Originally posted by: cooldreams
All the while I was watching yesterday's epi, one question kept on popping up in my mind. And I felt like posting it here. Did Ram kidnap anybody else's kid and is he holding her hostage in his mansion?🤣 i knw esp when day before nuts came with all attitude and said priya nay apni beti ka saman bheja ha paanch saal du suitcase mei fit karna mushkil hai,but the real funny part is priya had only come for finding kady tou uss waqt b kaisay lai woh 5 years of pihu in two bags🤣🤣🤣🤣
If a Mom's Love is only what a kid needs then, why did God have to create a Dad? ⭐️⭐️👏👏👏 Yes, I agree..a Mother's relation with her child is considered supreme to any other relation in this world..but it doesn't take away the fact that, Dad's role is equally important for a child's advent into this world.
see had the role been reversed , if pihu was living with her dad and then suddenly to her mum in a new house with ppl she has never bonded,her reaction wold be same!!😊 kids need the person they are used to not necessary the relation,😊 remember amir manish akele hum movie the kid ddnt want to leave his dad, the other move janwar akshay raised a kid the kid found parents liked mum but when sent to them ddnt want to stay wanted the person he grew up with!! the bottom line is that kids this young need the stability need the security and they need the same thing!! 😃New things ppl trouble them
while priya always said that want ram to be involved pihu just visted KM twice or once, it could have been shurh se hi that priya should have asked pihu to go there more often why so that she bonds with her relatives priya always treated like pihu is gong to a guest house not her house , i am not blaming her maybe she felt like case hrha ha tou shldnt let her go or that ayeshas life will be spoilt or that ram should ask, but my point is just that since she has already caused distance she should have made sure that pihu spends day there, maybe go from school or in eve, the prob is that since she came pihu was only allowed to bond with her nanhial her nana bua/mami neha and nani so she is oomfortable there,- remember she slept aram se there in shooting night but not the first night ( again ramu was in hosp) why?coz it was new to her then later she got used ot it, for ram benift the fact is that it is new to her( pihu) she will need to adjust so it is not at all about dad or mums love!! it is abt new surrounding and other than ram pihu knows NO-ONE 😡
I'm so disappointed how Ram's family & friends are treating him.🤢 NEHA for me is the most undeserving person as a dost, i refuse to count her in rams dost circles his family is shameful his in-lwas a joke, his sis a disappointment it is only vikram and now priya who gets him as always 👏
My biggest disappointment today is from KK,🤢 a mother who chose to stay away from her kid for 20 odd years only to see him safe...always knew her son was a child at heart and all he needs is True Love, a caring person and somebody who could feel his pain as their own...Atleast this is what I recollect KK advising Priya from Season 1.👏👏👏 Being a Mom herself and missing out on those critical growth period of her son, I was hoping she could relate the fact that Time lost can never be made up..how much ever money u own...!! 👏If a Mom is expected to have an instinct to make out what the child is going through, then where is her Motherly Love for Ram?⭐️ She had come back after 20+ years of solitude only for her son who was all alone..shattered with Priya's accident news..She has been with Ram, through this 5 year guilt and anguish period and yet seems to be cold towards him. yes i thought i was the only person to feel this, K is one hell of a cold mum 🤢 she can feel the pain of a maa giving up kid for betterment but cant identify with the pain of losing out the kids special moments the pain of living without the kid wasram he lived five years with guilt with the pain alone!! If there is anybody else besides Priya, who could've given that much needed solace to Ram at this point in time, it would've been KK.👏 But she seemed to be unfair to Ram today with her lines. Yes, the history seemed to repeat...but is Ram the culprit here? No. His actions are triggered by somebody else's decisions. She could've played a strong Mother and empathize Ram's pain and advise him what is right or wrong..but No.
😡😡 yes i wished she would have talked more abt he feeling of missing, she shd have pointed out that since the anger has gone away it is only the love of proiya that is making him this way, instead of making it sound as if he has snatched pihu from priya, i am so sure that if priya had won KK wld have prolly thrown a party for priya victory in KM 🤢
Next person is Sudhir...the only wise Sharma. - for me the EX WISE man now an INGRATE A son who respected him and stood by him in need..a SIL who took over his spoilt brat's responsibility...gave a surname to her unborn baby...bore the drama queen Shipraji only to keep his supposedly dead wife happy...!!👏 A SIL who didn't rest until he cleared the criminal title off his dead wife's name..who had no second thoughts in taking bullet for his Love...is now considered as a rich dad who nurtures his daughter with materialistic things. Still can't get his looks of disgust to Ram at the court.😡
When he expects the best for his own daughter Priya... how is Ram any different for Peehu? Was expecting some words of wisdom from him with regards to Ram's stand. But Nothing.
Natasha & Neha have only taken advantage of Ram's unconditional Love for them.🤢🤢 i dnt count neha as friend anymore , nUTS is a shame 🤢
Rajat a best friend of Ram, has failed to see father's love and husband's anguish.🤢😡 coz he is IN LOOOVVVEEE with his bf wife!! .🤢even after being a writer himself and preaching the world how beautiful Love is...he failed to understand, this emotion himself. His lines with the ungrateful women abt how badly Priya needs to cry, kept me thinking if he is the parent of peehu?😡 however what i loved was how after hs declartionMRS PRIYA RAM KAPOOR has kept him at a arms distance😆
For all of those, who presume Ram to be the culprit & Priya the victim...let me share my POV.
We have nothing of this sort here. Both Ram and Priya are equally the victims👏
Ram being the mostly affected. for me it is mainly coz he was living a life as a result of someone else decision, if u make a decision it is wrong gets u pain u bear it coz U made it if ur faced with problems as a consequences of someones else action decision that is more painful!!
For a Man to know that all the pain he's been going thru for the past 5 years is actually due to somebody's decison.👏👏👏.where he was not even allowed to make that choice..and having to know abt his own child's existence accidentally..and having to comprehend that he lost the beautiful moments, which he never thought would happen...👏👏👏 epic this is the real problem i have this hurt was nto showcased bys cvs properly!! and having to face the truth that the one person actually couldn't fathom the intensity of his Love...and that one person couldn't trust that his world would stop the day she left him...and made that decision to keep him away indefinitely, God knows until when..has hit him very hard and deep. 👏👏👏It's not something that would go away in a day nor would it have a certain time frame for healing. To heal this unseen injury, a heatfelt conversation has to happen..Love needs to be showered abundantly..empathize liberally👏 uff standing ovation 👏👏👏
. If it was the ego of this Man that's speaking...he wouldn't have got the bullet for a wife with whom he is already fighting tooth-n-nail for custody...he wouldn't stand there speechless, to hear to unsolicited bhashans from so-called-best-friends..He wouldn't face those brickbats and disgust looks from his Mom, Nutz, sudhir and entire family...He wouldn't readily call his kid's mom just at a mere request of her need to share the details...wouldn't hesitate in requesting for help from the kids's mom to convince her to eat..wouldn't feel the pain when his own daughter in her rightful house, believes it not to be her home...!! 👏This Man has been going through a lot and has been outrightly ignored by all his family and friends.😭 There is hardly anyone so far who has shared his pain...may be Vikram to some extent. Peehu has been the sole reason for his survival after the heartbreak he had..and as any normal dad, he would want to give her the best which she rightfully deserves. He's fighting with the entire world to keep his baby with him...but at the same time missing his wife badly.⭐️ He still is confused if he could trust her..while the heart says yes..the head says no.😳 i am totally in love with u at this point😆😆 He is battling with the pent up emotions and yet would want to show it only to that one person..👏
His happiness of bringing home his daughter seemed incomplete becoz somebody special is missing around him...!! I feel very badly for Ram for having to put up with everybody's outbursts and yet stay calm..😕😕😭.but at the same time, I'm also glad that it was after all only Priya, who seems to trust Ram to be a good parent and is willing to make amends now. yes finally priya ram kappoor is there atleast since this week👏👏👏 I do empathize with Ram, regardless of how many do support him...and I Also believe Priya Ram Kapoor is here to stay now👏..Thanks for reading thru this long post..I just had to let it out my system..just like Neha says ;) 😆
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