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Habeeba

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Posted: 14 years ago

What are they trying to show?? like what health risk are they trying to portray? I thought she was healthy enough to be married.😕

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farhana

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Posted: 14 years ago

ARGHG!!!! 😡😡

I am so ****** off right now at the CV's!

What bakwas is this?? Something so small is being blown out of all proportion just for the sake of drama.

As far as I understood it, Bharti is capable of bearing kids. Rupesh said this sometime in the beginning of the serial no? So clearly that isn't an issue.

The only other issue being intimated is that she is unable to maintain a physical husband-wife relationship. But whatever the problem, it happened after the 'even' took place. Not during it!

And even then all that happened was that she had a fever. Which itself is no big deal, nor detrimental to her health. And not at all specific to little people. But is infact something that women in general may experience regardless of their size.

So how the hell has this become the big white elephant in the BharLi bedroom all of a sudden??

Where are CV's going with this?

Have they been reading our posts? Is this why we see a flashback of Murli visiting the doctor?

What Bharti suffered wasn't even a complication by any means. Rather an everyday symptom of many general health problems. So why despite this new doctors reassurance that Bharti's problem wasn't due to their physical intomacy, is Murli still killing himself over it?

Unless they were talking about a completely different matter, in which case I ask once again, where are CV's going with this?

I got so happy seeing him hug her and thought ok he's over whatever nonsense was going through his head. But then the flashback came along. But I still thought OK he's gonna smile in a bit because the doctors dispelled all his fears. But somehow her answer instead of removing his fears only reaffirmed them! How crazy is that? Murli can't seem to get away from Bharti fast enough.

Even the hug wasn't the loving hug of the last few episodes

The idea that a person may not be able to manage a physical relationship with their partner, would be hard for any person to deal with. But Bharti it would be doubly hard for her to understand that her husband is under the misconception that she is incapable of such a relationship.

Oh God, I'm hating this sub-track. I'm hating it with a passion.

Edited by Rakhie_08 - 14 years ago

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Habeeba

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Posted: 14 years ago

yaar lekin mujhe samaj nahi aara kaunsa rog woh na kehkar bhi keh rahe hei, I dont understand it. Is there a name to this so called issue?

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farhana

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Habeeba_d
yaar lekin mujhe samaj nahi aara kaunsa rog woh na kehkar bhi keh rahe hei, I dont understand it. Is there a name to this so called issue?

If it's what I've mentioned above then I don't know if there's a name for it. It's not an actual problem in itself merely a general symptom. It's just a fever.

But if the CV's are keeping it ambiguous just to be able to create an illness for the sake of drama, then I have no idea what the hell it's called!

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hashbrown

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Posted: 14 years ago

dear murli, please fix your total misconception...i don't know what the heck is going on in your head...please love your wife, she deserves it...

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Opti

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Posted: 14 years ago

It is strange that the doctor asks if it was their first night the previous night when Murli explained that she was having fever. Why would a woman have fever if she was intimate with her husband the previous night? I can understand that if along with fever Murli had mentioned some other symptom that would suggest that the patient has had her first physical experience with her husband. And why would the doctor send the husband out while examining the wife? Aren't they a couple who are supposed to face whatever it is together? Why leave the husband out of the loop? I know of a couple where a normal sized man is married to a dwarf and they have had normal children too. So I really don't know what the CVs are driving at. If anything, a short woman may have difficulty delivering a normal sized baby, which for her would be a large baby. But then, they can always have a C-section for this.

As to physical intimacy, it is not easy the first time even for normal couple. Do they want to show how innocent Murli is that what is normal is also misconstrued by him as abnormal? This is what happens in a society where such subjects are considered taboo and not enough knowledge is imparted to young couple before they get into marriage.

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Diyamirzaxxxgul

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Posted: 14 years ago

Da f**kin director was us 2 gt confused buhh he's gettin wah he wants

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fuzzyface

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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: Diyamirzaxxxgul
Da f**kin director was us 2 gt confused buhh he's gettin wah he wants

Hi there if you want to curse plz use the 🤬 emoticon plz. It's against IF rules.

I agree the doc confused him but Murli is behaving like a real idiot.

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Rae24

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Posted: 14 years ago

Murli just needs go take a step back and think it through and actually get some info before deciding that he's the expert in all this- it's not just him that's going through it - marriage is between two people not one - whatevers going throught
his head would be probably ten times worse in Bharti's- does he even realise what his actions is going to cause - the effect it'll have on Bharti- he said he doesn't want to hurt her but isn't this ultimately what he's doing???

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farhana

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Rae, that's my point exactly.

In not wanting to hurt her physically, Murli is going to end up hurting her emotionally.

And I was thinking too, isn't there two people involved in this? Therefore shouldn't the second person in the equation be consulted? Shouldn't Bharti's opinions be sought on the matter?

Murli it is unfair that you are doing all the thinking and all the decision-making for the both of you.

And this is one of my bug bears with desi soaps. Why do the couples always hide things from each other under the misconception that to talk to the other person concerned would be to add to their worries?

Real couples talk. All the time! Communication is key people. I can't stand this message that they put out there. That one should spare their loved one any worries by keeping things from them, especially when it is something that concerns that said loved one. It always happesn in every show.

What are we meant to assume? That we should be secretive with our spouses? That we should not consult them on matters that effect our lives? That we should make decisions alone that have a bearing on our lives? That husband-wife relationship isn't about honesty and trust and communication, but rather about lies, cover-ups, excuses and deception?

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