the comments here.. The ones about Jagya wanting Anandi to facebook or twitter him *lol* was just precious! And I also want a guy to come opposite Anandi now.. Enough of this! I want Anandi to pursue education further and leave Jagya far, far away while staying true to her roots, her very soil that gave her identity.. I really do wish that education can take precedence over a petty love triangle eventually...

Cheers,
Sana~

Originally posted by: smartc

I have been a silent lurker mostly but have been following the show from a long time. I can't believe how mean and selfish Jagya has become. All along, I have been kind of justifying his change of behavior and attributing it to the change of environment, change of society & culture, etc etc. But he has literally forgotten that he's pushing the same wife away who once almost gave up her life to save his sad existence! If Anandi wouldn't have saved him back then, forget Gauri and healing the world, there'd be no Jagya at all... But this is a sad reality of our society unfortunately. Many people after going abroad or going to cities from villages do end up changing and forgetting the very roots that they belonged to. I, too, want some worthy guy to come along and sweep Anandi off her feet so that Jagya gets to be jealous this time and realize the folly he did. Not only that, I am sure of this that Gauri is the supposed 2nd wife of Jagya.. I can so foresee her character falling for Jagya and then turning negative. I hope I am wrong though and we see her finding out about Anandi and then sending Jagya right where he belongs.. Only then I want Anandi to take a step and move the heck away from him so that he can realize that a bird in hand is better than the 2 in the bush.. *sighs*

Btw, loved some of the comments here.. The ones about Jagya wanting Anandi to facebook or twitter him *lol* was just precious! And I also want a guy to come opposite Anandi now.. Enough of this! I want Anandi to pursue education further and leave Jagya far, far away while staying true to her roots, her very soil that gave her identity.. I really do wish that education can take precedence over a petty love triangle eventually...

Cheers,
Sana~

Well said👍🏼

One could up to a point make excuses for Jagya but now it is completely gotten out of hand. What Anandi should do and is going to do (we know that it depends on the CV's) should be a message that you cannot treat your wife in this manner and then come running back with your tail between your legs if Gauri dumps him (and I hope she does!!!) and expect Anandi's forgiveness.

My worry is that her character (post leap) has been rather dormant so I hope that she does not take things lying down but dishes out as good as she can.

@ groucho: I concur with your thoughts there too, hun 😛 ~ Honestly, it gives out such a wrong message if they were to show Jagya realizing his mistake after Gauri dumps him.. I was sort of proud of him when he pushed Gauri away from her when he realized how close they were in that embrace and saw Anandi's flashback in front of him. I thought for a second there that alrite, so he's got some conscious and he realizes how far he is going with this.. At least some moral repentance exists there .. even if its hidden deep within him.. But then he does a 180 and following his friend's treatment to not revealing about his true identity to now scolding poor Anandi for writing a cutesy email as per tomorrow's precap just boils my blood!! I just hope that women are truly shown in a positive and stronger light here.. Not this that Anandi takes him back readily once he either gets dumped by Gauri or loses Gauri somehow..

U're right that at the end of the day, no matter how much we speculate, it all rests in the hands of the CVs. Hoping that they won't disappoint us too much. One may be asking for more here as an avid follower of the show.. However, that's what this show brought to us when it started initially which was a new ray of hope into understanding the darkness of those parts of our society a little better that remain hidden away from our view normally.. Hope and Awareness is all we want from the show :))

Thanks for liking the comment and putting your views there 🤗

Cheers,
Sana~

Originally posted by: smartc

@ groucho: I concur with your thoughts there too, hun 😛 ~ Honestly, it gives out such a wrong message if they were to show Jagya realizing his mistake after Gauri dumps him.. I was sort of proud of him when he pushed Gauri away from her when he realized how close they were in that embrace and saw Anandi's flashback in front of him. I thought for a second there that alrite, so he's got some conscious and he realizes how far he is going with this.. At least some moral repentance exists there .. even if its hidden deep within him.. But then he does a 180 and following his friend's treatment to not revealing about his true identity to now scolding poor Anandi for writing a cutesy email as per tomorrow's precap just boils my blood!! I just hope that women are truly shown in a positive and stronger light here.. Not this that Anandi takes him back readily once he either gets dumped by Gauri or loses Gauri somehow..

U're right that at the end of the day, no matter how much we speculate, it all rests in the hands of the CVs. Hoping that they won't disappoint us too much. One may be asking for more here as an avid follower of the show.. However, that's what this show brought to us when it started initially which was a new ray of hope into understanding the darkness of those parts of our society a little better that remain hidden away from our view normally.. Hope and Awareness is all we want from the show :))

Thanks for liking the comment and putting your views there 🤗

Cheers,
Sana~

@smartc - Good comments are always appreciated by me as this serial is one of the best forums that I have had the privilege of discussing with members.

Watching 3 serials on Colors( I rarely watch any other Hindi channels) I must honestly admit that this is probably the only serial of the 3 that still has the capacity to pull of a message!!!!😍

Yes, Jagya's behavior has been appalling.........but it still has not reached a point of no return. I am hoping that Anandi's response to this ridiculous little boy act of Jagya's proves to be a lesson for those watching. As you said, an awareness of how to handle such situations without reducing yourself to the same level. Anandi's character has the capacity to do that and I really want a strong message sent out in the following episodes so that boys like Jagya know that it is no longer easy to browbeat your wives and not get a suitable response.

For all his education and Anandi's lack of it.............she has shown more class than his character has.

well... to me... am out of all these now... its all crap they are showing with tht GaJaAn track.... but am enjoying the basant-gehna track through n through.... wow! its so sweet the way they had been showing it... i mean, with all the inhibitions, and still trying to over come them... to come forward n express their love for each other... and tht hug - was sooooo sweet!! so well written and so beautifully captured - great going there CVs... am luving it 😊