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Posted: 2 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Paru...

My God,U guys are really funny🤣Kuch Bhi bol dethe ho yaar🤔🤣U guys make positive char negative and negative chars positive

BTW, Rakhi is a grey shaded character not entirely negative. Yes, the writers tried their best to villanize her but the reasons are plain hilarious. Just coz she was a working women who didn't wiped her child's ass she is a negative character and a bad mother? Come-on! Funny is a small word for u guys....🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Tagline of Maidmaa bhakts when they can't come up with logical arguments to defend her "Kuch bhi bolte ho yaar".Oh plz! Our brains are still in working order. That's why I fail to understand that how being a qualified professional striving to give your child a better future makes u a bad mother and babysitting your adult kids, defending their mistakes, spoiling their habits and turning them into incapable brats nominates u for the best mother award? I am sure even Kanhaji won't be able to answer. Surrieee Bhagwan ji....😂

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashita5500

I think u r suffering from selective amnesia. Tell me honestly did maidmaa ever took a stand for CA like Rakhi takes for Kinjal? Did'nt she defended Toshu when he cheated on Kinjal and defended Pakhi when she abused Adhik? Apart from making kophie and burger for her brats what else did she do? Never gave them a reality check nor tried to make them realise. Just mollycoddled her grownas* kids. And plz take care of yourself. You are displaying the side effects of worshipping maidmaa seriously...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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@bold ,But CA is a small child and presently not in the right age to fall in love like Kinjal😕😆Anupama neither supported Toshu when he cheated on Kinjal nor supported Pakhi whenever she throwed tantrums. Don't t degrade making burgers and and coffee for children as simple duties of a mother as food is one of the basic needs of a person.Actually u are suffering from selective amnesia .that is why u are not considering good qualities of Anupama.BTW I am not anyone's Bhakt..I am just a viewer /fan like others.FIirst of all u take care of urself😳

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paru...

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@bold ,But CA is a small child and presently not in the right age to fall in love like Kinjal😕😆Anupama neither supported Toshu when he cheated on Kinjal nor supported Pakhi whenever she throwed tantrums. Don't t degrade making burgers and and coffee for children as simple duties of a mother as food is one of the basic needs of a person.Actually u are suffering from selective amnesia .that is why u are not considering good qualities of Anupama.BTW I am not anyone's Bhakt..I am just a viewer /fan like others.FIirst of all u take care of urself😳

Slow claps for u! So if your minor kid is ill treated u should become a mute spectator to her abuse and wait for her to become an adult and fall in love in order to take a stand for her.😂😂😂😂😂 BTW It was Anupamaaaa ji only who covered up Toshu's cheating as anger issues and got him admitted in a rehab centre. It was Anupamaaa ji only who termed her daughter's greedy and violent behaviour as mental health issues and lied down with her on the streets. Where did I declare cooking as a menial job? I respect it wholeheartedly. What am I supposed to say is that apart from cooking and babysitting,a mother has other duties towards her child as well. Maidmaa clearly failed to impart good values to her kids. An abject failure. Motherhood is not about only loving and giving in to the unjust demands of your kids but also taking stern action and chiding them whenever needed. And yes I will definitely appreciate her the day she learns to call a spade a spade. But as of now I don't find any good qualities in her and belive me m not GHAZINI.My brain cells are intact...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Quite a broad topic isnt it? 🤔.


Let me think:


1. To begin with, teaching the child to respect parents (both) first.

Punish them irrevocably.

2. Leading by example in being grateful and humble.

3. Teach to take ownership and take responsibility of one's actions.

4. Stand up for what is right and neither take others for granted nor allow others to run ALL over you.

5. Teach to be Independent and self-reliant. Learn to endeavour and make yourself worthy.


1. A mother tends to her child regardless of whether she is stay-at-home mother or a working mother.

Rakhi has mentioned that she could NOT rely on Kinjal's father for finances and she had to take the reigns in her hands for both of their security. How is it wrong?

Oh by the by, isn't Kinjal a working woman now? Tomorrow if Pari says her mother did not give her enough attention because she sas working, is that even a fair statement?


2. People marry when they are capable of taking responsibility of their own families. Now-a-days, couples earn and save for their wedding functions so as to Not burden their families.

Children should be taught to be independent, infact support family through thick and thin and here 🤦🏻‍♀️.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bodhianveshika

Quite a broad topic isnt it? 🤔.


Let me think:


1. To begin with, teaching the child to respect parents (both) first.

Punish them irrevocably.

2. Leading by example in being grateful and humble.

3. Teach to take ownership and take responsibility of one's actions.

4. Stand up for what is right and neither take others for granted nor allow others to run ALL over you.

5. Teach to be Independent and self-reliant. Learn to endeavour and make yourself worthy.


1. A mother tends to her child regardless of whether she is stay-at-home mother or a working mother.

Rakhi has mentioned that she could NOT rely on Kinjal's father for finances and she had to take the reigns in her hands for both of their security. How is it wrong?

Oh by the by, isn't Kinjal a working woman now? Tomorrow if Pari says her mother did not give her enough attention because she sas working, is that even a fair statement?


2. People marry when they are capable of taking responsibility of their own families. Now-a-days, couples earn and save for their wedding functions so as to Not burden their families.

Children should be taught to be independent, infact support family through thick and thin and here 🤦🏻‍♀️.

Exactly my thoughts! I really fail to understand Kinjal's grudges towards her mother. Her accusations are plain stupid and nonsensical. Writers simply want to prove that working women are bad mothers and some idiots are buying this narrative....
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Posted: 2 years ago
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In context of Kinjal.

She has no locus standi in blaming Rakhi for anything. It was Kinjal who left a lactating 1 month baby for a good week - 10 days at the mercy of Shahs and Anupama to go for a conference in Mumbai.

Rakhi comes from an age where maternity leave was limited and flexi-working conditions for returning mothers was unheard of. Kinjal had multiple options but chose to travel alone.


Kinjal is able to stay without being taunted, abused because there is the fear of Rakhi. Warna educated, strong toh Kavya, Nandini bhi the. Unka kya haal hua, woh toh dikh hi raha hain.

Agar Mayka kamzor ya majboor ho toh Anupama jaisa haal karte.


For problems that Kinjal is facing, in my opinion, she is solely responsible for it. Her mother stood by her to take her and her child to Dave's. She gave her an opportunity to build her life afresh but she chose to serve thankless Shahs.


Anupama serial ground rules are:

1. Anupama is the only and BESHT Maa. Others are not.


2. Characters (other than Anupama) can only be:

a. Cheerleader of Anupama

b. A Mere Prop

c. Vamp whose sole aim in life is to trouble Anupama.


3. Anupama is perfect and knows everything.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ashita5500

And ironically the WORST mother is hailed as the BEST mother (Anupamaa) and the BEST mother is branded as the WORST mother (Rakhi) 🤦

Infinite % would agree with this point. Really in this show would say Rakhi is the perfect mom. But poor lady her love has always been ignored...

Some may bring guns to shoot me asking then why she didn't inform Kinjal about Toshu EMA, jitna bhi angrezzi karte Desi tho desi hi hai. She is a mother and her kid just delivered a baby. A newly mother will have so much of stress and tensions. She doesn't wanna give more.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: amulbaby06

Infinite % would agree with this point. Really in this show would say Rakhi is the perfect mom. But poor lady her love has always been ignored...

Some may bring guns to shoot me asking then why she didn't inform Kinjal about Toshu EMA, jitna bhi angrezzi karte Desi tho desi hi hai. She is a mother and her kid just delivered a baby. A newly mother will have so much of stress and tensions. She doesn't wanna give more.

So true! C section is a major surgery. It takes months to recover and ladies already deal with postpartum depression and anxieties. They are physically and mentally vulnerable. Rakhi's decision was prudent and wise. She is Kinjal's strongest support system,her shield else Shah's would have devoured her long back. Hope this ungrateful daughter recognize her worth some day.
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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Paru...

My God,U guys are really funny🤣Kuch Bhi bol dethe ho yaar🤔🤣U guys make positive char negative and negative chars positive


Log positive and negative actions se hote hai, not from words. You can see everyone replying to you have made actual points while you have not made any points to support your view

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