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Posted: 14 years ago
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I was looking at both parts : they have a same point of view on Kartik's behaviour but what about OUR point of views on THEIR attitude?

About Ram : sure, to see that he is responsible for what Nuts is today is such a shame. He admits it himself, he never raised his voice while talking to her and he even scolded his step mother (Nuts' MOTHER) when she tried to give her some senses. This is such a stupid way to educate someone. He spoiled her and only see her good points. Nuts is a besharam girl, she almost cheats on her fiance, she has a highly image of herself, she counts on her brother name, money and reputation for permitting her to insult badly other people. This is the real Nuts, the one Ram doesn't see.
Coming back to Ram i think that he is a very nice guy and he was very touched to learn that this whole family was left alone when his dad died. He made a big place in her heart for Choti, granting any of her wishes, knowing that he could always take care of the consequences. Because she became someone "famous" too (in the fashion business) he now thinks that he did a perfect job making her grow up so carefree. She clings onto him like he was a teddy bear (no pun intended😆) and maybe he thinks that she acts like that with everyone, which she obviously doesn't.

I'm okay with the fact that he was mad at Kartik, but why could his sister act like a vulgar call girl (he knew that she was partying and drinking alcohol i guess) and why should Kartik be responsible all the time, he is her HUSBAND, not her TOY. He is the same age than her and can make mistakes too.

About Priya : She is the most responsible and cold minded person it seems. I was truly disappointed when she almost said "thing" naming ram at ayesha engagement; but today when Kartik said that Nuts (her future sister in law) was insulting her enough to make him go mad, she didn't falter at all. She took it as it was, and continued blaming her little brother. I think it's extremely well handled by her.
The thing is she screamed (too much for me🤢) at him like he was the most detestable guy on earth. How could she forget after this one mistake how nice he actually his. He is the most sensible guy ever, very intelligent and all this thanks to her. So from my point of view she should trust him. Yes, he slapped Nuts, yes this is bad. Does that mean that he is a bad guy? No.
She knew that Kartik was going to "rescue" Nuts, then Ram came saying "he slapped her in front of people when she was at a club" : this sentence is yelling to my ears "she got slapped while she was partying". If Priya heard that too then she can conclude that Nuts was tricking Kartik, he got very worried over an incident that was in fact a bad joke !

The main point is that she is right : hitting a woman is stooping low, acting without thinking is bad. But she should have listened to him too (and not only ram's version), trusted in the man she raised, and been able to see that Nuts played with him badly which is as worse as the slap she received.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Today's episode was showing people's behaviour when they are angry. Reasoning flies out of the window during such times... That's why u are not supposed to react when u are angry... Count to ten before speaking. ...Look before u leap... often when u wait it out a few days sanity creeps in and the mountains then looks like mole hills. Ram's actions showed that he took the plunge before thinking abt the consequences...He was shouting at the top of his voice. India's elite class is so conscious of their behaviour in public. He had a live audience of neighbours who were watching the racket .
Felt so sad for Kartik. No one listened to the poor guy... Admit he did wrong. He should have flung the engagement ring instead of slapping Nuts! if he would have done that it would have been a slap on her face... Heaving a sigh of relief that this engagement is broken...😃
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Posted: 14 years ago
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it all ends up to one logic that anger does not leave space for reasonable thinking...but I think that they are both understanding people and will eventually realise the truth and come around...the only one who was really blamed unnecesarily was Karthik
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yeah i admit that when people are angry they don't think but this whole scene was a problem since kartik father actually slapped him because he slapped Nuts. How is that reasonable.

Basically they were all blaming Kartik but they were just doing the same that he did with nuts. So in al this nonsense i was trying to find some rationality in Priya and ram's dialogue since they are the ones who talk for the most part.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: avivakirk

Today's episode was showing people's behaviour when they are angry. Reasoning flies out of the window during such times... That's why u are not supposed to react when u are angry... Count to ten before speaking. ...Look before u leap... often when u wait it out a few days sanity creeps in and the mountains then looks like mole hills. Ram's actions showed that he took the plunge before thinking abt the consequences...He was shouting at the top of his voice. India's elite class is so conscious of their behaviour in public. He had a live audience of neighbours who were watching the racket .

Felt so sad for Kartik. No one listened to the poor guy... Admit he did wrong. He should have flung the engagement ring instead of slapping Nuts! if he would have done that it would have been a slap on her face... Heaving a sigh of relief that this engagement is broken...😃

@Bold . A perfect summation of what happens when one is angry. Ram seems to follow this mantra thinks after you speak. Patha nahin kab sudhrega?
And heres Kartik who repented his action, but no one listened to his side of story!!
What an irony!!
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: maris08

@Bold . A perfect summation of what happens when one is angry. Ram seems to follow this mantra thinks after you speak. Patha nahin kab sudhrega?

And heres Kartik who repented his action, but no one listened to his side of story!!
What an irony!!


Challees saal mein Ram sudhra nahin ab kya umeed hai?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Poor karthik , getting lambasted from all sides ...
Now , whatever he does , whether he makes up with nutty or runs in the opposite direction ... either way he is mince meat ..

All my sympathies are only with karthik right now and no one else ...
Karthik's so called sin of slapping a woman has sort of overshadowed what natasha has done ...
No one is thinking .. everyone has lost perspective ..

Normally, I would say it isnt right to slap a woman .. but hell, natasha aint normal .. she is a nut job ...

I hope karthik doesnt beg natasha to come back to him or something of that sort .. just so that the RaYa rel'ship goes thru .. dude , stay strong , dont budge ...

The guy's life is so screwed if he marries her .. maybe he should leave mumbai .. and come back after he has found a girl for himself or after nutz finds another bali ka bakra for herself...
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think it is not wrong at all 2 slap a girl who is getting on ur nerves. karthik did the r8 thing. The way nut was bhaving if i were in karthik's place i wud have also slapped her 2 or 3 times. This girl is a psycho. Ram also knows that very well but his love 4 nuts doesn't let him 2 see her faults. N priya, i wish she wud tried 2 understand karthik's feelings coz he is very mature n practical.

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