Diff between Anupama's attitude towards Shah House and Kapadia House

https://twitter.com/Gorgeouszz_/status/1661606905368674306

When Anuj is grovelling and apologising, she talks about her "self respect" and rightfully so if he hasn't told her the real reason. But what happens to this very same self respect when it comes to Shah House? Forget about now when Anuj is living with Maya, what about before this when he left the house, why didn't she stay and manage his house and business, she didn't even bother about it knowing very well Barkha is such a predator and would definitely ruin his business. She didn't and doesn't try to fight for her haq now, but when her children kept kicking her out of the house, Vanraj repeatedly insulted and belittled her after his affair was exposed, Baa treating her like a maid and giving her badduas, she wanted to fight for her haq. She slapped and threw Kavya out during Toshu's wedding but she doesn't say a word to Maaya now? Couldn't she ask her at least to get out? I can't fathom how after Shah family members told her repeatedly to get lost she wanted to and kept going back, but Anuj left the house and transferred everything in her name, never asked her to leave, yet she left and talks about self respect.

How does her self respect allow her to sit in Vanraj's car and dance with him as "parents"? Not talking about the puja even though that's absolute mockery of customs as well since they sat as "parents", but they danced also as parents? She can dance with her abuser as parents but talks about self respect when it comes to Anuj, it's just so odd her differential treatment for Anuj and CA compared to the Shahs.

P.S - this thread is about Anupama's reaction to everything that's happening so far related to Anuj and CA compared to how she used to behave and continues to when it came to the Shahs. Not about Anuj or his mistakes, have already spoken about that on other threads so please don't come at me for that 😆

shah house and kapadia house mein difference hai bhai, Kapadiya house mein Maan baste hain/ the, so i feel thats why its difficult to live there for both of them without each other.

Okay chalo even if that's the reason, she can still stay at Kanta's house and at least look at what's happening to his business and whose hands it is in right? She knows Barkha and earlier Ankush's intentions, yet she just left? She didn't even bother if Anuj was really okay, it was more about whether he will come back to her or not.

And anyway I'm also talking about self respect here that comes into play for Anuj like in the precap, but the very same human being wants to go back to where she is constantly insulted and thrown out from? She used to scream main aaungi main aaungi when they say the worst things to her and even hug them and leave, only to come back running the very next day. Where is this self respect when it came to Shahs is my only question. With Anuj, even before Maaya came into the picture, her effort to find out what was wrong was a big zero. And to those who ask why should she find out, he's her husband for God's sake, they're supposed to have a "soul connection" and usually her internal trouble meter lights up for all members of SH but it didn't at all when it came to CA and Anuj. She didn't even want to check what happened to him considering he was messaging her and flirting with her etc., and suddenly called and said he can't come. At least you'll be curious!

Yeah you could be right as you have watched the show regularly,I was unable to watch it regularly, so your opinion matters >>>❤️

How I much I wish ki anupama ne kapadia business per focus Kiya hota. Dance academy mein busy hoti. CA and Anuj ke Masti kerti . But makers kabhi nahi hone diya

Anu di ka aim hai ki sab iski pooja kare, jo nahi karte unke peeche bhagti hai n unke tevar sehti hai.

jo pehle se hi karte hai, unko apne peeche bhagana, aur unko tevar dikhana

Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9

Okay chalo even if that's the reason, she can still stay at Kanta's house and at least look at what's happening to his business and whose hands it is in right? She knows Barkha and earlier Ankush's intentions, yet she just left? She didn't even bother if Anuj was really okay, it was more about whether he will come back to her or not.

And anyway I'm also talking about self respect here that comes into play for Anuj like in the precap, but the very same human being wants to go back to where she is constantly insulted and thrown out from? She used to scream main aaungi main aaungi when they say the worst things to her and even hug them and leave, only to come back running the very next day. Where is this self respect when it came to Shahs is my only question. With Anuj, even before Maaya came into the picture, her effort to find out what was wrong was a big zero. And to those who ask why should she find out, he's her husband for God's sake, they're supposed to have a "soul connection" and usually her internal trouble meter lights up for all members of SH but it didn't at all when it came to CA and Anuj. She didn't even want to check what happened to him considering he was messaging her and flirting with her etc., and suddenly called and said he can't come. At least you'll be curious!

Originally posted by: poobaniparvati9

https://twitter.com/Gorgeouszz_/status/1661606905368674306

When Anuj is grovelling and apologising, she talks about her "self respect" and rightfully so if he hasn't told her the real reason. But what happens to this very same self respect when it comes to Shah House? Forget about now when Anuj is living with Maya, what about before this when he left the house, why didn't she stay and manage his house and business, she didn't even bother about it knowing very well Barkha is such a predator and would definitely ruin his business. She didn't and doesn't try to fight for her haq now, but when her children kept kicking her out of the house, Vanraj repeatedly insulted and belittled her after his affair was exposed, Baa treating her like a maid and giving her badduas, she wanted to fight for her haq. She slapped and threw Kavya out during Toshu's wedding but she doesn't say a word to Maaya now? Couldn't she ask her at least to get out? I can't fathom how after Shah family members told her repeatedly to get lost she wanted to and kept going back, but Anuj left the house and transferred everything in her name, never asked her to leave, yet she left and talks about self respect.

How does her self respect allow her to sit in Vanraj's car and dance with him as "parents"? Not talking about the puja even though that's absolute mockery of customs as well since they sat as "parents", but they danced also as parents? She can dance with her abuser as parents but talks about self respect when it comes to Anuj, it's just so odd her differential treatment for Anuj and CA compared to the Shahs.

P.S - this thread is about Anupama's reaction to everything that's happening so far related to Anuj and CA compared to how she used to behave and continues to when it came to the Shahs. Not about Anuj or his mistakes, have already spoken about that on other threads so please don't come at me for that 😆

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Sorry but Anupama ka kaunsa haw hain Shah House par, can someone clarify?