Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD
Why his 26 years of love and wait is regarded as a devotion? In those 26 years, he slept with millions of women. When the women wanted commitment, he dumped them by saying that he could not love anyone other than AsoopaMaa. Even after his divorce with DhagapaMaa, he got involved with Shruti. Now, after using her for 4 years, he wants to dump her for BhagodipaMaa. He is just a disgusting pervert who uses women and throw them when he gets VictimpaMaa. There is no love. If he truly loved DevipaMaa, he would not be living in with other girls. He has no respect for any women. It's a shame that his character is based on Rohit Sen who never loved or had SEGGS with any other woman other than Sreemoyee, and who had immense respect for every women.
You must understand anuj is brought up in USA since 18 years of age
IN USA they go on dates since 13 years and are not virgin from high school only
They do not give such high importance to virginity of women or celibacy of woman for love and marraige etc
Its another normal human function like going to toilet or taking bathe etc in USA
So anuj is brought up in that culture where if she has ONS or sleeps with shruti 5 years yet hemay not love them and it may not be considered as betrayal like in india
In india till you marry woman cannot lose virginity else they are considered unfit to marry or be decent girls for marraige. Men are safer as there is no way to check if they were celibate before marraige so they can sleep around than act sanskari and marry no one questions in india or asia.
Its all culture related stuff in USA and Europe you date and sleep with opp sex since high school only so that does not mean you are cheating future spouse actually
Same way anuj may have slept with many thats OK in US culture but after marraige you cannot sleep with other woman thats called cheating in USA
Before marraige or after divorce both man and woman can stay with opp sex or sleep around or have ONS its not called cheating or betrayal of wife in future or past etc
Thats how USA culture is so as per anuj hes not cheating as hes not married to Shruti or was not married to anupama 26 years
It all about what is acceptable in a counrty and culture
Romeo had many ladys after him but than fell madly for Juliet and died for her(so is he not a lover as per you as many woman flirted with him and he may also have flirted with them)
Salim had many wives but his lover was anarkali for whom he was ready to go against his father and for war at risk of his life and losing throne (so as per your definition later salim married 26 wives all royal princess or his family friends daughters and had 7 kids too from many of his wives so he never loved anrakali is it, does that reduce his love for anarkali)
So as per modern defintion of love Prince Salim is biggest love betrayer than because he should have killed himself not lived for his parents, siblings and not married 26 wives and had kids and can you imagine what would happen than? Who will take care of kingdom after akbar dies if salim also died as no son remains grand sons are very small and may be incapable to fend of enemies or go to war? Who will take care of his two young dead brothers wives and their kids or his 300 mothers or 3 sisters and their kids with one being widow etc? When Akbar own brother and son in laws are out to kill him for throne and may kill all his family, Salim should have just said okkk ppl anarkali died i am also dying moms sisters bhabhis and wives and all kids(who are in 100s mind you neice nephews) go to hell and get killed or become slave of enemies i give a damn and just commit suicide. Than Prince salim would be hailed greatest lover is it?
I would anyday call a man who lives for others after losing his love or lover and manages his responsibility and do not abondon them as a great lover over someone who just dies and leaves his loved ones and those dependent on him in lurch
But anuj never did that yes he took care of kapadiya empire but not full hearted he lived with Mukku and Gk akka but never loved or cared for them like a family he was busy wallowing in self pity and writing poetry and doing one mistake after another and destroying his sisters life all because he was crazily in love with anupama who never loves him even 34 years after leaving college and divorcing vanraj shah.
Imagine if every lover who loses his love starts acting like anuj kapadiya what will happen to world? Because 50% ppl have loved someone but could not marry the lover. What will happpen to world if everyone acts like anuj kapadiya in love? Sadly he destroyed mavika, gk kaka, CA life most and ankush and adhik too in his crazy love for anupama.
Edited by myviewprem - 1 years ago
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