Ram please wake up - Page 4

Originally posted by: mahumita_mitra

so tit for tat is it?? as if she is his business rival.. all this tym he was still justified but today wht he did was over the top... when he is wrong at least admit it

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I agree with your last line,we all love Ram,but sometime we also hate him.

Originally posted by: -MariaMars-

Guys. Its against IF Rules to post in CAPS as it is considered as shouting. Please edit your posts.

Originally posted by: leo4ever

tumhi batadu oTT kia kiya ram nay? leavig ayesha with pihu is his fault (That i agree)ya not hugging the wife- who is still not sure if wife or not wife?

Originally posted by: Anamika163

the wife is sure that she is his wife.. da hubby is not sure.. oh sorry.. u right actually woh toh uska hubby hain hi nehi... woh toh Ayesha madam ka hubby hain 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Anamika163

the wife is sure that she is his wife.. da hubby is not sure.. oh sorry.. u right actually woh toh uska hubby hain hi nehi... woh toh Ayesha madam ka hubby hain 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: Anamika163

his ego is OTT..

where in this week where in this epi?? see the problem is that when fingers are raised at ram it is at one incident not the overall picture, at first u said it was all justified till today hence i asked what did he do today??

1. is it ego to call priya when faced with problem
2. to say ok if mummy dsnt allow it we wnt have icecream
3. ego ot go and check up on her request
4. ego -to explain and admit hat u were right but she is fine coz of ur pic??
5. that is ego ???
6. or is this ego that she gave piuhu sao now he give upo my dads love and just return her and he is not dong so is that ego??????

it over powers his love for priya..

it is HURT it is pain, it is confusion, his heart says to accpet her, his mind says cant what if she goes away, what if she always wants to remain single what if now dsnt want it be in KM

and leaving pihu to ayesha was just irresponsible whereas he knows ayesha's nature..

1. apart from the pooja epi he has never seen ayesha behave badly, ayesha has always faked being a good mum to khush in front of him she paints with him she hugs him all in front of ram
2. she was trying to be nice to pihu she called massi tou he allowed her not as a mum ( which she did last time)
3. so although it was wrong to trust ayesha will actually care abt priyas kid he did it but is this a crime is this his ego is this a sin? no he is a confused character for me..hey thats not confused character that is called emotions, no one has the same feelnigs every day do they? and u vent at ppl u love !! atleaset that is what was benig said when ever priya was bashed for being irritated or being rude to ram and nice to others on one hand he misses priya on the other hand he is always yelling at her always when?? the phone call he was patient at the edn t was exasperation not yelling it is very common in men n wie, hubbys get exasperated by wifes thing dsnt mean dnt lov, ..
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5. it was no longer of revenge when he came in front of her, his asking to be with pihu is not rtevenge is not ego it is the need to feel like a dad it is the dads love !!!for once can he leave his ego, his idea to revenge aside and gv his love more importance..
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7. no i dnt bring the past into discussion to prove a point, what she idd was over, her giving up pihu is her remorse her redemption she is doing so coz now she gets that she was wrong to speerate dad and kid and she cant replace ram!!! what i need from BOTH of them is to understand the need to express what they are feelnig, rifght now ram is shown as both a dad, and a hubby feeling the pain of his wife on givng kid, but priya is just a mum, if ram at this moment gives up pihu priya will be back to happy priya no more missing, the fact that ram still misses something even when pihu is there is a fact that he is missing priyA will she do so NO!! now u might say priya shud hv also done that.. i am not saying priya's decision to leave ram 5 years back was right.. but wht ram is doing now is childish and illogical

Originally posted by: leo4ever

where in this week where in this epi?? see the problem is that when fingers are raised at ram it is at one incident not the overall picture, at first u said it was all justified till today hence i asked what did he do today??

1. is it ego to call priya when faced with problem
2. to say ok if mummy dsnt allow it we wnt have icecream
3. ego ot go and check up on her request
4. ego -to explain and admit hat u were right but she is fine coz of ur pic??
5. that is ego ???
6. or is this ego that she gave piuhu sao now he give upo my dads love and just return her and he is not dong so is that ego??????

ya he is doing all that.. mummy said not hv ice cream.. call mummy to make her eat.. keeping her away from mummy.. how sensible is that??

it is HURT it is pain, it is confusion, his heart says to accpet her, his mind says cant what if she goes away, what if she always wants to remain single what if now dsnt want it be in KM

1. apart from the pooja epi he has never seen ayesha behave badly, ayesha has always faked being a good mum to khush in front of him she paints with him she hugs him all in front of ram oh really?? so u r supporting ayesha now?? thats hilarious.. ram is not a kid to know ayesha's intentions.. whether she fakes it or not
2. she was trying to be nice to pihu she called massi tou he allowed her not as a mum ( which she did last time) yeah right.. he has so much trust on his former biwi
3. so although it was wrong to trust ayesha will actually care abt priyas kid he did it but is this a crime is this his ego is this a sin? no .hey thats not confused character that is called emotions, no one has the same feelnigs every day do they? wow wow hold it.. i said he is a confused character for me.. that is my POV.. u cannot force to change it ! and u vent at ppl u love !! atleaset that is what was benig said when ever priya was bashed for being irritated or being rude to ram and nice to othe always when?? the phone call he was patient at the edn t was exasperation not yelling it is very common in men n wie, hubbys get exasperated by wifes thing dsnt mean dnt lov, phone convo was patient?? yeah it was patient.. patient from priya's side.. he startded from da beginning "wht do u think i cant take care of her n all" he couldnt keep her on line n check in for peehu once.. he disconnected then it struck him... it was nothing but his stubbornness.. again this is my POV.. m not asking u to follow my POV
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5. it was no longer of revenge when he came in front of her, his asking to be with pihu is not rtevenge is not ego it is the need to feel like a dad it is the dads love ! if it was not revenge he would hv never chosen to go to court at da 1st place
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7. no i dnt bring the past into discussion to prove a point, what she idd was over, her giving up pihu is her remorse her redemption she is doing so coz now she gets that she was wrong to speerate dad and kid and she cant replace ram!!! what i need from BOTH of them is to understand the need to express what they are feelnig, rifght now ram is shown as both a dad, and a hubby feeling the pain of his wife on givng kid, but priya is just a mum, wow.. its strange that u see a hubby in ram but not a wife in priya.. she gave up pihu not just becoz she is a mom but also becoz she is a wife.. da mistake she had done she has accepted it whole heartedly.. wht else is she suppose to do..?? claim her rights on ram?? i dont think thats a good idea.. n thats not priya... its upto ram to decide that is it priya or ayesha for him.. if ram at this moment gives up pihu priya will be back to happy priya no more missing, the fact that ram still misses something even when pihu is there is a fact that he is missing priyA will she do so NO!! n how do u know that?? now here u yourself contradicting u words.. when i said he is a confused character this is wht i meant.. he misses priya but he's fighting with her too.. he needs to decide big time.. n how do u think priya spent da 5 years?? u want to say she didnt miss him?? so may i know wht is the ground for saying so?? what is childish in asking to be attached ot his kid what is illogical in asking ot be cvlose to his kid to not to want to miss any more moments? there is nothing childish wanting be close to your own kid da childish n illogical part is to keep a child apart from her mother.. n here's his idea of revenge