Dukhmukh ka Dukh - Page 2

Bechari baa, sirf apni WIDOWED poti bahu par characterless hone ka JHOOTA ilzaam hi toh laga rahi thi, kya zarurat thi dimpy ko apne liye stand lene ki? pata nahi shah house me enter hona matlab apni self respect ko girwi rakhna hota hai? Ab dekho bechari ki kya haalat ho gayi hai

Originally posted by: Dee-Dee

She doesn’t need to consult him, she informs him after deciding everything and he says, Anu tum bilkul thik keh rahi ho 😂

Generally har show/movies me Pati/boyfriend ko secondary samjhne wali ko log Vamp ke taur par dikhate hain. Bhale hi wo kuch galat na kar rahi ho. Lekin Anupama Anuj ko secondary maankar kuch karti hai to wo Vamp nahi hai kyonki Anupama Jo kuch karti hai wo Patriarchy ko favor karne ke liye karti hai. Anupamaa ke makers baar-baar Anupamaa/Anuj ke munh se bulwate hain ki patni ko pati se ijajat lene ki jarurat nahi hoti lekin wahi same makers apne dusre show me aisa karne wali aurat ko galat dikhate hain.

Anupamaa Anuj ko time nahi deti lekin uske Ego ko majbut karti hai isliye usne Anupama ko is baat ke liye bhi maaf kar diya hai ki wo CA ko bhi neglect karti hai.

Anuj to kisi angle se healthy individual nahi hai. Anupamaa ke liye wo obsessed hai. Wife ko pyar karne ka matlab ye nahi ki aap apne Business aur parenthood ki duty ko neglect karien! Waise bhi marriage is a contract between two adults.. Anuj aur Anupamaa CA ko isiliye etna neglect kar rahe hain kyonki unme God Complex hai. Adopted child ke liye isse jyada kyo kare? It came off really bad.. Thankfully, some people are intelligent enough to see this.

Keval 9-5 job ho to bhi uske saath Parental duty nibhana tiring hota hai. But we are led to believe ki between Kapadia business/dance school/social intervention/Shah House ka drama/KM ka drama/Devi ji ki Kanha ji se batkahi/Bina ek servant ke KM ko handle karna/Kitchen me khana banana/Anuj ke saath kood kood kar bandaro ki tarah naachne ke baad/500 panno ke bhashan/8 hours ki need/1 Hr essential daily routine ke baad... Anupamaa ke baad etna time/energy hoti hai ki wo CA ko time deti hai.

Jaise hamari mother ki generation ki women (jinme se jyadatar housewives hoti thi, financially dependent hoti thi, uneducated hoti thi) to Kitchen/Pooja/Vrat/husband, saas, sasur, bete, guest ko khush karne, duniyadari nibhane me etna busy hoti thi ki they used to treat their daughters as their maids. Ki kal ko ise sasural jana hai, let's start her training from the age of 5-6. These mothers used to neglect their own well being, and hardly manage to look good because they never had enough time for themselves.

It's clear ki... Rajan Shahi and others are so obsessed with women of these era! Kyonki wo pati/beta obsession me sabse aage hoti thi. Maybe through Anupamaa they are trying to teach modern woman a lesson ki..."Asali progressive to tumhari Maa ki generation ki women thi, jo family ko jodkar rakhti thi. Tum sirf complain karti ho, useless ho, family break karti ho (Sweety, Dimpy), thode se kaam ka tamasha banati ho, tumhari maa ki generations ki mothers best mothers thi, wo sab manage kar leti thi! You should be managing everything as well."

This is what I have gathered watching DKP's many shows. These are the common themes in their many shows.