Why is Anupamaa never possesive over any of her men - Page 2

Anupama iko in namuno ki nakal kar ne ki jaroorat nahi hai

No poor human deserves to be compared with the namuni Upma.

Originally posted by: Ajab.Pehchan

What rubbish how does that immoral unpaid maid who mingles with her Exes and Ex In Laws have any dignity. This namuni is worse than any namuni on this planet!

Please AP samjha karo!

Anupama ki apni dignity hai, isliye 5 saal pehle jis ghar aur mohalle se dhamka ke nikal diya tha, aaj usi ghar mein raat ko ruk gayi, muft mein wahan catering kar rahi hai aur din raat wahin padi rehti hai.

Mehmaan bankar aayi hai lekin bahu wala haq jatati hai.

Anupama ki apni dignity hai isliye 2nd ex husband ka naam bhi apne hatheli mein likh leti hai, jaante hue ki wo kisi aur ka partner hai, fir uske arms mein ja girti hai aur dance karti hai, haldi bhi laga deti hai….aur cheekh cheekh ke kehti hai ke wo Anuj se pyaar karti hai.

Kalyug mein dignity ka yehi matlab hota hai!

Anupama is plain stupid. She considers her regressive ex MIL as her mother. Where was the mother's affection for Anupama when she lost her dignity & trophy due to the Spice & Chutney fiasco? She didn't want Anupama to attend the wedding as it may trigger disrespect for Shah family in society. If she was real mother, she would have stood by Anupama, not shunned her.

Also, I don't have much problem with Anupama meeting her bio kids but why no distance was maintained from Vanraj & Shah family? Why didn't Anupama restrict herself to co-parenting her kids instead of meddling with & solving the issues at Shah family on a daily basis. Which spouse will tolerate your close involvement with your ex or his family?

Moreover, Aadya was the youngest of all. The younger the child, the more attention he or she needs. Why was Anupama caring so much for her grown up kids & was unable to understand Aadya's insecurities?

When Anuj and CA questioned her love for them, Anupama ran away, instead of explaining or acknowledging her mistakes. This reinforced Aadya's belief that Anupama indeed was impartial towards her because she was adopted.

Finally, when Anuj is engaged to Shruti, why is she romancing him? She should maintain distance na!

Based on all the above facts, Anupama is not a flawless person. She has done mistakes but makers want to whitewash her because she is the lead. Not acceptable!

Originally posted by: Time_to_move_on

Anupama is plain stupid. She considers her regressive ex MIL as her mother. Where was the mother's affection for Anupama when she lost her dignity & trophy due to the Spice & Chutney fiasco? She didn't want Anupama to attend the wedding as it may trigger disrespect for Shah family in society. If she was real mother, she would have stood by Anupama, not shunned her.

Also, I don't have much problem with Anupama meeting her bio kids but why no distance was maintained from Vanraj & Shah family? Why didn't Anupama restrict herself to co-parenting her kids instead of meddling with & solving the issues at Shah family on a daily basis. Which spouse will tolerate your close involvement with your ex or his family?

Moreover, Aadya was the youngest of all. The younger the child, the more attention he or she needs. Why was Anupama caring so much for her grown up kids & was unable to understand Aadya's insecurities?

When Anuj and CA questioned her love for them, Anupama ran away, instead of explaining or acknowledging her mistakes. This reinforced Aadya's belief that Anupama indeed was impartial towards her because she was adopted.

Finally, when Anuj is engaged to Shruti, why is she romancing him? She should maintain distance na!

Based on all the above facts, Anupama is not a flawless person. She has done mistakes but makers want to whitewash her because she is the lead. Not acceptable!

I will blame Anuj for this because he was the 1 who created this mess for himself. Before marrying Anupama, Anuj should have made it clear to her that he will not tolerate any irresponsible behaviour either towards him or towards CA before tying the sacred knot. Poor Anuj suffered financially, physically, mentally and emotionally after marrying Anupama.

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

Kalyug mein dignity ka yehi matlab hota hai!

Kaliyuga ko kaahe badnaam kare. Anupamaverse?

Yes Anuj has also done mistakes in the past and continues to do so in the present too. He shouldn't have served Shah family with Anupama, lived with Maya under the same roof when married to Anupama, and got engaged to Shruti when he is still in love with Anupama.

Originally posted by: Time_to_move_on

Yes Anuj has also done mistakes in the past and continues to do so in the present too. He shouldn't have served Shah family with Anupama, lived with Maya under the same roof when married to Anupama, and got engaged to Shruti when he is still in love with Anupama.

It was Anupama who invited CA aka Aadhya's biological mother with some dialogue (Do not remember the dialogue now). Anuj had wanted a background check to be conducted on Maya. Due to Anupama, Anuj had to be seperated from Aadhya.

Namuna Kaun Hai yeh to serial dekh hi Pata chalta hai

Yeah and it’s clearly Upma