Originally posted by: refreshed
thanks aasusi agree with you on balraj caring about the society and not about what nandini wears...but tyrant asthana is someone who only wants to impose his choices on others...he is a egoistic selfish man who expects nandini to mourn for his son ani and nandini's color sari was a slap on balraj's ego.meera's demand to balraj was not particularly colored sari but about balraj's restrictions on nandini. her intent was to allow nandini to do and wear anything nandini wishes to wear and not forcibly make her do something.
I know right just when N got smarter, he goes and spoils it đ
There was topic that someone mentions what you just wrote.I don't hv an inkling what Balraj meant by freedom and "do whatever you feel you like" kind of dialogue with N on 7th May.Btw what exactly is the need for M to interfere with Balraj re: what colour N wears etc. ?I realize that both M and N are under full spell of Balraj and completely believe everything he says.Still I find that weird for M to step in re: this dress issue. đ¤So what if Balraj doesn't agree and N continues with coloured dress. Who really cares about it?N doesn't care either way - she mainly made that choice to show she's not cool with Balraj ignoring her as his Bahu. N does not want to mourn for the sake of showing to public / society.Do you think wearing coloured dress and going anywhere she wants is actually a freedom? No way - if Balraj needs to he'll have ppl follow her. If N doesn't realize this, then she really has no brain.oh well it was weird scene and did not make sense to me.
Athi, this time I have to disagee with you kudiye. Meera's sole purpose while she is in the house, watching all sorts of tempers going on and Balraj humiliating N the way he did in the morning, M could not witness it in all good conscience. Girl, right from the beginning M has only been trying not to be a burden, staying there coz Balraj gave vaasta of committing suicide, M witnessed it all. How anyone can watch it and just keep quiet ??? C'mon. N & M are the soul of the entire serial and M cannot be just a dumb silent bystander, do nothing, while balraj is doting her, giving so much importance, but humiliating N to no end. The two beautiful girls share some common hurtful situation (called Ani), affecting them both in ways we cant even describe. M's outspoken dialogue alone in his study was the highlight of the epi and the 2nd one btw B & N.
No wonder reserved called her thread "balraj as the puppet" and she made just the point I am making above. .What M did was more than commendable!!đâď¸ Her only aim is to bring some semblance of unity, not division among different members of the family, esp with the Big patriarch balraj. More than the saari issue, she wants balraj to give Nandini her full rights of being Mrs Ani Asthana coz she knows N is totally right in demanding that from balraj, and stop that adhikar to M who is NOT married to Ani, Nandini is.My 5c!
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