DOTW-Ram's concern 4 Priya- Sympathy/Realization?? - Page 3

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: fosla

Ramdevsan
I love your explanation on sympathy and love. So how about I add sympathy and guilt on one end and love on the other.. Do you still think that way??? how about a combination of sympathy that this has happened to her and a guilt of not having been a good husband in their marriage.. We can still have that work right!!😉

i dont think it is guilt...as both ram & priya at starting are not like hubby & wife...& now both accepting their relation...so why he fill guilt...i dont think their is guilt...
so my take is again is that he is in love not in sympethy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i also think it is love not sympethy.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: -MariaMars-

Hey fosla.. Nice topic.. Sorry for joining in late..

Ram has definitely not realized his love for priya. He hasn't experienced love in his life be it from Mom or anyone else. So he will take time to realize its love.
He cares for Priya. Ofcourse he is afraif of losing priya. This fear of losing someone close will make him realize that he's in love. I would love to see him understand what is love and then realize that he loves priya and then confess to her and move ahead.
IMO.. Its definitely not sympathy. Its just the way towards realization.

Maria
"He hasn't experienced love in his life be it from Mom or anyone else. So he will take time to realize its love." That's perfect!
He is still in the turmoil with Priya's health and I think the introspection will start post the results! Looks more like not sympathy! Iam glad and loving the whole process! hope its just a realization of love.
Thanks for joining the discussion with your opinions dear!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramdevsan

i dont think it is guilt...as both ram & priya at starting are not like hubby & wife...& now both accepting their relation...so why he fill guilt...i dont think their is guilt...
so my take is again is that he is in love not in sympethy.

Ramdevsan
That's why I added the guilt factor~! He could clearly be guilty because he didn't realize the wonderful person Priya is and he never behaved as a good husband! But LOVE is definitely the most favorite choice and preferred one too..
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: girdharmona

i also think it is love not sympethy.

Girdharmona
I hope he sustains the momentum and moves to the realization! I wonder how's he gonna realize it!? iam sure he needs something big!
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Posted: 13 years ago
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i have gone through all the posts of this topic..thought to share my view too..
this is such a a sweet topic..😳

I also think that its not just sympathy..it may be fear of losing priya..or may be love..😊
and i absolutely agree with Maria..that ram is moving towards love...😳

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Heyy very nice thread Folsa..!!
well, i think that after he found out bout it...he started realizing the importance of her in his lifee..!!
I mean all those memorable moments that spend wid her & Priya also had made him as her very close friend who he can share his every single sorrow or happiness...!!
so i would say that it is love & agree wid the above person!
-luv Mannat
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Posted: 13 years ago
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hi fosla...i am here dear...
thanks to cnnect me with this thread... i always love to entrtain u guys...
hope u will enjoy my presence here also...lol😉

sorry fr late reply...😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice topic Angie.Sorry for replying late.

Though Ram has been very caring & supportive towards Priya e.g. supporting her family over Nut's necklace issue, Ashwin issue in past. I tnink Ram has changed a lot after the Apeshksha-Krishuji track, the moment where Priya told him that she couldn't see his pain that's why she tried to find out about Krishuji/Apeksha.He has realised how genuinely Priya is trying for his betterment, happiness.😃😳 From there we are seeing Ram is enjoying each & every moment with Priya. Naturopathy, diet, apple love, red tie...😆 jaroor kuch toh hua hain.😳
The way he is trying to fulfil Priya's wishes & thinking about it all the time surely , it is out of his love for her.But he has not realised yet.Here I am posting a few lyrics of the song for Ram from the movie 'Pyar toh hona hi tha'.
Chaahne jab lage dil kisi ki khushi
Dillagi ye nahin ye hai dil ki lagi

Uski khushboo agar apni saanson mein ho
Uska sapna agar apni aankhon mein ho
Jab na dil ke behelne ki soorat lage
Jab koi zindagi ki zaroorat lage
Aur jeena bhi dushwaar hone lage
Bol do agar tumhein pyaar hone lage
Hone lage hone lage


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Posted: 13 years ago
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What a super topic the reactions from all BALHians is so sweeet. though i put the questions but Angie u carried it on very well thanx sweetheart...i would like to read more and more views on this topic really worth reading...

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