Originally posted by: surabhi01
I am seeing agar anuj ya phir maaya ko crictise Karo to pats nahi kyon anupama ki galityaan kyon count shuru ho jaati hai
Anupama ki mistake count karne anuj sahi thodi hi ho jaayega
Ek scene aisa hai jahan anupama anuj ke saath aur vanraj ko hug use romance ke baare mein soch rahi ho ?
Jub vanraj ne anupama se doobara shaadi karne ko kaha anupama oppose it ahd told this to anuj
But anuj did not tell.about incident when he went with maaya in picnic neither now he is dong with Shruti
He did not show any transparency with neither with Shruti nor with anupama
Anupama always show transparency in her relationship
If she worried about her children baa bapuji pakhi she always shared with anuj moreover anuj most of time accompany with anupama whenever she went to shah house
Anupama always oppose vanraj when ever he cross limits so it is wrong to say anupama did emotional cheating with anuj
I can speak for myself and I feel this could be the general reason.
If there are certain excuses why Anupama is spared or considered good, then the same barometer should be held for the other characters as well.
So, just because she warned Vanraj off his advances but kept going back to cheer him, motivate him(, knowing well that both him and his mother wanted Anupama back in Shah House) and even kept his secrets and that is acceptable.
Anuj went to Mumbai for his daughter (who shouldn't have been sent away in the first place). Everyone knew he harboured NO feelings for Maaya which he has openly exhibited his utter disdain. But Anuj is a cheater.
The 3 anmol ratna are hopeless and even after Anupama is not under anyone's suppression makes No effort to correct them and still calls herself "Besht Maa".
How can she point fingers at the parenting of Rakhi, Barkha, the random parents who came to Kapadia Mansion for practice whose children are far better and well behaved.
Those who live in glass houses do NOT throw stones at others.
Anupama is Not the only Maa there. The other female characters have seen much greater struggles than Anupama for her to be protrayed as bechari.
Edited by Bodhianveshika - 1 years ago
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