Today Anupama taught me…

1. Betray your boundaries for family no matter how toxic they are.
2. Everyone should worship their mom- even if it makes you completely uncomfortable and upset - you have to be all in love with a mom who never even wanted you.
3. Babies fix all marital and familial issues- even though Anupama lectures Paakhi that this is not the case- but still it IS the case for every other relationship in the family.
4. If a woman gets pregnant- then only dote on the father to be and sideline the pregnant mother to be.
   
   5) don’t pay attention to the needs, wants or words of your husband- just fold your hands, say sorry, and somehow turn his pain, and the entire conversation around to make it all about you!
5. what did others learn today? Comment below 😄
   
   

You should always prioritise your abusers especially your ex husband and ex Mil. If anyone questions, just say that it is '(adult) bachchon ke khaatir'

2 things from today’s episode

First love is the only true love, you can see it on Anupama’s face when Samar was praising Vanraj

Nothing is above blood relations, I have never seen Anupama this concerned about CA or Anuj, the way she was worried about Samar, cooked for him and entire family, fed him with her hands, she has never done that for Anuj or CA

I only learnt that there should be a statutory warning at the beginning of the show " Watch at your own risk. Contents can be harmful for vulnerable, impressionable beings".

Choti Anu and Anuj (jisne recently full puppy bana) are second class citizen. Ginti me ati nehi.

I am confuusssed why Maa bought Malti Devi at Sha house. She can send her to her own mothers place. Sha house ke bina isko kuch dekhai nehi deta.

Lost interest from this show.

Your own caring mother and brother who stood by your difficult times are unimportant . Don't even bother remembering your late father. Forget about them as soon as problem vanishes and go back to the same people who were responsible for all the miseries in your life and celebrate phuncson with them.