i was wrong about simran

i was wrong about simran. i thought she would leave aastha and give sia all her love, but i was wrong.. i dont like the way aastha is tretn simran and what about abhi..why doesnt she hate him. he was the one who left them, and he was the one who caused neha all the pain. why is aastha only blaming simran? and poor simran she does not say anything to aastha, because she still thinks she a kid. and abhi doesnt try to understand aastha at all. but still aastha treats him like hes the best daddy in the world. but i feel so sad for simran...😭

I think Simran is responsible for all this. She should have been honest with Aastha right from the very beginning. Aastha is immature but Simran has pampered her with too much of love and affection. She has failed as a mother.😡

she xplaned why she didnt tell aastha from the start. and i understand why she didnt. simran raised aastha as she was her real daughter. she gave her all the love and wanted to keep her away from anything that would even put a tear in aasthas eyes. so i dont think we need to blame her for loveing aastha as her own daughter

i agree with simi1295..why should we blame simran when aasthas dad left her.. i think abhi is the one to blame. simran loved aastha, it was abhi who didnt care enough to stay with her or even meet her after he came back.. abhi only cares about sia and simran.

yeah she should be angry with abhi but she still love him and hope everything will be like before

Astha is just childish... if anyone is to be blamed its Abhi not Simran....

What kind of life would Astha have had if Simran was not there to give her the best of everything....

Having lost a child she would have mourned for a while but life would have gone on.... she would have accepted everything...

and its seems like Astha is just like Neha always getting the wrong impression.. always doubtful... even when she was married to Abhi she was always jeleous of Simran...

These women have trust issues....

Asthas value system is really screwed up, she hates the mother who brought her up with so much of love, simran built her world around Astha , she was the beginning and the end of simrans world and Astha knows that but she chooses to hurt that same mother and still has love and sympathy for Abhay, a father who left her and never looked back, who never took responsibility for his kids and parents, Abhay failed as a husband, a father, a son and as a good human being and Astha prefers him over Simran? How screwed up is that , this has to be a genetic link with her Nani, a mental imbalance of sorts because this behavior is NOT normal and defies any sort of logic.

Originally posted by: peacestead

Asthas value system is really screwed up, she hates the mother who brought her up with so much of love, simran built her world around Astha , she was the beginning and the end of simrans world and Astha knows that but she chooses to hurt that same mother and still has love and sympathy for Abhay, a father who left her and never looked back, who never took responsibility for his kids and parents, Abhay failed as a husband, a father, a son and as a good human being and Astha prefers him over Simran? How screwed up is that , this has to be a genetic link with her Nani, a mental imbalance of sorts because this behavior is NOT normal and defies any sort of logic.

I think you have seen only nice,polite,mature,calm and perfectly sensible ppl in life but let me tell you that ppl like Aastha also live in this same world who get emotional and get mad very easily with every other thing and this has nothing to do with the mental balance otherwise you could see every second person is taking medication for mental relaxation, I think her reaction is VERY natural,whenever she feel something is bothering her,she always get emotional and take out all her anger, never keep anything in her heart,she always had some reasons to get mad according to her thinkings.I am not at all saying that her behaviour is good but we should give her some time,its just my thought, no offence...

Originally posted by: scorpio_pk

I think you have seen only nice,polite,mature,calm and perfectly sensible ppl in life but let me tell you that ppl like Aastha also live in this same world who get emotional and get mad very easily with every other thing and this has nothing to do with the mental balance otherwise you could see every second person is taking medication for mental relaxation, I think her reaction is VERY natural,whenever she feel something is bothering her,she always get emotional and take out all her anger, never keep anything in her heart,she always had some reasons to get mad according to her thinkings.I am not at all saying that her behaviour is good but we should give her some time,its just my thought, no offence...

Agreed there are people like Astha in this world and probably even alot worst but jumping to conclusions and insulting Simran like that, is that justified? even if she doesnt consider Simran to be her mother just by virtue of the age difference as per our culture the respect we give our elders do you think Astha is justified in being so vicious and vile in her behavior towards Simran? and if she is so set in her views that Simran is not her mother then she should just leave and live with her paternal grandparents, with what right is she staying in simrans house? the only problem is that Simran too is stupid and taking all this bull.... from Astha, She is disturbed no doubt and everyone says shes immature , but if she is mature enough to choose her life partner and decide she wants to spend the rest of her life with Sid then she is mature enough to see this aspect of the relationship with simran, sia and abhay as well. Not keeping anything in your heart and being vocal about it doesnt mean she has to insult and humiliate simran day in and day out!!!!!!!!which daughter goes around calling her mother characterless, she did'nt even give simran a chance to explain and just passed verdict ? Any mother would be insulted by this attitude and deeply hearbroken, this is a serial but in real life i dont know if any mother would be able to put up with such hurtful behavior , the world doesnt owe Astha anything, she has a much better life than millions of kids who grow up without parents all over the world, just ask a child who doesnt have parents,she in fact should be thankful that inspite of not having a mother simran raised her in such a way that she never even suspected that simran is not her real mother, the one who brings u up is is just as great if not greater than the one who gives you birth, in which way has simran harmed Astha other than keep a secret which she knew could cause havoc in their lives and that is exactly what has happened.Simran deserves better and Astha needs a reality check, the world is not her oyster and she should'nt be going through life with a chip on her shoulder, she should be grateful for what she has, a loving mom, a long lost sister, a father who is trying to make amends and grandparents who love her to death, she should enjoy all this instead of ruining life for everyone and making it so unpleasant for everyone!!!!!!

Originally posted by: peacestead

Agreed there are people like Astha in this world and probably even alot worst but jumping to conclusions and insulting Simran like that, is that justified? even if she doesnt consider Simran to be her mother just by virtue of the age difference as per our culture the respect we give our elders do you think Astha is justified in being so vicious and vile in her behavior towards Simran? and if she is so set in her views that Simran is not her mother then she should just leave and live with her paternal grandparents, with what right is she staying in simrans house? the only problem is that Simran too is stupid and taking all this bull.... from Astha, She is disturbed no doubt and everyone says shes immature , but if she is mature enough to choose her life partner and decide she wants to spend the rest of her life with Sid then she is mature enough to see this aspect of the relationship with simran, sia and abhay as well. Not keeping anything in your heart and being vocal about it doesnt mean she has to insult and humiliate simran day in and day out!!!!!!!!which daughter goes around calling her mother characterless, she did'nt even give simran a chance to explain and just passed verdict ? Any mother would be insulted by this attitude and deeply hearbroken, this is a serial but in real life i dont know if any mother would be able to put up with such hurtful behavior , the world doesnt owe Astha anything, she has a much better life than millions of kids who grow up without parents all over the world, just ask a child who doesnt have parents,she in fact should be thankful that inspite of not having a mother simran raised her in such a way that she never even suspected that simran is not her real mother, the one who brings u up is is just as great if not greater than the one who gives you birth, in which way has simran harmed Astha other than keep a secret which she knew could cause havoc in their lives and that is exactly what has happened.Simran deserves better and Astha needs a reality check, the world is not her oyster and she should'nt be going through life with a chip on her shoulder, she should be grateful for what she has, a loving mom, a long lost sister, a father who is trying to make amends and grandparents who love her to death, she should enjoy all this instead of ruining life for everyone and making it so unpleasant for everyone!!!!!!

I am sorry but I dont agree, becuz when Aastha realized Simran's love for her, she decided to come back and live in the same house again like before but after noticing that Simran is giving more attention to Sia,she got mad. Also Sid is giving her false hopes that he won't leave her but still tried to get closer to Sia. These things are making her hurt and mad.Again I am not saying ( as I said before ) that her behaviour is good with Simran, but thats exactly my point that this world is full of ppl with different and strange type of natures. Sometimes ppl show this kind of behaviour without any reason. At least in this serial ,writer provided some reasons to justify her to some extent.
I have noticed so many times that whenever Aastha got mad at Simran she just keep herself calm and quit from the situation,if I would be her mother I would never leave my child alone in this mood no matter how mad he/she would be. I would try to give my child every explainantion and force them to listen, but again every mother knows how to handle her children,thats what Simran is doing with Aastha by giving her time to cool down and bring out all anger.
According to the latest updates , Aastha left Simran's house and living with her father in her grandparents house. Abhi could also force her to stay in Simran's house but they know how to handle this problematic child.