Analysis of yesterday episode By Geetha

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Posted: 11 years ago
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This Post i found on RKR friends FB page I like Her takes and i liked her view on yesterday episode also so thought of sharing it here..and i agree with her




To be honest, I was irked by Mr. Kapoor yesterday.. Yesterday, I thought he was trying to hide his closeness with Naina from Priya, for me that was bad in two aspects,
1) he was letting down a girl, who accepted him as a father figure and whom he promised to protect.
2) I understand he couldn't tell about his marriage plans to Priya because her health, but why to hide about Naina, when Priya already knows about the adaption plan..that means he is not honest about the reason why he is hiding things from Priya and I want him to be as honest as possible with Priya..

For me, more than anything else, he is a wonderful human being.. The way he see the best in everybody, the way he showers unconditional love to his family, whether they are related by blood (his siblings, his children) or by heart ( Sid, Kush, Naina), the cynic in me is always amazed by his this quality.. But, I felt he was letting me down in this aspect yesterday..

And today he is back and back with a bang..

He didn't correct when Naina called him Dad, yet he wanted Sid to have a bonding with her.. He didn't shy away when Juhi touched him, because his heart was pure..

And, then the way he addressed Priya's very valid questions & fears, the honesty in his eyes & words, you made me a proud fan today, Ram..

His body language & straight talk conveyed that he doesn't carry any guilt with him in this matter.. When Priya asked for the truth, he could have told he & Juhi are just friends, but he went all the way in explaining Juhi's place in his life, yes it is a bitter truth as for as Priya is concerned, but the truth she needs to know.. He is confident of his love for Priya, yes Juhi fulfilled the role of mother of his children in his life in Priya's absence, but she could never replace Priya as the rightful owner of his heart.. That was so so clear today..

Some people may say, he was too harsh, but the truth about Juhi's place in his children's life is a harsh reality, that need to be conveyed straightforwardly to Priya, there is no way to sweeten the blow.. And if Priya knows this truth, she can handle and reestablish the bond with the children much better..

There are two things I am happy about here,
1) the way Ram stressed Juhi's contribution and role, very cleared conveyed the high esteem, trust & respect Ram has for Juhi. Now that Priya knows it, she will tread carefully while exposing Juhi's truths.. She won't take any abrupt action, which will result in unwanted MU between RaYa (I hope)
2) Ram has completely no idea about Juhi's feeling for him, and i am glad that he doesn't know, because if he had known, he would not have been able to reply Priya so confidently & honestly, there would have been a guilt in him that Priya would be able to sense. Now, it is crystal clear to Priya that Ram doesn't have any feelings (except friendship, respect & gratitude) for Juhi..

Yes, our Golu is too naive to understand that Juhi's intentions were not pure.. But, it takes a pure heart to see only goodness in people.. I today remembered one mythological story about duryodhana & Yudhisthira where the former could see only negativity around and the latter could see only positivity.. How true it is, it takes a pure heart to believe everyone around them as pure..

I just wonder how devastated & guilty he will feel when he realises true face of Juhi.. No worries, we have our PRK to take care of him .

Now about acting in this scene, I am tired of saying it again & again. But RaShi rocked it again, what expressions, body language, they are just made to be paired opposite each other on screen..

Now about the return of the Sherni,

Welcome back Darling, we had been missing you for long..

She is back and she is here to protect her Sher and cubs..

I loved her sensitivity while talking with Pihu, she just didn't start blaming her, she tried to be understanding..

And the master piece was putting Juhi to her place.. What a style, great job PRK..

I loved the way she thanked Juhi for taking care of her family for so long, but politely asked her to back off from now..

And the look she gave Juhi when she tried to comment about RaYa relationship, just fab..

She surely knows Juhi has her both eyes on her hubby now, so it won't be too much of shock to know about the planned wedding (I hope).

What I liked most,
1) she realised that Pihu is physiologically damaged, she will handle her with care..

What I didn't like
1) she still not revealing the truth to Ram, bad move. As a father, Ram has to know the truth.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Good analysis, Geetha. I liked that scene between Ram and Priya. Ram was firm and spoke without guilt while explaining about Juhi because he does not have any guilt in his heart where his feelings are concerned. It may have sounded harsh but as you said, the truth has to be said as it is. Would have been good if the marriage fact came from Ram himself but I think the CVs are reserving that for the drama. Hence, the line from Ram that Suhani has told him not to stress Priya and surely the marriage fact will cause a jolt.
Juhi is still a mystery to me. Is she good, is she bad or is she just a normal person? Parenting styles being different doesn't make a person negative to me. The CVs may still be contemplating about how to turn Juhi's character.
I have the opinion that all parents can learn from each other...imbibe the good and throw away the not so good. Perhaps, Priya needs to be a friend to her daughters, along with being a strict parent and Juhi needs to be stricter. I wonder if Pihu feels her mom is holding her secret over her head. Perhaps when the marriage fact comes out, Pihu's secret should too.
Naina is just reacting the way she is because she is just a young girl whose world has been turned upside down. She needs help, just like Pihu does.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For me the most hurtful thing was the way he said those harsh truths. She was hurting & he kept at it without giving a thought to her reaction. He could have said all those things with more love & compassion
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishakupp

For me the most hurtful thing was the way he said those harsh truths. She was hurting & he kept at it without giving a thought to her reaction. He could have said all those things with more love & compassion


then it would be like buttering her My POV
as u said harsh truths it showed his confidence that there is nothing between Them
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Originally posted by: 3vennela


then it would be like buttering her My POV
as u said harsh truths it showed his confidence that there is nothing between Them

One doesnt have to be rude to make sure he is not buttering up. There is a happy medium without going to either extremes. His wife is crying & he is not moved in anyway. Hard to digest. Anyway all have different POVs
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thank you 3vennela for sharing my post here..
I am pleasantly surprised to see it here.. By that way what is your ID in FB?

The title I had given to this post is

"What is the highlight of today... Return of Sherni or return of Honest Kapoor?"

Sugnathi, I also made a post on my thoughts on Juhi & her intentions on the day she made the day she made the Implicit love confession. I am also planning to do one today based on her behaviour in yeaterday's episode..

Let's disucss about parenting in a while..




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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram is more concern for naina than priya... He was very clear about that yesterday...he wasn't able to see Priya's pain... Priya's insecurity with his hurting words...itna kuch kehediya to pura sach hi bata deta...haq se.
N warn priya to stay away from juhi as it's non of her business because she is their kids mum haq se n he is naina dad haq se...for the past 7. 'Our relationship is more than friendship... N there is love too btw us but only for u'. Yeh kaisa statement ... Am confused!!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: vishakupp

For me the most hurtful thing was the way he said those harsh truths. She was hurting & he kept at it without giving a thought to her reaction. He could have said all those things with more love & compassion


The men never think about priya feeling . If he think divorce thing never happen. He always think about himself or other people not Priya . And i cant understand a person who left her wife in death bed claim he love her a lot bull shit , utter crap.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Ram agar sach mein itna honest rehta toh Priya ko kabhi divorce nahi deta...abb Priya wapas aa gayi hai toh abb kaise Ram Naina ke liye other alternative dundh raha hai in order to get her custody
tabb marriage is the only option. now what happens.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes if it is honesty, he would have immediately stopped Naina being called him Ram Uncle instead of Dad? why is the relieved expressions when kids dragged priya the other side?
Juhi and priya's upbringing are so different, yes i agree each parent has his own style of parenting.

but the way Juhi was telling its ok to have boy friends , iss umar mein hota hai, priya's reaction was its ok to have boyfreind not evey now and then a new boyfriend and dumping them. How can it be ok to have boyfriends and dumping them?to what extent? how easily she told she knew what happened 7years back, then why didn't she ever tried to correct pihu? Ok at least when she entered KM, she was not knowing ram much, but she was priya's friend, dosti ke khaatir hi usse samjha sakti thi na apni upbringing style se not like a strict mother like priya? now also she is supporting pihu this is wrong. The worst part is she is sweetly warning priya about Priya n Ram's connections and Pihu and Priya's connections? what is this all about? isn't she has the least courtesy to be in KM bcoz of Priya? chalo dosti gayi bhaad mein.

Coming to ram, usne jhat se samjh liya tha Nisha ko , and priya ki insecurity ko why can't he do the same kind of analysis here? itna toh soch hi sakta hai na ki why priya is reacting mad over his n Juhi's relationship?

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