We should watch this scene once again

We all should watch this scene once again to understand under what condition shravan agreed ot marry Sachi and why Sachi is wrong to be so rude on Shravan [[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRGorifWaMg[/YOUTUBE]

Sunaina....i think this one time i disagree with u....i understand he did a big help by marrying Sanchi..she shud be grateful. But now Sanchi has left him right....thats what he wanted...he anyway hasnt fallen in love with her (acc. to him)....so now what is his problem??? Just cuz he wants to get back with his family 'again' he wants her back?? Iam asking all this only acc. to the situation....in the background i know he loves her n all that is fine...but whatever Shravan does Sanchi shud take it n forgive him is a big ask....esp this suicide blackmail.....thats the worst sort of emotional atyachar. I still love the serial n like Shravan too though he is playing a stupidest natak but i feel Sanchi is not being rude here unneccessarily...she has been already under so much pain from all sides n Shravan is right now giving her only more....

i fully agree with kchitra as its shown he agrees to marriage because he also remembers that tara has told that she can't marry him for one year, and we must not forget that had he told his parents about the goof up between girls or told sanchi earlier things could not have worsened to such an extent

he was also being selfish when he thought that marrying sanchi would solve all his problems as he had been thrown out of the house so he'll get into good graces of his father

sanchi has cried many times for shravan , i think its time shravan cries for sanchi

yes it may have been one sided love but that doesn't mean he should act like a jerk which he has done many times previously like when he twisted her arms, made her sleep in cold

he has used sanchi many times to save his skin

and after today's suicide act whatever sanchi does , however rude she is that will be very less in stature because the disgusting trick he is going to play on her

whatever the reason faking suicide to bring her home is a very despicable act and highly immature

and i must add that shravan apart from all his good points has some bad points too and so does sanchi
shravan at one point in time was ready to leave his parents for tara

so sanchi being rude to him is to some extent justified

its true she asked him to marry her but she didn't force him he agreed without much ado because he saw his good in the contract marriage too

Hi Sunaina-
I feel we are one of the few on the forum who love and support Shravan unconditionally... haha.

I actually watch the same episode last week sometime..... I guess I also wanted to see if Sachi is being unreasonable.....
Technically, it is a marriage of convenience, Sachi doesn't want to stay at her Mama-Mami's house and cause them anymore pain, Shravan wants to stay with his family. Sachi's promise to leave him whenever Shravan wants her along with the contract and sath vachan..... its sounds foolproof. Trouble started when Sachi wanted to keep up with Dadi's promise by using 25lakh clause in the contract..... seems like a simple thing but it made Shravan start off on all the crazy ideas!! To be fair, because of the 25lakh clause they have stayed together as long as they did, if not, Shravan would have asked Sachi to leave as soon as Tara was ready to marry him, so thats a needed twist.

Now, sometimes our loved ones bring out the best in us and make us a better person, sometimes they bring out the worst in us.....we don't want to be these monsters and hurt our loved ones but our emotions take control over us and there is nothing we can do about it. Thats exactly what happened with Sachi and Shravan. They let their egos get ahead of themselves which is a very common problem among newly weds..... no surprises there....

The contract would have worked perfectly between two strangers however our Sachi- Shravan started living together and they felt comfortable with each other, became kindof friends and started confiding in each other, worked as a team to manage family members and ofcourse Tara. With that level of comfort and friendship, possessiveness has to creep in eventually. So both of them started acting like its their right to worry or care for each other, which is very natural aswell. Now, Tara is out of the picture (atleast for now) both are a little lost especially Shravan in their relationship. If it were upto Shravan he would take Sachi back and live as if everything is normal and he might not even think about expressing his love. Ofcourse, Sachi wants the opposite, first love confession then living together....haha.

In my mind, both Sachi and Shravan are absolutely right in their own way. I mean it is a TV show so CVs have to add some commercial elements and make it more dramatic, over the top at times but I feel the way Sachi's is treating Shravan now is nothing different from the way he treated her right after their wedding.....

Sorry for the length of the post!!

DCgirl ...i agree with everything u said....i already mentioned that inspite of everything i like Shravan's character the way it is...even when he was getting bashed left right n center i refrained from doing it...cuz i too had hope that he will change for the better... here the point raised was ...why Sachi is wrong to be so rude on Shravan...this was written by our dear Su... this is what u wrote...In my mind, both Sachi and Shravan are absolutely right in their own way...so here do u also accept that Sachi is not being rude intentionally?? i defntly dont feel sorry for Shravan here....i feel sad ofcourse but he brought it on himself...anyway now this will be a jolt for Sanchi n let her atleast confess n then Shravan ...as Ramy said starts resurrecting himself and we get to see their lovely nok jhok n passionate romance....waiting for it...

I do think Sachi is treating Shravan a little harshly, I kindof have a soft spot for him!
But considering his past behavior, i don't wanna find fault with Sachi!
Yday, after Shreya told her the truth, she could have gone out to Shravan and apologize for yelling at him, instead she chose talking to herself...... I don't know, I like both the characters very much, very relatable!

When someone criticizes a character, that so does not mean that he/she doesn't like that character any less than the person just singing praises. Sometimes, people tend to criticize someone they like because that's how they connect with that "someone".
Don't know why most people can't understand that! Geeeeeez....who said that if you like one particular character then you can't say anything against them or more so "criticize" that character.? and that if someone says something other than the praises, then they are considered "not liking" the character as much the one who sings just praises?


Anyhoo.

Amy ...please dont get me wrong here iam not saying Sanchi is being made a villain by anyone here n iam out to defend her....someday i too have supported Shravan n criticized Sanchi n vicecersa....i dont have anything personal against anyone ...the above points or discussions is not meant to go against or offend anyone...its just a discussion..

omg chitra! i didn't say that to you in particular...or to anyone in particular. i was just generalizing it. i know what happens when the "liking" turns in to obsession and fanaticism so much so that such people can't even stand a word against their "favorite" and the "phoreberrrness" starts. i have seen it all other **cursed** forum and I so don't want this place to become like that.

I'm sorry if anyone was offended. but truly speaking i don't think i said anything offensive. but anyhow....sorry if someone didn't like what i said.