Why we hate Anupama - Page 3

Originally posted by: hinz

I’m sorry being a mod doesnt mean I cant have a discussion or opinion, unless you mean one that aligns with yours.

and about negativity, the show itself is high on it…If Anupamaa is called something, the other characters have been tagged as something worse I wouldnt take it seriously if I were you…if the characters/makers are not bothered I dont think you should worry yourself.

and tbvh controlling is never the answer, I’d rather have a debate than pin it on the ‘mod’.

p.s: you know what to do if you think its unfair.

How can a char looks dirty and ugly?.The char is played by Rg and I am sure she is not wearng any dirty make up.So that means they r indirectly bashing the actor.

I am not trying to offend u dear.Just want to remind u "dhyan rakh cho"

Originally posted by: Historia

But let's not forget that none of this happened if upma never invited Maya into their life

I agree Anupama did a misjudjement by allowing M to stay at KM.I But it became a 'kand 'because of Anuj and M.

Originally posted by: Paru...

There have been many occcasions where I have controlled my irritation and refrained from replying to the hate comments which i felt like allegations. But sometimes looses my control and feels like countering them.

Relax, it's just a pathetic fictional show with pathetic characters with nonsensical storyline.

I have finally learnt to let go and laugh. It's not wrong to call a spade a spade. We have called out Anuj a million times and he is unlikable too although lesser than his wife.

This show is a cringefest of negativity and you need to not take anything seriously. I'm damn sure the actors are also laughing behind the scenes which they actually do.

Just breathe and put your mental health on top.

Anuj "staying with Maya" is such a baseless allegation. This argument doesn't hold any weight. We all know he went there to meet his daughter and that too after Anupama's provocation. Had anupama given him the required space,he would have defenately come to terms with the situation. Now regarding Anuj not returning back to Deviji, well he can't leave his daughter with a mentally unstable women. I though agree he should have taken psychiatric help instead of handling her on his own but it's pretty evident that he never had an ounce of affection for Maya whereas nobody can deny Anupama's proximity with Vanraj. She is still enamoured of him and constantly fails to keep him at bay. Under the garb of co parenting,she has given him full authority to interfere and mess with the lives of Anuj and CA. DISGUSTING!

Originally posted by: Paru...

There have been many occcasions where I have controlled my irritation and refrained from replying to the hate comments which i felt like allegations. But sometimes looses my control and feels like countering them.

No, no, you are one of the politest people here and definitely not a toxic fan or hater. Your replies are always to the point and never personal. Fans like you make this forum a great place, we need all kind of different opinions here. Please don't stop commenting.

Originally posted by: Paru...

But even Anuj is also going to SH with Maa .The same shah family has helped him when he had accident and supported him when Maa went for udaan after M's death.If Anuj does not have any problem with it,why u guys are worrying?

If some one gives shahs 20 lakh and pays vanraj hospital bill and gives money to samar for academy and toshu uses his name to go up in life and pakhi gets job without any qualification such a person if you take care 5 days in hospital not a big thing as pr me they have ulterior motives to do that actually

Will they take care of bhavesh or kanta than i will agree shahs are great

Originally posted by: Paru...

How can a char looks dirty and ugly?.The char is played by Rg and I am sure she is not wearng any dirty make up.So that means they r indirectly bashing the actor.

I am not trying to offend u dear.Just want to remind u "dhyan rakh cho"

and I’m sorry if I came across too harsh, its only because this has happened before and things havent ended on a good note.

Loving the actor or character is perfectly ok but keeping them seperate is equally necessary…like I absofrikkinlutely LOVE GK but I simply hate Anuj currently, there’s a huge difference between the two.

Yes - the actors on this show are fantastic and playing the script really Well -that’s why we are all here bashing the characters.😅

Anuj is toxic in his own way. He is definitely not perfect either.

Just like his wife- Anuj is in bad need of therapy from the trauma of being given up for adoption and never feeling like he belonged in a family.

his 26 year obsession with Anupama is not real love but a coping mechanism for all the unresolved trauma from his early life. She represents the love and hope of what he wanted in his early life - and he subconsciously put it on a fantasy…This fantasy is Anupama- A woman whom he would never get…

Now-by some miracle and fate … He actually got an opportunity to marry her, but he was completely unprepared to turn the fantasy into a reality. He is living in the reality of that fantasy without ever having gotten therapy and he is unable to see what is happening

Why we hate Anupamaa

Hate is a strong word but I do dislike her as she doesn’t show anything in actions whatsoever she preaches

Negates her own statement in next episode and sometimes within mins.

If it is a pathetic fictional show why we r still watching it and discussing each and every scene of this show?But I agree that now tracks have started becoming boring and the quality of dialogues are also not good.

Unless some major twist happen it is very difficult for this how to survive.