Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 22 May 2023 - Page 2

Dimpy is one shameless and thankless freeloader who has no relation with anyone around her but is bossing around, doing as she pleases, inviting Anuj so he can sponsor her wedding, she is even shamelessly admitting that she was happy when Anuj and Maya sat in place of her parents without giving a thought about Anupama and Samar who claims to be Mummy bhakt takes this statement so casually

Now she wants an expensive honeymoon and her own bigger room, she is being shown as a typical non adjusting demanding bahu which is still fine but saying itna kiya hai to honeymoon bhi de denge, where is the self respect, why should he give and she is the same girl who snatched the dance academy that didn’t belong to her in any way, after this marriage there will be daily drama in Shah house and Anupama will keep running to resolve

Anuj is obviously holding back the truth because of some big reason, Maa has had countless majburis till date and will keep having in future too, Anuj is probably hesitant telling about Maya forcing herself upon him and later maybe blackmailing or threatening him with some thing or emotionally manipulating him because of CA, because CA calling her Mummy seems the child is scared of something or she knows something, eventually he ends up telling the truth

Vanraj’s behaviour is getting intolerable and creepy with each day, he is desperate for Anupama now, hope his involvement in all the plotting is reveal too

Plz anyone tell me what's the issue between Anuj and anupamaa ??

Choti Anu was so happy with Anupamaa back then ..now why is she not like that ??

Originally posted by: YoungHeart

He literally takes her stuff and forces her to sit on his bike after he refuses to tell her the truth.. she should just sit there and listen to him or do as he pleases. What pisses me off is the haq and possessiveness he shows on Anu but goes around holding & living with another woman. Today’s bike scene.. and yesterday’s scene when V tells Anu to stay in SH, Anuj gets pissed at V from facial expression and then heaves a sigh of relief when Anu say no. Like dude what is this entitled haq and dominance he’s showing on Anu.. he should do what he pleases but what Anu does should be according to his liking? After everything, even if Anu did stay in SH to help w wedding preparation, she can.. so he fcuk off..
His attitude, that possessiveness & that entitled haq he thinks he has on Anu pissed me off today.

I thought Anu would give him an earful and a 5-page lecture on how to accept NO as an answer. I was very disappointed when she got into his bike. Anu is so smitten by him that she finds all of his problematic behaviours romantic. She does not find any fault in him and keeps justifying all of his immoral actions. Come on lady, smell the real world.

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

I thought Anu would give him an earful and a 5-page lecture on how to accept NO as an answer. I was very disappointed when she got into his bike. Anu is so smitten by him that she finds all of his problematic behaviours romantic. She does not find any fault in him and keeps justifying all of his immoral actions. Come on lady, smell the real world.

Idk if she’s smitten by him… but what the eff does Anuj Kapadia want? Does he want Anu as his wife who won’t stay at his house but will dance in his whims and fancies, who he’ll romance & be angst-ing w and imagining but wants M as his pretend partners who he’ll play ghar ghar with? Gosh it’s so infuriating..

Anu should have sternly said no and left from there. All he does is disrespect her and expects her to understand..

Well said if he can stay with other women for the sake of his few months foster daughter and that's justified according to him than why can't Anupama stay at SH for her biological son wedding . In this case her staying at SH is more justified as many divorced parents comes together for child important days and functions.

Originally posted by: vivkriti

Well said if he can stay with other women for the sake of his few months foster daughter and that's justified according to him than why can't Anupama stay at SH for her biological son wedding . In this case her staying at SH is more justified as many divorced parents comes together for child important days and functions.

Sigh again people using terms like biological and foster to discriminate between kids. Well done show for promoting this regressive mentality so much

But you are ignoring that Anupama's actions came first. She abandoned her husband again and again and again for her ex and his family much before Anuj did anything. Even when her husband was paralyzed or when her daughter needed her mom

I don't know why people are saying this in reverse, the sentence should be - if Anupama can abandon her husband for ex and family so many times, why cant Anuj once for his daughter

But in the actual show, what will happen is that Anuj will have some stupid, humanitarian reason for abandoning his wife and being with someone else, like CAs life being in danger. Because the show cannot have adults discussing mature, complex issues, they have to make the leads sacchrine sweet and sacrificing becharas who are helpess all the time, the lead characters can never have shades of gray

Originally posted by: MOTHERHOOD

Why is not MAA divorcing this cheater and loser husband of hers? Anuj is so infuriating to watch. The bike scene screamed dominance.

Its 2023 and we still have indian shows and movies showing stalking and forcing women and not taking No for an answer as romantic

What is the difference between Vanraj/Maya and Anuj here?

Anupama still keeps "insaaniyat ka rishta" with her abusive, cheating ex-husband, who has left no stone unturned to try and ruin her life and progress and is still lusting after her openly. There are so many scenes of them laughing and enjoying with each other and maintaining their "friendship" after he betrayed her. She even got him married to Kavya when he was trying to escape it. To this day I don't even think she acknowledges that she is a victim of abuse, because the trauma that an abused person will have would never allow them to have the relationship she has with her ex-in laws and ex-husband.

You really think she'll be able to say no to Anuj or give him a earful for what he did or is continuing to do? 😆 That scene was problematic on so many levels, it was giving major Kabir Singh vibes, but DKP probably thinks that was an "angsty and romantic scene", just like Baa's baddua and Vanraj's abuse is "badon ka aashirwad" and "galat but not ghatiya behaviour". Each time we think they can't ruin Anuj's character anymore, we're proven wrong. He's forcing his wife to come on the bike with him after refusing to tell her the reason for everything he's doing in spite of her asking repeatedly and crying about it. I don't get it, if you have some majboori and can't tell her, at least stay away from her! Why force her to be around you and come with you, but not do anything except give angsty expressions?

Anupama has learnt nothing from her first marriage. For her, Vanraj's abusive behaviour, him celebrating Kavya and forgetting his wife's birthday, the innumerable instances where he publicly humiliated and belittled her, people telling her about Vanraj having an affair, were not reasons to leave him. She blindly trusted him until she caught them together and her "pati is parameshwar" behaviour continues even today.

I still don't think Anuj is comparable to Vanraj, but his behaviour is also terribly wrong. Whatever he's doing is so problematic, stringing her along while living with another woman and not telling her the reason. But I bet she won't do anything about it unless she catches them embracing or sleeping in the same room or something of the sort. I feel like Anuj handing her divorce papers due to his majboori will come before she decides to do anything about it 😔

I doubt Maan divorce is on cards , if anuj will give divorce papers anupama will immediately sign it or baat khatam, so I doubt anuj himself is looking 4 divorce, anuj ke dimaag mein kya chal raha ye koi nhi janta shayad vo khud bhi nhi .

I feel soon anyhow anupama will be back in KM for tamasha after that only things will start unfolding, right now maaya barkha , vanraj r chilling happily seeing Maan seperated

How long they will stop husband wife to communicate?

This suspense is really idiotic, this maaya character should now end as it has been unnecessary dragged for 5 months , thou I want vanraj character to end 2 but vo to hone se Raha ab to jaldi vo dimpy se ladega Roz agar sample ki shaadi hui to ?

Malti devi track seems more interesting which is on hold I guess coz of this in going nonsense track but she is hestitant to attend wedding? Kuch bada tamasha hoga shaadi mein as barkha predicted of everyone playing chess game .