What do you want to see next in BAVD? - Page 2

Originally posted by: vik rocks

now this arises the question that doesn't bharti have the rights to live a normal life with a normal guy? why amit? why not someone like murli? is there any rule that a midget should marry a midget & reproduce midgets? is this the moral of the story of BAVD? doesn't the unsuccessful marriage of bharli reveal the dark side that a midget has no rights to dream to have a normal life partner? so what are the CVs trying to show now? so those who wanted a new guy in bharti's life...are u all happy to see amit as a potential var?

if bharti is so poor then it will be really difficult for her to find a normal guy but she is rich...there can be many poor guys who would marry her but she couldnt expect complete fidelity from her husband (which even a normal girl couldnt expect) coz in reality it is not easy to find a guy who could crazily fall in love with a midget.....whereas if bharti marries amit he will be loyal to her....i think at the end of the day "money talks" nothing else.... eventhough bharli marriage breaks and they show as amit marrying bharti i think it will not reveal the dark side of society that a midget should marry a midget coz she has all the means to marry a normal guy...still if she goes on to marry another midget that has to be her personal interests ...


personally i'm not interested in seeing bharti-amit track ..... and cvs also for the sake of drama and trps i guess they will not pair bharti with amit.....i think amit is there to unite bharli......if they conclude with bharli then that has to be only after murli becomes rich and rupesh learning a lesson from somebody but for that sake bharti has to suffer for a while....

On the midget thing, since when do we become so pc out here? I agree that dwarf is denigrating, since it conjures up images of Snow White, but midget is standard for stunted people. Little people somehow seems to indicate Lilliputians, which is not what's meant here.

On Amit being a vehicle to unite Bharli, why? If he's been shown as caring for Bharti, then why not let a friendship develop b/w them, and if they both wish, let them at some point marry. I'd ask the converse question - should the CVs desist from marrying Bharti to Amit just b'cos he's another stunted guy? What exactly is gained by getting Bharti a normal height guy? As Jas pointed out, in real life, most guys would be pretty self-conscious about marrying midgets, so why force it? If one wants it another way, introduce a normal height character who falls for Bharti head over heels, and then pursues & marries her. But since that's not happened and Amit is here, why not make him Bharti's next hubby? After a while, of course.

The other thing - Bharti being rich is a curse, since a guy who marries her can either be doing it for her, or for her money. Had she been poor, it would have been straightforward - a father might have given her to the first midget who asked, or just not married her off at all. There would have been no ulterior motives worth suspecting. But her being rich throws in this variable. I'm against Rupesh buying her another hubby. I'm all for Murli becoming rich by his own hard work, but even then, I don't want him re-uniting w/ Bharti.

If we're basing this on personal compatibility, here is someone who seems to care for Bharti, and his only drawback right now is that he doesn't have a proper job (which Rupesh can address, and which was true about Murli as well) and that he, unlike Murli, is too short to fight people who sneer @ Bharti. But are those legit reasons not to pair him w/ Bharti? To use a Jyoti analogy, should Kabir have simply tried to unite Jyoti & Pankaj, instead of going for Jyoti himself? If not, why is it different here?

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

converse question - should the CVs desist from marrying Bharti to Amit just b'cos he's another stunted guy?

good question 👏 those who are over sympathetic to bharti must be sympathetic to amit as well who is more pitiful than bharti....bharti can somehow get a normal height hubby ..her baba could buy her another one 😆 .... but amit being a man he may not like to marry a taller girl....i wish bharti marries him 😈

it will be very interesting if they show as amit falling for bharti (actually i'm looking forward for that track 👍🏼) ....will bharti accept him without any qualms 😈 what will be rupesh's reaction in that case....will he accept a midget as his damaad 😈 ....if that happens then i think rupesh has to appoint some bodyguard to save these two little people from big people 😆

if every misunderstanding gets cleared then bansi will again coerce murli to accept bharti and bharli will be the final pair ...no doubt bharti will be on cloud nine but it will still be unfair to murli 😔 (oh i stop it here..dwarf community may blacken my face as well..lol 😆😆😆😆).....i want murli to first leave that house and business and become rich with his own hardwork then marry some good-looking poor girl ..on the other side rupesh must be put in such a situation that he must be living under the shadow of some bandmasters 😈

Originally posted by: _Vrish_

To use a Jyoti analogy, should Kabir have simply tried to unite Jyoti & Pankaj, instead of going for Jyoti himself? If not, why is it different here?

😆 reason is very simple 😆 .... viewers wouldnt be hooked to bhamit pair as they were for jyobir pair 😆 ..thats the reason i said they will use amit only as a catalyst for bharli (to gain trps) ....(hope they dont show any bhamit romance 😆 ...bharti though short looks cute but amit is not so...looks even shorter than bharti 😆 ) ....if they show anything as murli envious of seeing bharti with amit as vik said on wu thread that will be the most unbearable track 🤢 and i would surely stop watching bavd 😆 ....

@ Jas & Vrish brilliant opinions!!! loved every single words u guys said👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👏👏👏👏

pairing bharti with amit has two sides... if we overly sympathize with bharti for having to marry a midget instead a normal guy, then we would be doing injustice to amit...
& if we go for bharli which means a normal guy, then one has to decide...is it better to marry a normal guy like murli who won't be a caring hubby or is it better to marry a midget like amit who can be a caring hubby as he has gone through the same phase of being humiliated in the same context.... the important thing is a good husband for bharti not a normal or midget hubby...no doubts on that😳

@ CID_HD well in that case then the third wold war would not be between two countries but between mupesh🤪😆

so now the story is proceeding towards revealing prakash's truth👍🏼

so...

let's have a look at some examples of character's profiles. dev in geet, married geet for only money. he had no intentions of spending his life with geet but he didn't even hesitate to spend the night with her. he made her pregnant & just ran away. though later he repented it... i was actually wondering was he bound to be forgiven. i mean if he didn't make her pregnant then maybe i would think about it but coz geet was bearing his child, i was never able to forgive dev. i was really shocked to see he got forgiveness from his daadi ma & geet.

brij in jyoti was one guy who slept with thousands of women, made sushma pregnant before marriage, physically abused her a lot. created a situation where she was actually forced to sleep with someone else, then he accused her of having a relationship with someone else, didn't accept his own child... it's a long list. in my opinion he didn't deserve a second chance at all. but the CVs readily showed him getting forgiven by sushma & that also so easily. He didn't have to struggle much to get forgiven. To worsen things now he plays the role of dev in geet LOL!

Sumer in jyoti was another character who I my opinion was simply unforgivable; he used to beat asha so badly. He left no chance to abuse her either physically or mentally. Forget him as a husband; he was not even a good human being at all. But still he got forgiveness. I was never convinced when the CVs showed him transformed into a good person overnight.

Rohit of RS, is another character who never left any stone unturned it torturing his wife. He's a champion in torturing his wife either physically or mentally. Leave the fact that he doesn't respect his wife, he doesn't even have a pin drop of respect for his mother also. He's a monster. I don't know what the CVs will do – whether they'll show his character getting forgiveness at the end or not.

These were just a few examples of other serial where I think the characters were not forgivable in my opinion. Now let's put murli in this context for some time. I was wondering that is he even worser than the above mentioned characters???

Murli saved bharti at neelam's wedding for the sake of humanity. He rejected the proposal of marrying bharti as he didn't want to spend his life with a midget. Later on yes, murli married bharti for money. Before marriage he just couldn't make up his mind to drop the idea of marriage thinking of veena. He thought he was sacrifing himself but was stupid enough not to think he was ruining bharti's life in the process. He couldn't behave properly with bharti after marriage. He used to yell at her. After hearing her parent's truth, he mellowed down. He started behaving gentle towards bharti, he tried to take care of her happiness. It was after the track where bharti tried to seduce murli, he started making distance from her once again. He just tried his best to avoid her. Then prakash veena track happened & he didn't believe bharti. & as I've mentioned in my previous posts murli did show he's a good person from heart though he couldn't be a good husband.

So keeping all this in mind, I wanted to know what do you guyz think that does murli deserve a second chance in life or not. Should bharti forgive him or not? & by asking you this I don't mean that bharti should forgive him then go back to him. I mean just forgive him but not to go back to him. Or how do you think the track should proceed further. plz share your views...🤗

Vik

You forgot to add RA - if Sudha & Amit are just catalysts to bring Bharli together, then should Sudha at some point return to RA? RA is worse than Sumer & Rohit, but a bit better than Brij & Dev. At least RA didn't leave Sudha pregnant.

While we speculate in RS about how Rohya's marriage will end, I never approved of the others (have never seen Geet, and after seeing your summary of how she was knocked up by Dev, I'm glad I've never seen Geet.) I hated Brij's reunion w/ Sushma, and just slightly less Sumer's reconciliation w/ Asha (Asha at least wasn't kicked out of home, although she was hidden in a dungeon and saved by Jyoti)

Compare this to some characters who were not forgiven - Pankaj in Jyoti, and Yuvraj in RS. What Pankaj did was vile, but I never really agreed that he was worse than Brij: it was just b'cos Kabir was there that people hated Pankaj more than Brij. Similarly, Yuvraj, while self centered, treated Sandhya well except when he wanted her to have Neeraj's/DK's baby or not retaliate for her father's death. Rohit, otoh, never treated Shradhya well.

Murli is way ahead of the above pack - I know a lot of people hate him and are angry @ him for dumping Bharti, and one can fault him for not arising above the circumstances, but the circumstances were there. Contrast that w/ Sumer, or Brij, or Rohit, or RA who had no good reasons to ill-treat their wives. I definitely think Murli deserves to be forgiven, but I'm against his reconciling w/ Bharti not just b'cos Bharti deserves better, but b'cos Murli doesn't deserve to be condemned to a marriage w/ someone he really doesn't love.

I mean, after he knows the entire truth, Murli will be perfectly justified in saying to Bharti, 'Look, I'm sorry for everything I did to you, but honestly, I don't love you, so I don't deserve you. Feel free to move on w/ Amit or anyone else, but let the divorce go thru.' That would be a perfectly fine apology in my book. After that, let him marry Sudha. While Murli did not do justice to Bharti, Sudha does owe him a lot, so if he wants to marry her, let him.

I don't agree w/ anyone who thinks that Murli should demonstrate that his apology is genuine by revoking the divorce and getting Bharti back. He should let her have a more suitable hubby, and himself be a better hubby to someone else, like Sudha. In Jyoti, Jyoti once told Pankaj to at least give Neelam what he couldn't give her. Murli should do the same to Sudha. Or anyone else.

well i purposely didn't add some other names coz i guess there are thousands of examples then. i agree i never thought pankaj was worser than brij. he was far better than brij. pankaj couldn't see so i don't hold anything against him though i didn't like it when he decided to move on in life with neelam but then started following jyoti after knowing the child was his.