what is the right way to handle-----

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Posted: 14 years ago
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just wondering what is the right way to handle this kind of marriage( SAACHI'S)

  • She has a very good looking husband
  • loving and very understanding in -laws family no problem at all there --her biggest strength
  • very rich in laws
still

she is not happy at all, husband doesn't love her ( no signs of any improvement has been noticed so far 😆 )

what steps of saachi were right and what extra steps she should have taken?

i feel she is in a very suffocating environment. 😭 and she is just hitting her head against the wall trying to improve shravan.

i love your thoughts in the posts and believe each one of you might have some formulas/ strategies to handle ( not kash one) this kind of situations in life, as life is not fair for everyone.



thanks for your time.


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Posted: 14 years ago
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I think Sanchi should STOP trying to fix Shravan! Has she not learnt from the past..It just causes more problems.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Since this is a TV show and I don't think they would show anything too logical cause that will not be entertaining, this will not work but here are my thoughts.


Saanchi should not have tried to come between Tara and Shravan cause she knew that he loved her before she got married. It was just a mess but since she got into the marriage for whatever reasons, she should have kept her pride. If Shravan fell in love with her on his own, then it would be ok. It is a drama and I wanted to see SaaVan win like everyone else, so I kept on rooting for Saanchi to win against Tara but in reality, I don't think its cool to do that. Let people figure out on their own what and who they want to be with....its better that way😊


Also, Saanchi should have been more smarter as far as trying to think of her future without Shravan in it, be strong and stand up for herself. And even Dadi made her promise to make Shravan responsible, she should have just tried something else and not tried to ask for 25 lakhs from Shravan which made their relationship worse as he started to think of her as gold digger.


If Saanchi didn't cry at every step of the way and behaved strongly with confident, Shravan would have come around much sooner. The little misunderstandings like 25 lakhs, formulas, little lies just made things worse in my opinion. My personal belief is if you are meant to be with someone, it will happen.


Again, these are things I think a rational person might perhaps do in real life if it is not on a TV show for entertainment.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: desisoapie

Since this is a TV show and I don't think they would show anything too logical cause that will not be entertaining, this will not work but here are my thoughts.


Saanchi should not have tried to come between Tara and Shravan cause she knew that he loved her before she got married. It was just a mess but since she got into the marriage for whatever reasons, she should have kept her pride. If Shravan fell in love with her on his own, then it would be ok. It is a drama and I wanted to see SaaVan win like everyone else, so I kept on rooting for Saanchi to win against Tara but in reality, I don't think its cool to do that. Let people figure out on their own what and who they want to be with....its better that way😊


Also, Saanchi should have been more smarter as far as trying to think of her future without Shravan in it, be strong and stand up for herself. And even Dadi made her promise to make Shravan responsible, she should have just tried something else and not tried to ask for 25 lakhs from Shravan which made their relationship worse as he started to think of her as gold digger.


If Saanchi didn't cry at every step of the way and behaved strongly with confident, Shravan would have come around much sooner. The little misunderstandings like 25 lakhs, formulas, little lies just made things worse in my opinion. My personal belief is if you are meant to be with someone, it will happen.


Again, these are things I think a rational person might perhaps do in real life if it is not on a TV show for entertainment.



i totally agree

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