Anupama will be successful only when she comes out of relationships

Rakhi proves that relations are not a hurdle in one's independence. Rakhi raised a family by herself. She took help when needed in terms of hiring a staff. She knew when to step in for new relations and when to watch through the sidelines.

Relations are one's support system. They do Not demand losing oneself to the relation.

Take Kanta for instance, she raised an independent daughter. She led an independent life, she stood by her daughter through her lowest and encouraged her to re-start, she gave timely advises and guidance (it's another matter that Anupama did not heed to it and considers Leela her mother) and protected her while making her independent.

In case of Anupama, she doesn't know when to draw the line and has this liking of people being dependent on her. She perhaps fears people leaving her if they are no longer dependent on her.

So, relationships are not the problem, her insecurity and need to be in control of the relationship is.

Well known of the Mahanta Devi jee Anupma