Anupamaa Live Update & Daily Discussion Thread 20-5-23 (DT NOTE PG3) - Page 3

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

In today's episode, Dolly was saying to Baa that she was perfectly right about Dimpy being bad... If we go back to the previous episodes, Baa was actually badmouthing Dimpy because she is a survivor and she didn't want her as Samar's wife just because of the abuse she went through... This was even before Dimpy turned rude and the negative character... They made Dimpy negative, justified Baa's taanes and even made a statement about it... What a horrible message🤢

Yeah she went through horrible incident... And that justify her behaviour to some extent.. but she can't just claim anuj is her father and will pay for their wedding and stuff.. she was just happy that anuj has finally come to her wedding (knowing now he will look after the money issue) but didn't even bother to ask anuj is he ok or smth

Originally posted by: FredricaBrnkstl

Yeah she went through horrible incident... And that justify her behaviour to some extent.. but she can't just claim anuj is her father and will pay for their wedding and stuff.. she was just happy that anuj has finally come to her wedding (knowing now he will look after the money issue) but didn't even bother to ask anuj is he ok or smth

Nothing can justify her taking pics of Anuj when in depression or taking Anupama's dance school from her or even taking Anuj's money.. I am just frustrated that the makers made Baa say total nonsensical things about her just because she is an abuse victim and then made her negative to prove Baa is correct and also made a statement today that Baa was right about not trusting Dimpy from the beginning. The message the narrative is sending out that don't help people who are abused because they'll just spoil your homes is highly disappointing from a show that claims to be extremely progressive.

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

Nothing can justify her taking pics of Anuj when in depression or taking Anupama's dance school from her or even taking Anuj's money.. I am just frustrated that the makers made Baa say total nonsensical things about her just because she is an abuse victim and then made her negative to prove Baa is correct and also made a statement today that Baa was right about not trusting Dimpy from the beginning. The message the narrative is sending out that don't help people who are abused because they'll just spoil your homes is highly disappointing from a show that claims to be extremely progressive.

Yeah agreed.. I was just mentioning things that she being insecure was totally understandable and but not where she started doing negative stuffs.. agreed with the rest of points.. Baa has surpassed the point of redemption..

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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

So, even after a divorce,

1. Anupama not just stays at Shah House but also spills pearls of wisdom and taunts to Kavya who is now the legally wedded wife.

2. Takes decisions for Shahs whether they should have a maid or not, they should buy a washing machine or not, Malavika should stay at Shah House.

3. Anupama and Vanraj perform the phunctions of Sweetudi Pakhi's wedding as Mata-Pita while Anuj is a mere sponsor.

4. Anupama and Vanraj can perform Pari's Namkaran phunction as Daada-Daadi while Anuj is on Video call.

5. At the hospital say, "Kagaj pe likh dene se......." and run to Shah House under Leela's pressure telling Anuj "Aati jaati rahungi"

How is this scenario different?

Now Consider a scenario where Anuj wouldn't have come or only Anuj would have come, what Anupama have done?

Sat in place of Dimple's parent(s) or performed phunctions as Mata-Pita with Vanraj?

This question arises because Anupama is found to take the moral highground on Sanskaar, Sabhyata, Sanskriti, Riste.

I remember she said: Choti ke liye na sahi Anuj ke liye aajao to Maaya. Now imagine if Anuj himself would have said that. Baba re Bhasanpama deserves only Vanraj and Shahs.