Oct 17th : Mixed bag! Note page 3 - Page 2

Now this bit about Neha is driving me a bit mad - a woman under extreme stress , who for her children's sake had gone on pretending for months as the happy family unit , tried her best , doesnt have the right to take a few days off ????? why - because vikram cant fend for their breakfast and look after them for a few days - something she's done as housewife for 17 years? she cant have a few days off if she's suddenly lost nerve and has this moment when she is unable to feel upto facing family etc for a very little while ???? - yes the children need her , but she needs to be in a position where she can handle being their for them as her mother at this crucial point- sometimes it happens , her children would be much worse off seeing their mother break into pieces before them ! ...

Originally posted by: Mahesh78

Sorry guys for not agreeing with u all.

I find the expressions most appropriate in the situation she is. Rajat according to her is just a friend and nothing more so she welcomes him with a smile as she would do to Neha or Vikram, she doesn't know his feelings for her so she is still in dark, and her expression towards Ram, even there I dont't find any fault in that, she is surprised at his visit that late in the night, when he promised to come next day to pick them up, she was not expecting him that too so late in the night, so she was surprised.why are we so hell bent on judging all the male, female relation in one track, why can't Priya and Rajat be good frnds? Just because he used to love her before he knew that she was PRK, doesn't mean he can't be even friend with her? So mean.

One more thing I would agree, Rajat being never in any relationship doesn't know how the solve the problem in Priya's life, he doesn't know that the only solution to make her happy would be to unite RaYa, the day he realises that then may be he will put his efforts in that direction, unlike Vikram who knows the importance of a family, since heis married and have children. So let us wait and watch.

I agree completely - suddenly for those feeling on ram's behalf - priya has lost the right to have some human reactions too - , despite her constant overtures and all attempts to facilitate ram and pihu's relationship, her constant understanding of ram's need for space and time , her staying back to fight it all out , resisting both shipra and ayesha's claims despite her old loyalty to family - nothing couts !! ...she cant feel surprised at a sudden night visit, cant get exasparated if ram asks the principal whether the school has ac and good tiles !!, cant feel touched at a hand of friendship which is extended at such times when she's out their battling things alone when noone seems to realise that her being alive atleast despite her deception, having brought up a daughter , is a blessing ...she has to endlessly without having a human moment , pander to what ram is feeling , grovel in remorse and at all points just constantly feel guilty !!!

Originally posted by: rehana11

Now this bit about Neha is driving me a bit mad - a woman under extreme stress , who for her children's sake had gone on pretending for months as the happy family unit , tried her best , doesnt have the right to take a few days off ????? why - because vikram cant fend for their breakfast and look after them for a few days - something she's done as housewife for 17 years? she cant have a few days off if she's suddenly lost nerve and has this moment when she is unable to feel upto facing family etc for a very little while ???? - yes the children need her , but she needs to be in a position where she can handle being their for them as her mother at this crucial point- sometimes it happens , her children would be much worse off seeing their mother break into pieces before them ! ...

unfortunately people find it hard to break from social contentions and hence view point of analysis can be explained. what you said about her children would be much worse seeing Neha break into pieces is correct and sometimes a person needs his or her own space to stand back on his/her feet to clear the head. if Vikram had wanted to do the same, the question raised on Neha will never arise. If you see on the night of the cake drama vikram went out to seek solace while Neha stayed to calm the kids. Her priority when they needed the most, she put them before her torment. We claim to be modern women understanding the needs of her without bias! but do we really?

Originally posted by: rehana11

I agree completely - suddenly for those feeling on ram's behalf - priya has lost the right to have some human reactions too - , despite her constant overtures and all attempts to facilitate ram and pihu's relationship, her constant understanding of ram's need for space and time , her staying back to fight it all out , resisting both shipra and ayesha's claims despite her old loyalty to family - nothing couts !! ...she cant feel surprised at a sudden night visit, cant get exasparated if ram asks the principal whether the school has ac and good tiles !!, cant feel touched at a hand of friendship which is extended at such times when she's out their battling things alone when noone seems to realise that her being alive atleast despite her deception, having brought up a daughter , is a blessing ...she has to endlessly without having a human moment , pander to what ram is feeling , grovel in remorse and at all points just constantly feel guilty !!!

yup if she does not do so, she would be called a prostitute...she must be she is talking to another man and smiling at him...who asked her to accept friendship or goodwill from another man. if a woman doesn't ponder 24 hrs on the husbands feelings .. then she definitely be thinking of another man. and you said fight back! ... she should give pihu back without any fuss and wo the man who keeps throwing second wife in her face. Her anxiety of losing a child is nothing. ... she should not prepare to contest the custody issue.. how dare she? instead of grovelling and begging before her husband she dares to fight! what era do you live in?

Originally posted by: ujwala444

yup if she does not do so, she would be called a prostitute...she must be she is talking to another man and smiling at him...who asked her to accept friendship or goodwill from another man. if a woman doesn't ponder 24 hrs on the husbands feelings .. then she definitely be thinking of another man. and you said fight back! ... she should give pihu back without any fuss and wo the man who keeps throwing second wife in her face. Her anxiety of losing a child is nothing. ... she should not prepare to contest the custody issue.. how dare she? instead of grovelling and begging before her husband she dares to fight! what era do you live in?

sorry bt disagree with u...rajat is only trying to help priya...moreover he also want to unite ram and priya...he wanted to become only good friend of priya...and priya done mistake five yrs ago for which she is extemely sorry and now wt u want... wt she should do? kill her self right na ...and she is trying her level best to makes ram happy...she is giving all rights to ram ...bt wt about ram he said that priya is mother of pihu and ayesha is his wife mrs ram kapoor ...crap... and ab priya ki yahi aukaad reh gayi ayesha mrs ram kapoor aur priya sirf us ki beti ki maa...and nothing else😡

Originally posted by: malickhabiba

sorry bt disagree with u...rajat is only trying to help priya...moreover he also want to unite ram and priya...he wanted to become only good friend of priya...and priya done mistake five yrs ago for which she is extemely sorry and now wt u want... wt she should do? kill her self right na ...and she is trying her level best to makes ram happy...she is giving all rights to ram ...bt wt about ram he said that priya is mother of pihu and ayesha is his wife mrs ram kapoor ...crap... and ab priya ki yahi aukaad reh gayi ayesha mrs ram kapoor aur priya sirf us ki beti ki maa...and nothing else😡

Originally posted by: rehana11

Now this bit about Neha is driving me a bit mad - a woman under extreme stress , who for her children's sake had gone on pretending for months as the happy family unit , tried her best , doesnt have the right to take a few days off ????? why - because vikram cant fend for their breakfast and look after them for a few days - something she's done as housewife for 17 years? she cant have a few days off if she's suddenly lost nerve and has this moment when she is unable to feel upto facing family etc for a very little while ???? - yes the children need her , but she needs to be in a position where she can handle being their for them as her mother at this crucial point- sometimes it happens , her children would be much worse off seeing their mother break into pieces before them ! ...

no but now she seems ok when she can lectre fatty ,be ok with her hubby , concerned abt priya, having chit chat with sharmas, cant she for a min call up to see ohw they are donig? the poor kids were sitting alone wondering if cld talk to mum got my heart out!! yes parents have probs but she shd atelast not abandon them, touch base tou rakhey? shd have explained ot te kids y needs ot go away, if not then shd have called thme in morng, called them over ot new house anyting ot make thme felel not abandoned!! it is not abyt gender equlity it is abt parents- had vik moved out i wdl have said the same!!

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Originally posted by: fosla

Today's episode turned out like Monday. More disappointments inspite of some high points.

very true i after seeing the whole rapo wanted to not watch the pei saw it thinknig that promo wld come but was mistaken!!😊

Ram Kapoor and Pihu Kapoor the rockstars continue to bring smiles on the faces. 👏👏👏

3 rocking kapoor's in the 1st scene were a good memory. loved nuts too!!❤️

The problem users Neha,Rajat are back. Priya Sharma aka Kapoor let me down pretty badly. 👏👏👏👏100% agreed!!

The perfect family : I loved loved loved the scene. A tad too short considering they had that tacky scene with Rajat forever in the next segment. 🤢 Peehu wanting to know if her dad loved spending time with her and mumma. Exchange of looks and eye locks leading to a moment of papa loves to spend time with beti. There was no RB but enough to say it was his daughter that mattered and his wife needs to earn her way back. if only the wife gets that part!!

Ram wanting a Pihu waala goodbye and a hug before taking permission from his daughter was cuteness overload. 😳😳And Priya looking at them with happiness made it perfect. 😳Loved the exchange of you have managed everything for 5 years and now I can take over. 😉Subtle sarcasm served with smile. Loved it.👏👏👏 They were going to do it for Pihu was a reflection on putting aside their current differences. A very touching scene.👏👏 what i dnt like was he point of priya obhjjecting ot ram picknig her up!! even in season one i ddnt like habit of prya having the last owrd and this time tou i got uff what is ur masla!!

Apni had main raho : A repeat of the GET OUT scene. Whattay relief!!Another instance of relationship exists. Another reminder of stay in your limits and I am not your husband to give you account for my daily meetings. Just loved it. And the delivery of those lines treating Ayesha as a non entity was brilliant. It was just the scene I needed after seeing the saccharine sweet goody shoes act.

this for me was the saving grace of the epi onwards!! with this i cld sawllow the rapo oversdoes!! 🤢

Random Ramblings:

Neha Shergill - Pack your bags lady. Puhleez. 👏You are neither serving the purpose of being RaYa mediator or shoo away Rajat the meddler. Atleast how about staying with your kids at the moment when such a breaking news has affected them.

yes i am so surpirsed at her, she blames fatty for not thiknig of pihu and she has she thot of her kids once she came back? they had to call her!! ik dafa tou she cld have calleed them atleasst? i feel she is just not intersted in priya ram conversation, for her irt is fatty is unreasonable and priya is right now fatty shd understand, aray how and why and how will it be if there is no effort on either side!! vikram is a true fred of bot h RAM and priay!!

If that news didn't break, atleast it made sense to stay as Priya's friend to support her for frew days. Now its annoying more so that you have to get a call from them to show your love.🤢😡😭

Rajat Kapoor : Please learn the definition of friendship or take a crash course from Vikram.

100 % agreeed!! he says when i saw u i saw u with pihu, meand he has a sonogram vison coz at that time priya ddnt knw she was preggy!! 😉 i dnt knw i just feel this is a ekta trump card, right now he is being shown as nice coz he feels that ram has nothing to do with priya andp riya is alos ok with it- ( due ot rams anger n priyas total indifference) and so he is being a good supprt of her k fine priya and pihu will be saath she can move on, but the min priya shows or raya starts t hsappen i feel it will be ayesha rajat?? however i really dont want that at all!!

Priya Sharma : Forget the uproar about the remorse, the guilt and the wooing and making amends, where are your feelings?👏👏👏👏 i was the one who kept talng abt the remorse the guilt the way to admit she was wrong the step to make ammedns and now even i am worred is there really no meaning of ram in her life naymore? so all she cares is winnnig batle for custody sharing pihu and that is it??then whay u live ur way i live mine?Its taken 5 years of solid willpower to stay away but you see the man you loved more than yourself and who has loved you unconditionally too. Agreed your tears aren't melting him the 1st time but there are reasons. Fantastic that you want to wait. I loved the eyelocks y'day. But the passion, the love , the magic of the touch are literally absent. And it makes no sense.

she was always so receptive to rams feelnigs when he was upsert and she was in dubai she got up shouting, she has no fb no memory no remsinces? no look when ram touches her smilers at her??

And to top it all, I see those emotions of overwhelming nature for Rajat, The man who made your life hell for 5 years for a measly rent that never made a dent to him but changed over a sudden period to 1st reduce the rent and then now gifting a bookshop.

👏👏👏The feisty independent Priya who didn't want to even take away the right of finding the groom from her parents inspite of her mother being a terrible person who wanted to get rid of her.

The one who moved out to stay independently inspite of her mom's open advice to get back to Dubai and let them live in peace.👏👏 Your husband's bff who doesn't seem to care twice before wanting to throw a bigamy charge and now fight for custody while you spent a whole day with your hubby seeing how much his daughter means to him, and we get tears of gratitude for Rajat. 👏👏

plus why the hell ddnt she say why are u meeting on my belhalf why cant i or my dadm eet him? y sint she discussing it with sudhir nuts??is rajat more closer now then her own dad???

To top it, we see the absolutely odd welcome when Ram appears at night. Why are the reactions mish mashed? and she said is there a choice!! what kind of a snipe was that??/ Shouldn't it be the other way around?. Wonder why Rajat is helping and overwhelming to see Ram land at the doorstep?. 🤢🤢🤢

All this is clearly leading to Ram becoming angry over Rajat's interference and his knowledge of Rajat's love for Priya which that dude isn't even willing to put past after coming to know as Mrs Ram Kapoor.🤢😡😡 There are enough and more opportunities where I had expected Priya putting Rajat in his place. 😡But this part seem to be egging in the wrong direction for an unnecessary drama. Well. Sigh!!

Thanks for a wonderful precap. On the couch, dreamy Hi and Good morning seeing Priya's smiles makes it a perfect ending.😃

loved ur analysis!!👏

Originally posted by: leo4ever

no but now she seems ok when she can lectre fatty ,be ok with her hubby , concerned abt priya, having chit chat with sharmas, cant she for a min call up to see ohw they are donig? the poor kids were sitting alone wondering if cld talk to mum got my heart out!! yes parents have probs but she shd atelast not abandon them, touch base tou rakhey? shd have explained ot te kids y needs ot go away, if not then shd have called thme in morng, called them over ot new house anyting ot make thme felel not abandoned!! it is not abyt gender equlity it is abt parents- had vik moved out i wdl have said the same!!