Devil's Advocate

Don't kill me for this post , but I am presenting the devil's advocate here.

1. For five years, Priya decided to stay away from Ram and her family - and then one day she suddenly decides to come back. Ye to ham jaante hain, ki Ram loves Priya and vice versa, but what if in the real sense of the word, this would have happened and Ram had married someone, had a son - not Ayesha, but anyone. Was it fair on Priya's part to just come back and claim that she is Mrs. Ram Kapoor? Even in the face off, when it was her choice, that Ram move on, when he finally has (in her eyes) why is she wanting to put him in a dilemma to choose between his current and past wife?
2. Priya lived with Ram for a year (yes we love their jodi) but think of it, Ayesha has been Mrs. Ram Kapoor for almost 5 years - and though they have not had a real relationship - everyone, including Ram and Ayesha themselves have been comfortable with this arrangement.Now suddenly Priya wants to come back, and wants Ram to leave her and Kush? Isn't Ayesha (though for the wrong reasons) justified in her claims to be Mrs. Ram Kapoor?
   
3. Yes, Ayesha is the one who wronged Priya in the first place, but well - in the real world, do charaters like Priya exist? Did we really expect Ayesha to leave her life for the sake of Priya without a word?
4. We all are blaming Shipra for siding with money, and Ayesha, but again is it so easy to call of a marriage that has existed for five years in front of the society, in front of a child (Kush) and go back to your first wife? I think Shipra's advise to Priya (though disgusting as it sounds) is very practical - that your husband has moved on (and is comfortable with the arrangement, if not happy) so dont ruffle waters anymore and go back to Dubai. Yes we dont want that as audience, but at this point, Priya's coming back is just an unsettling situation for anyone - and its breaking an arrangement that has been working for five years. Ram has not stopped loving Priya, but in his own way he has adjusted to his reality.
5. Though it is not related, it ties in to what is happening in another serial of Ekta - Pavitra Rishta, most of us are disgusted at Archana not siding with Purvi - but well, for whatever reason, NOW ARJUN and OVI are married, and as a mother, I dont think Archana should advise Ovi to leave Arjun or Purvi to wait for Arjun. As a mother, if you know that your daughter's son left her (for whatever reason) your advice to her (purvi in this case) would be, now what happened happened, try to move on with your life. And your advise to a daughter who has married a man who does not love her (Ovi in this case, with her own doing) would be, try to make your husband yours with love and determination.

I know this is not what we want as audeince, but the problem is that marriage is not a joke. You cant get and move out of marriages like that - but in the Kworld, this is what happens. The sacredness of such a pure, lasting relationship is taken for granted because it's not vows and traditions we care for but TRPs. So in the name of twists we have our main leads sacrifice their marriages and chastity and then have such situations arise. After all, whatever be the justification why was it necessary for

1. Priya to not let Ram know she is alive?
2. Priya to hide about her past from Rajat? Yes she is leading a new identity - but she could have been more open about her past (no names may be) so that there were no complications ?
3. Ram to marry again - Ayesha of all the people?
4. Ram or Shipra to forgive Ayesha after what she did?
5. Ayesha was right in a way when she said that she stood by her mom while Priya deserted her - though she has misplaced loyalties, no one tried to "punish" her for the blunder she commited to Priya, including Ram - no one, she got everything she needed - a modeling career, money, aish-aaram, a name for her illegitimate child, and no responsibilities in a marriage. She already was ready to marry Ram even in the earlier stage of the marriage. So as Priya's well wishers, who has done anything to teach her a lesson including Ram , Vikram or Krishnaji? I mean, yes, Ram did this to get the monkey of his back but as Krishna ji who led a lifetime without Ram, and Vikram, couldn't they tell him to stop - that its better that he live alone than live day in and day out with the one who did this to Priya? What was the desperation to see him move on?
6. Priya to assume that everything will be fine the day she decides to move back to india and meet Ram

Guys, well, all this is beyond my comprehension!

good one...you are right!! but this is not real world and Kworld...so anything is possible. My thinking is just give us (audience) less tensions / worries. Even though we know that this is just a serial, but we get so much involved in it...we need to have some tension free shows!!

Agree to your post. But she did not come back to claim her position at the first place. Now with the confusion being created, she might be thinking of letting Ram know of their daughter. Yes, if this sort of situation arises, there would be a termoil and a lot of it, but the situation is not as simple she had to resurface not by choice but due to circumstances. Also she is still not claiming her place not till now. She only did not budge to Ayesha's demands as she knows that if she run away again then her daughter would never be able to meet her father.

Actually, Priya spoiled a father and daughter relationship which Ram can never get it without disturbing his daughters emotions. She had no right to keep Pihu from Ram. After all, she is mother for the same reason as Ram is father.

I agree...life doesn't give a rewind button...I am actual glad that Ram is angry today...at least as the male lead he better than a lot of others in some serial😃, I totally can see through Ram's POV

1. For five years, Priya decided to stay away from Ram and her family - and then one day she suddenly decides to come back. Ye to ham jaante hain, ki Ram loves Priya and vice versa, but what if in the real sense of the word, this would have happened and Ram had married someone, had a son - not Ayesha, but anyone. Was it fair on Priya's part to just come back and claim that she is Mrs. Ram Kapoor? Even in the face off, when it was her choice, that Ram move on, when he finally has (in her eyes) why is she wanting to put him in a dilemma to choose between his current and past wife?

1. Priya lived with Ram for a year (yes we love their jodi) but think of it, Ayesha has been Mrs. Ram Kapoor for almost 5 years - and though they have not had a real relationship - everyone, including Ram and Ayesha themselves have been comfortable with this arrangement.Now suddenly Priya wants to come back, and wants Ram to leave her and Kush? Isn't Ayesha (though for the wrong reasons) justified in her claims to be Mrs. Ram Kapoor?
   

1. Yes, Ayesha is the one who wronged Priya in the first place, but well - in the real world, do charaters like Priya exist? Did we really expect Ayesha to leave her life for the sake of Priya without a word?

1. We all are blaming Shipra for siding with money, and Ayesha, but again is it so easy to call of a marriage that has existed for five years in front of the society, in front of a child (Kush) and go back to your first wife? I think Shipra's advise to Priya (though disgusting as it sounds) is very practical - that your husband has moved on (and is comfortable with the arrangement, if not happy) so dont ruffle waters anymore and go back to Dubai. Yes we dont want that as audience, but at this point, Priya's coming back is just an unsettling situation for anyone - and its breaking an arrangement that has been working for five years. Ram has not stopped loving Priya, but in his own way he has adjusted to his reality.

1. Though it is not related, it ties in to what is happening in another serial of Ekta - Pavitra Rishta, most of us are disgusted at Archana not siding with Purvi - but well, for whatever reason, NOW ARJUN and OVI are married, and as a mother, I dont think Archana should advise Ovi to leave Arjun or Purvi to wait for Arjun. As a mother, if you know that your daughter's son left her (for whatever reason) your advice to her (purvi in this case) would be, now what happened happened, try to move on with your life. And your advise to a daughter who has married a man who does not love her (Ovi in this case, with her own doing) would be, try to make your husband yours with love and determination.

I really side Ram's anger and frustations he threw up on priya.. The way he asked if priya get back those lovely first time moments of pihu and naming a baby dream really did quench my heart.