not happy with Rams behavior

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I said in a eariler post RAM is a such a sweet guy , and he is! i do love him..but i dont like his behavior towards juhi...before you guys come shouting at me..i just wana say juhi DID take care of Ram and his kids for 7 YEARS...now he treats her like trash? cant even sit next to her on the sofa? On sid and jihu wedding day, juhi did not tell priya everything on purpose! Ram like always jumped to conclusions...i know he loves priya a lot...and she woke up after 7 years...and the kids need her too but that doesnt mean Ram forgets everything juhi did..and i KNOW juhi is turning evil..but would you blame her? if i put my self in her shoes i would do the same thing...or atleast i would feel the same. you put 7 years of your life into something, only for i the person to treat you like this??? i understand that juhi should forget ram and be with sid...and i hope she realizes her mistake and doesnt go completely evil...

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram's behaviour is just and fair towards Juhi. In two ways he is right, both knowingly and unknowingly. First reason-she has tall claims she sacrificed 7 yrs of her life to Ram and his baccha party. Question in hand: did she really need to do that? Answer:No. Question: Has she really contributed significantly to the progress and upbringing of the baccha party,hence making her 7 yrs of "sacrifice" praiseworthy? Answer:No. Question: Is she fair in falling in love with Ram (a married man who loves his wife dearly) and expects him to feel the same for her and accept her? Answer: No. My 2nd reason why Ram is justified- if he continues to be all friendly and has a soft spot for her considering that 7 yrs, she will come to the conclusion that Ram wants her. He feels the same way. If Ram continues to talk to Juhi sweetly and accept all the little things she is still trying to do for him, the woman would be like "hey,he likes me too-time to get all close and personal with him". Like ewww. Juhi is a shameless woman. Priya is alive, even she is married now. Like seriously, a perfume that cannot smell but can feel?? Juhi is no way justified... I am loving Ram's far distance rude behaviour towards Juhi. U go my angry polar bear :)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

Ram's behaviour is just and fair towards Juhi. In two ways he is right, both knowingly and unknowingly. First reason-she has tall claims she sacrificed 7 yrs of her life to Ram and his baccha party. Question in hand: did she really need to do that? Answer:No. Question: Has she really contributed significantly to the progress and upbringing of the baccha party,hence making her 7 yrs of "sacrifice" praiseworthy? Answer:No. Question: Is she fair in falling in love with Ram (a married man who loves his wife dearly) and expects him to feel the same for her and accept her? Answer: No. My 2nd reason why Ram is justified- if he continues to be all friendly and has a soft spot for her considering that 7 yrs, she will come to the conclusion that Ram wants her. He feels the same way. If Ram continues to talk to Juhi sweetly and accept all the little things she is still trying to do for him, the woman would be like "hey,he likes me too-time to get all close and personal with him". Like ewww. Juhi is a shameless woman. Priya is alive, even she is married now. Like seriously, a perfume that cannot smell but can feel?? Juhi is no way justified... I am loving Ram's far distance rude behaviour towards Juhi. U go my angry polar bear :)


well said simran n i also loving ram's rude behaviour towards juhi
Edited by ArsyRam - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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priya had asked juhi to take care of her child but did she tell her to take over her children and ram.. There were so many family member to take care of ram and his children why juhi had to move in to KM .. She was a employe with kapoor industry she should have stay that way.. When she can take care of her own daughter by sending her to hostel... she could take care of this children by staying in her own house.. like a nanny who works for 8-9 hours the kids where not 2year of 3 year that they needed a mom to fed milk in the night.. Why did natasha , somaya and the great grandmother and grandmother could not take care of this child.. why they needed a extra mommy figure...

The only answer is Juhi wanted money and luxury and power.. Ram did not mind as he was getting a maid who took care of everything in absence of Priya without troubling his family and now that priya is back he dont feel the need of the maid.. and the maid deserves this
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramkideewani23

Ram's behaviour is just and fair towards Juhi. In two ways he is right, both knowingly and unknowingly. First reason-she has tall claims she sacrificed 7 yrs of her life to Ram and his baccha party. Question in hand: did she really need to do that? Answer:No. Question: Has she really contributed significantly to the progress and upbringing of the baccha party,hence making her 7 yrs of "sacrifice" praiseworthy? Answer:No. Question: Is she fair in falling in love with Ram (a married man who loves his wife dearly) and expects him to feel the same for her and accept her? Answer: No. My 2nd reason why Ram is justified- if he continues to be all friendly and has a soft spot for her considering that 7 yrs, she will come to the conclusion that Ram wants her. He feels the same way. If Ram continues to talk to Juhi sweetly and accept all the little things she is still trying to do for him, the woman would be like "hey,he likes me too-time to get all close and personal with him". Like ewww. Juhi is a shameless woman. Priya is alive, even she is married now. Like seriously, a perfume that cannot smell but can feel?? Juhi is no way justified... I am loving Ram's far distance rude behaviour towards Juhi. U go my angry polar bear :)


ppp perfect explanation😛


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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram behaviour is justified towards juhi...
She take care of ram n the kids for 7 years because she want ram...
Agree she didn't tell priya everything on purpose but these days the way she want Ram it's so shameful... Instead of making her married life fruitful with Sid she is more concern of raya... Peeping in their bedroom n wishing bad for priya... How dare she????
Moreover she is more interested in raya kid pihu than her daughter naina...
She is very selfish, self centred n shameful... If she want to b treated good... She should just leave raya n their kids alone... Jo woh karegi nahi so she will always end up humiliated...she deserve it.
Edited by simlavidhi - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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ram was behaving normally with juhi even after Priya came out of coma but when he got know that juhi loves him from that time he has distanced himself from her which is absolutely correct 😛
if he'll be nice after knowing everything then it'll mislead juhi, so his behaviour is justified 😛

Ram has always been very protective towards each relation be it sister, brothers, friends, daughters aur wife ke liye toh aur bhi zyaada hona chahiye...no harm in it😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi One thing i would like to say that Ram getting angry has not started after Priya's return he was freindly with her even after Priya came back from coma Infact he asked priya Not to talk so rudely to juhi when juhi came between pihu and priya All This Hate relation started when juhi told the truth to priya(unintentionally) then reality struck to ram that juhi loves him
Now tell me what should he supposed to do?Ignore or throw her out of house He started ignoring her he wont go to her and scold ir shout at her on daily basis it is when juhi comes near to him or does something stupid he goes mad at her if he gives silent treatment to her she will be in her own bubbble that ram also reciprocates her feelings already juhi feels that Ram was hers before priya came back which is absolutely not true.Ram never treated her more than a friend a friend who helped him and for that he did everything from givivng shares to taking care of her child but unfortunately Juhi fell in love with him which ram didnt expect that remember the scene where he tells priya that "There is nothing betweeen him and juhi with so much confidence "
Now its juhi's turn to understand Ram and silently leave him and priya alone
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: alldiscussionId

priya had asked juhi to take care of her child but did she tell her to take over her children and ram.. There were so many family member to take care of ram and his children why juhi had to move in to KM .. She was a employe with kapoor industry she should have stay that way.. When she can take care of her own daughter by sending her to hostel... she could take care of this children by staying in her own house.. like a nanny who works for 8-9 hours the kids where not 2year of 3 year that they needed a mom to fed milk in the night.. Why did natasha , somaya and the great grandmother and grandmother could not take care of this child.. why they needed a extra mommy figure...

The only answer is Juhi wanted money and luxury and power.. Ram did not mind as he was getting a maid who took care of everything in absence of Priya without troubling his family and now that priya is back he dont feel the need of the maid.. and the maid deserves this

I dont think ram thought juhi as maid you dont give shares to a maid and be friendly with them @bold this is absolutely not true He is not a person who would use and throw a person when his needs are fulfilled
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram is Ram with his what to say good heart he trusts people and as Juhi was Priya's friend he looked at her as a friend and when Juhi took care of kids he would have felt happy as in Priya's absence children do need a mother figure..he tried to be both mom and dad but still Juhi if she looked aftr kids like teen Pihu and children myra pari(no one was a toddler here)he would have felt ok.But truely Juhi wasnt needed there as Soumya was always there and Nuts would love to help.
But for all that she did he too was running to do so much even marrying her to help her to get her kid(about whom Juhi herself is least bothered..btw where is Naina???mom Juhi sent her to hostel kya?))
So what ever she did was with her wish no one asked her to do and no one expected any favour but everyone respected what ever she did..I may sound rude if I say Kisne bola bhai 7saal dene ko??Hadd hai yaar.
Its not fair Priya wali dialogue tho Rofls wali hai is she mad or what..Priya is his wife n their mom so she has every right more than anyone else on earth.
So nothing wrong if Ram is rude towards Juhi as her past and present feelings are unwanted and troubleworthy.

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