Sad, sad

Originally posted by: BeyondHorizon

I agree it was sad but Komal should have realised before marrying Lucky that he won't accept her as his wife. She was facing pressure from all sides but she could have told Lucky's dad that he doesn't wish to marry her and back out. It's shallow to judge someone based on their appearance but everyone has their own perspective. It's not right to enforce your thoughts on another person however right u maybe. Lucky's father may be right in choosing Komal for Lucky as he knows she has a good heart but how justified was he to force Lucky into the marriage? How can anyone expect Lucky to accept someone he never wanted in the first place? It's easier said than done to expect a compromise like this. Had Lucky taken time out to understand Komal and then married her out of respect and love everyone would be happy. I certainly don't support his behavior but I can understand y he is angry with his life.

Originally posted by: xaviara

Why does everyone always say that 'why didn't Komal back out of the wedding when Lucky told her that he didn't want to marry her?' Why doesn't anyone question Lucky? Why wasn't he MAN enough to tell his own dad that he is in love with the daughter of his another friend, Marjorie !! Knowing Marjorie also reciprocated Lucky feelings Raghuvir would have stopped to think once that by forcing Komal Lucky marriage he is destroying three lives.

Also Komal didn't marry Lucky because of her own wish, not even because of the fact that Payal threatened to push her into a well. She agreed because Raghuvir's honor was at stake, everybody including her own mother was questioning him. So to save face Raguvir announced Komal and Lucky's wedding. Now you will ask, as to why Komal had to accept Raghuvir's decision. It is because she lost her own father at a young age and she knows better then anyone how it feels not to have a father figure in your life, so she didn't want anyone to point fingers at her father like Raghuvir Uncle.

Originally posted by: .Rajji.

@xaviara totally agree !

Both Komal and Lucky didn't want to get married, but they were pressured by Raghuvir to still get married.

Komal couldn't have backed out of the wedding, even if she felt that Lucky didn't love her because it would have broken her mother's heart, who has the old mentality.

So Komal, being heart broken herself after she got left at the altar, had the choice to either say yes to marry Lucky and be miserable, OR go back to her mother's house, and be miserable, living with a depressed mother, and a sister in law who said they should dump her in a well.

By marrying Lucky she was making her own situation, in regards to society, slightly better, she was honoring her father's wishes (hence the importance of the scene when she talks to his ghost), she was also obeying to Raghuvir's order (and he is a paternal figure in her life) and she was making her sister in law's life easier too.

Lucky went to some crazy extent to get out of this wedding but in the end, both him and his stupid mother followed Raghuvir's order, so they can hardly blame anything on Komal.

Komal married to stay in this parivaar. She may not have excepted to be happy but she married with the intent to stay, and she tried to make a place for herself in lucky's life.

On the other hand, and that's were Lucky is to blame, and not Komal, Lucky is being really mean to Komal, for no reason. He could just ignore her but he goes the extra length to humiliate her and hurt her. He's being immature and rude.