DOTW-Ram's concern 4 Priya- Sympathy/Realization?? - Page 2

Originally posted by: fosla

Aviva

But Ram as the character is very attached to his closer ones. His Dadi, step family,Vikram,Neha,even their kids. He wears his heart up his sleeve for those who are near. He had extended this to Priya's Dad too on many occasions!! Why do you think he wouldn't be nice to Priya whom he has lived with for so many months and to whom he has shared the secret of his real mom?

Originally posted by: maris08

Nice DOTW Angie..

Ram so far is doing things for Priya in a manner that can be categorised as sympathy, duty, concern and feeling of something more deeper..Not all married couples especially those middle aged, react in a passionate manner..

But sometimes, the feeling of endearment between each other propels their relationship..Explorations and discovery will come later..Raya are one such couple..

Love need not be spoken in a verbal form.. Its a feeling thats implicitly understood , a realisation of an awareness that keeps the couple stronger in all respects..Maybe Raya are doing that, without realising or consciously aware of it..

All the same it was nice to see Priya suprised by Ram, at each and every turn and her wishes starting to come true..

Originally posted by: chak

Thank u sooo very much Angie bringing down this topic sounds interesting posts I am overwhelmed with the response. So nice of u Angie dear v could know the feelings and reality of others also about what does Ram think of Priya at the moment...pls post more views BALHians

Originally posted by: ramdevsan

this is most important question in raya's life...for priya she is loving the careing nature of ram.she love to be wth ram.for her she is not bothering about why ram is casring her.she jus enjoy it.

this is important for ram...as he will also confused as why he is doing all this as it is just...sympethy.or it is love...i think it is love...& not sympethy...as from yesterday episode we see ram has fear in his eyes...by a simple think that something happen to her...it is surly love...in sympethy we just care someone & feel sorry for their condition..but we dont feel fear of loosing someone for whom we are feeling sympethy.

so i al;so think it is love not sympethy.

Originally posted by: IndYa4u

Hey Hey..

I think Ram's concern for Priya is fear. Fear of losing someone he is now starting to understand and has accepted as a friend. Fear of losing someone he as learn to trust and share his feelings, problems and concerns. May be even fear of losing someone who has become his habit... anyway you look at it.. i think its still a fear of losing Priya.

I think it will take time for Ram to realize his love for Priya. It will interesting to see if he continues to care and show concerns about Priya after they find out all is well with her health and she is no longer in danger. I think realization of LOVE for Priya will start then for Ram.

I foresee a breakdown of Priya night before her test results come out... may be something will click then ???

Originally posted by: sforsuccess

No again u are missing the point ..here ..

If i have lot of money with me..and i have one wife and i dont lover her ..but if she will have BC then i think i have crores of rupees i can spend my money and she is going to get cure rite ..when u dont have some feel ..the 1st thing u will think is ..i have crores ye kam hojayega she will be fine ..

The way he is thinking ..and fullfilling wishes is different ..

Main point is u wont fear every one around you .. u will fear that only they are close to ur heart ..

shouting on her when she joked about her health is his concern and care ..not sympathy .. in sympathy people will never have the passion ..to do the things ram doing ..

concern will come only with some feelings either freind shp or love ..and fear of losing will come only with feelings .. that may be any thing freinds hip or love ..