❤️ Bade acche Lagte hai kyu acche Lagte hai? ❤️

Hello Everyone! mai phir aagayi so tolerate me again, you don't have another option 😆 (you do have, ignore this post 😆)

Bade Acche Lagte Hain ended on july 10, but for me it ended recently as I have just finished watching the last 8 episodes of show. (meri birthday pe khatam hua, hamesha yaad rahega 😉😆)

I know everyone must be sad and many of you must have cried too and even now everyone is definitely missing BALH n RaYa. Many of us are still thinking that why did show ended? But I am very glad that it ended and that too with RaYa being remarried. ❤️ What else could have been better end than this? Now don't kill me for saying that "I am happy as show ended". Read out my reasons first than you can say your words. 😆

Without the availability of actors, we were getting the scenes in separate frames and BD's were shown more than actors. The BD's n separate Frames were ruining the essence of the scenes. Sakshi n Ram were creating same magic in separate frames too as they were world class actors but in many scenes they were required to be in same frame but they weren't. Another reason, I wanted Sakshi to be freed from this show, yes I wanted this. Ram was busy with films, Tarana shifted to Dubai for her radio show, Sumona too got busy with Comedy show n her film kick' and then Vikram too got new show and he started shooting for that. Everyone moved on and Sakshi was left alone, don't get me wrong but Sakshi was carrying the show alone with chillar party. Though I loved her dedication n professionalism, I was feeling bad for her. She was made to do the show which didn't have proper storyline. I am not blaming other actors as they have full right to move ahead in career. They can't just stick to one show. The story became a drag with stupid crap but we true pankhas watched that too. It was supposed to end somewhere and I am glad that it ended with RaYa re-marriage. 😃

Now coming to the show "Bade Acche Lagte Hain",

From where I should start...I'll start from the beginning, reliving each moment.

I was watching my favorite CID on sony when first "barish wala" promo came, I didn't heard what they were speaking, 😆 I was just watching Sakshi, my reaction was "Sakshi doing show again, I'll definitely watch it, kisi bhi waqt aaya" , 😆 then when the same promo was aired again I listened the convo between them and I liked the tagline "shaadi ke baad pyar hote hote ho hi jaata hai" Of course i knew Ram before also, my fellow classmates of 11th were mad about Jai Walia, 😆 whole day they used to discuss Jai Walia and I was pissed off...itna addiction 😆, lecture khatam hua ki nahi they will start discussing Jai Walia, One of my friend was also big fan of that show n she used to tell me whole story of Kasam se n I had to listen her but I had another friend too who was Sakshi's fan so we used to discuss KGGK n Sakshi 😉, I guess uss waqt Suyash-Parvati track chal raha tha n we so wanted to get them married 😆 but Om made his entry 😡. Coming back to BALH,

After seeing first promo, I imagined whole story of BALH...sounds crazy na 😆, but I did that. 😆

My version of BALH:

Ram Kapoor is a businessman but very good human, gentle, calm n composed. 😆 Priya too belongs to rich family, very shy lady. 😆 They got married due to some business deal. Both are well behaved n mature persons who are trying to know each other. 🤣

Then I came across an article saying that Ram marries Priya as he wanted to marry off his sister to Priya's brother, I was like "oh this is the story" 😆. My assumption about their characters was still same: Ram as decent businessman not ruthless businessman and Priya as shy woman. I thought Ram will be having only one sister in his family that's it. Even the other promos like "sabzi wala", "kharate wale", "hichki wala" promos made my assumption about their characters strong. I was of the opinion that they'll behave nicely n maturely with each other. 😆

And then the first episode came, papa se remote kheench kar dekha maine n it continued till last episodes 😆. The very first epi portrayed how they were surrounded by selfish family. Priya turned out to be middle class lady and Ram was khadus businessman with full attitude but with his, for his family he was gentle, full of love n care for them. 😛 I was still sure they'll behave nicely with each other until their first phone convo 😆. I thought, as Ayesha is instigating Priya against Ram, she is talking rudely.😆 And then their first meeting at Priya's apartment and their first fight...I was in for shock🤣, I thought them to be saints but they turned out be warriors 🤣, Priya turned into "jhansi ki rani" and Ram into "angry man". 🤣 I enjoyed their fight a lot especially the dialogues they mouthed. Priya was talking about "car" and Ram about "Natasha". It was hilarious. 🤣🤣

Bade Acche Lagte Hai has been close to reality in many tracks not all but almost every track. BALH had some wonderful tracks: BC track for awareness. This show has portrayed women as strong gender who don't keep crying for difficulties in her life but fight them with a smile on her face,

Krishna Kapoor was left by her husband, instead of crying to prove her innocence, she held her head high, maintained her self-respect n dignity and earned good name in her profession(teaching)⭐️

Priya, a single mother in Dubai, showed that single moms too can fulfill each n every wish of their children, though late but definitely.⭐️

Natasha to whom her husband ditched cried initially but then took strong decision and proved that she don't need him to keep her happy, she can be happy without him and keep her family happy too.⭐️

The beauty of the show was that it explored every character in depth and at the same time kept leads as central characters. It focused on every character giving each actor a chance to show their talent and they did give excellent performances 👏. This show helped it viewers too in discovering their craziest side 😆- we appreciated n applauded good tracks, cursed cvs for bad tracks too. 🤣

What BALH taught?

1) Arrange marriages are more successful compared to love marriages 😆

2) You can fall in love at any age and love is all about accepting each other with faults, vices n virtues. 😛

3) Men too can be perfect n cleanliness freak and women too can be clumsy. 🤣

Lets Starts with Characters: 😆

RaYa Not Ram and Priya but RaYa 😳 :

Khoobiyon se nahi hoti mohabbat bhi sada,

Kamiyon se bhi aksar pyaar ho jata hai

Ideal couple ❤️. They proved that money, looks, nature etc doesn't matter when you love someone deeply. They proved that arrange marriages works better than love marriages if you will 😆. Both of them were not perfect individually but as a couple they were perfect. ❤️ Many shows portrays couples as showing respect to each other, not arguing, in short like fairy tales couple 😆 but RaYa were portrayed like a real life couple 😃. The kharate, aloo paranthe, kulfi, couch, tablets, taunting spouses, taking out mistakes in every single thing done by spouse are the things that really happens between real life couples and RaYa made them popular 👏. No Tv show have used couch before 😆, no show has shown husband snoring 😆 (may be they thought it'll look weird or low class 😆) but BALH showed it and RaYa pulled it off well 👏. Now we don't consider snoring as bad habit but we find it cute now , isn't it 😉. These small things made us love them more n more. They never allowed third person break their relation, it was always about them. The only things that always came between them were: their ego and their stubbornness 😆. Unlike other shows, third person never created a difference between them. They felt jealous though, where there is love jealousy is natural 😆. They showed you don't need to be extremely beautiful and handsome hunk but need to have a lovable n beautiful heart. ⭐️

BALH did discovered our craziest side but it was RaYa who drove us crazy n madder with each passing day 😆: we have laughed at their taunts n nok-jhoks, we smiled at their happiness, we were more eager than them to see them married, we cried when they cried, we cried very much when they were separated, we even cursed the characters who were somewhere responsible for their separation 😆, we cursed n bashed cvs for it 🤣, we prayed n hoped for their re unions and celebrated whenever they were reunited after separation. 🤣

Huh! Kitni pagalpanti karwayi in logo ne humse but we too enjoyed it, isn't it? 😉

RaYa taught:

"The happiest couple never have the same character. They just have the best Understanding of their DIFFERENCES."

NeVik:

The first tom n Jerry couple of Indian TV 😆. What I like most about their relation is, they still kept their relation alive even after years of marriage. They always behaved like girlfriend and boyfriend. Fighting over world's silliest issues and making us laugh. They were the cupids of our RaYa who always wished good for them. They have big role in bringing RaYa closer. ⭐️

Ram "GOLU" Kapoor:

Usually the business tycoons are shown as very sophisticated even when they are with friends and family 😆. But Ram loved his selfish family selflessly. He still had a kid in himself, he too gets happy whenever someone appreciates him, loves him back, acknowledges his love for them 😛. He was not typical businessman, he was a family man. He, as a husband, always made his wife feel special by complimenting her, by saying "you are always right" often 😆, by acknowledging her efforts to keep his family together n taking care of him, his kids n family. He always did small things for her which every wife would love: be it fulfilling her stupid wishes, cooking for her in kitchen, eating roadside food which he hates most, enjoying rains with her (latest one...finally he did it 😆), taking her opinion in important matters n so on. Unlike other shows lead, he was the one who always stood in front of problems n difficulties but not female lead. He solved almost all problems, though late but he did that.😛

Ram taught that "love everyone selflessly and trust everyone, no matters if they don't love you back or broke your trust; you simply can't hate everyone n doubt everyone thinking that they might not love you back or take your advantage and broke your trust"

Priya "SHERNI/HITLER" Sharma/Kapoor:

The best thing about her character was that she was not crying machine 😆. If you'll look at other show, you'll see leads crying over petty issues: if vase is broken they will cry and the crying continues for episodes n episodes 🤣. But Priya sharma was practical lady, she don't cry over silly matters instead tries to solve them geniously n smartly. I loved her approach towards problem n life. She was not typical heroine who used to do "jasoosi" and solve every problem by herself but she always trusted that her husband will solve all the problems and her trust was proven right every time 😛. She did everything that she can do to keep her family happy and united. She showed being housewife isn't easy task, it too requires loads of efforts. As a wife she did everything that was good for her husband: be it keeping an eye on his tablets, making food plan for him, making him understand issues from her point of view so that he can solve them, supporting him in almost every decision except where they have conflict 😆 so on.

Priya taught that, "it is good to be emotional all the time n love everyone selflessly n unconditionally but at the same time we should be practical in the matters which are grave n sensitive, we should always stand up for right even if it requies us to go against one's own husband, children n family"

The awesome Foursome:

RaYa and NeVik have redefined true friendship. They have taught true friends laughs with you, cries with you, fights with you, scolds you, get angry at you but always stays with you come what may. They always stood for one another, helped each other in problems be it financially or emotionally. Everyone would love to have such friends.

Vikram:

What i liked about his character is his calmness n maturity ⭐️, the way he handles his over dramatic n suspicious wife 😆 and also his short tempered and innocent friend. He has indeed taught husbands how to handle wife n her suspicions': just keep quiet and agree to whatever she says ...secret of successful marriage. 🤣 🤣

Vikram taught that, "best thing to solve problems is keep calm, behave maturely n behave sensibly"

Neha:

vibrant n full of life, who can light up the tense environment within moments but behaves maturely wenever required. Her knowledge on husbands which she has given to the world from her experiences is very useful for women, i guess 😆. Liked her a lot as spying mother, every mother does keep asking with whom you are chatting, to whom you are calling, have never heard this friend name before etc 😆

Neha taught that, "enjoy every moment of life, live the life to fullest, be stupid, be happy n keep others too happy but behave maturely whenever required"

Natasha:

what a transformation from spoilt brat to sensible n mature woman 👏. What I loved about her character is: she always learnt from her mistakes which people usually don't do. The character of Natasha taught me what stubbornness can do, how it can harm your life n your family life. I'll continue to be stubborn 😆 (how much I try but I can't let go off this habit of mine ) but I'll make sure that my zidd doesn't make anyone suffer including me 😆

Choti Pihu:

she was the most adorable kid star, She was too mature for her age, she always stood by her mother when they were living alone in Dubai, she used to thinks of ways to help her mother, to make mother happy.

Badi Pihu:

she revised what Natasha taught me, everyone was cursing her for abusing her mother, for using indecent words for her mother, separating her parents, emotionally blackmailing her father. I have seen numerous cases in Crime Patrol where children have actually killed their parents for money or love or some other reasons 😆. I am trying to say that a child like this does exists in our society, not supporting her though 😆. She finally understood and realized her mistakes and apologized to her parents. I so wanted her to confess the Varun issue in front of Ram but that didn't happened. May the makers were in hurry to finish the show 😕

Kush:

He was really the one who kept everyone Khush. The love, respect and gratitude that he had for RaYa, made him lovable. Though his parents were evil, he was angel. For me, he was the true selfless lover of Show as he knew everything but still chose to love her(Su 😆) unconditionally without any expectations n returns. His chemistry was good with everyone: with his dad, his Priya angel, his sisters' n rest of the family.

Sudhir n Shipra:

Sudhir was "suljha hua character" but his wife Shipra urf Miss bhubaneshwar was "uljhi huyi character" 🤣. Sudhir as a father was a true guide who always helped his children in making correct decision and he never forced his decision on them. On other, Shipra wanted the entire world's happiness at her children feet by hook or crook. Sudhir-Shipra made a cute couple, Shipra's "jaanuuu" shows how much they love each other at that age too 😆. sudhir should be getting Noble prize for tolerating Shipra and making his marriage work and Shipra too should get noble prize for keeping romance alive in their marriage. 🤣 🤣

Krishna:

Perfect lady to portray Ram's mother. I liked the way she held her head high with dignity; she never tried to expose Niharika neither she bad mouthed about her. She was very dignified mother indeed.

Niharika:

My fav vamp 😆...she was not typical vamp who will plan cheap things against her DIL like mixing mirchi in food made by DIL etc., 🤣 she was the classy vamp, she didn't used heavy makeup to show herself as evil, her acting was enough. 😛

Ayesha n Karthik: They were so good siblings in the beginning but by the end they turned out evil . I wanted their characters to be redeemed but that didn't happened. 😆

Sidharth:

another evil character...he was turned into positive character liked it. Very wicked n evil villain 😆

Mamaji:

How can I leave my mamaji behind? 😆 I love English very much, i hate it when ppl do any mistake in it especially with pronunciation but mamaji made me love silly pronunciation 😆, i too pronounce sometime in his way 😉. He was smartest of all s he know when to change his side. The way he call his sister as "sweetie" was good. 🤣 kya pic hai mamaji ki 🤣

Dadi:

first ever rockstar dadi, best thing was she used to be behind niharika 😆 and her "oye chutki" was fab n hilarious 🤣. The only person of whom Niharika was afraid of 🤣

List of lovely realtions: 😆

Best Husband -Wife as couple:

Of course RaYa 😳 but I liked following pairs too as they were special n perfect in their own way: NeVik, shipra-sudhir and Rahul-Kady

Best Father-Daughter:

Sudhir-Priya: We have always seen daughters sharing special bond with mothers but Priya-Sudhir changed the trend. ⭐️ Priya always shared everything about her life with Sudhir, she always discussed her problems with him n he helped her in taking right decision.

Best mother-daughter:

Priya n choti Pihu ofcourse, had awesome bonding. Neha too was great mom.

Best friends:

VikRam, dost ho toh aise. They were always there for each other at anytime. I still remember how Ram used to call Vikram at odd hours for even small issues

Best Brother-Sister:

Ram n choti. Everyone would love to have a brother like Ram-caring, over protective n ready to fight with anyone for you. Natasha, though, was spoilt brat but she was the only one who used to think good about Ram at least little. Then after her turning positive, she was indeed good sister.

Best SIL's:

Priya n Natasha, they stood for each other n gave each other emotional support in tough time proving SILs can be good friends.

Best MIL, FIL-SIL:

Shipra n Natasha, Shipra earned my respect when she supported Natasha during Ronak issue, i loved their emotional scenes in that track. Sudhir, like a father does, tried to marry her off so that she can lead a happy life. Natasha too took care of them when they ousted Kartik for cheating her. She became their daughter, big achievement.

Best FIL-SIL:

Sudhir n Ram, who says FIL n SIL can't be good friends. They indeed were good friends; Ram cared for him like his own son, in fact much better than him and vice-versa

Dil ka Rishta:

We often hear that 'blood relations are superior, they are true relations' but Kady n Kush proved it wrong. They showed 'dil ka rishta' is special n strong too. Kush always kept RaYa n their happiness above everything and Kady kept Priya above every relation.

Best Husband n wife (individually😆):

For me, both Ram n Vikram were perfect husbands and Priya n Neha were 'always' perfect wives (since wives are always right 😆)

P.S. I hope it was not boring 😆, it is completely my opinion 😆, everyone have a right to differ in their opinions n they can share it too 😆. If you are sharing your opinions please make sure that you don't bash any character, degrade any character and humble request try to make it garden not battle field 🤣 🤣. At last, thank you for reading 😛 (only those have read can take my thanks rest don't take it 🤣)

1) Arrange marriages are more successful compared to love marriages 😆

2) You can fall in love at any age and love is all about accepting each other with faults, vices n virtues. 😛

3) Men too can be perfect n cleanliness freak and women too can be clumsy. 🤣

Originally posted by: luvsakshi

1) Arrange marriages are more successful compared to love marriages 😆

2) You can fall in love at any age and love is all about accepting each other with faults, vices n virtues. 😛

3) Men too can be perfect n cleanliness freak and women too can be clumsy. 🤣

Good summary Naseem 😆 🤣

common bring out others also

I know you must have so many in your brian 😆

But good take ...

And i agree with you completely

when the promos aired it was like evrybody thought they will marry on some family issues and all

but eventually it ended diefferently but gripping story too

almost it was so near to the reality in few tracks ...

Originally posted by: peeyara

itni jaldi comment bhi kardiya 😆

haan aur bhi hai, posting them too 😆

Originally posted by: luvsakshi

Yeah i may get busy later so 😆

will be waiting

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