I love your post🥰. I find more reason to hate Anupama than love her. I do not find her inspiration for any woman out there.
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I love your post🥰. I find more reason to hate Anupama than love her. I do not find her inspiration for any woman out there.
Thank you❤️Originally posted by: Snowstorm22
I love your post🥰. I find more reason to hate Anupama than love her. I do not find her inspiration for any woman out there.
Same here. Anupa is all what shouldn't be😆
Because anupama's fans see her as a daily soap bahu n they r watching other shows too where leads r more or less same or even worst. So they don't expect much from her. Also this two wive, two husband, divorce, remarriage or villainous saas, making friends with ex husband track is so common that ppl r used to watching such things since saas bahu shows started.
And ppl dont learn from these shows. These shows r running from last 23 yrs but women's position in indian society has changed a lot. No one is like a daily soap bahu.
In show no where it's shown anupama has feelings for vanraj she just looks co-ordial until he doesn't do something. Neither anuj is show to be suspecting anupama of having feelings for vanraj. He knows she loves him only. But here ppl keep character assassinate anupama that's why any one visiting forum feels anupama is being hated.
Also fans dont analyse so much like ppl here. They don't make keep making post on old episodes n tracks which is done here. Every second topic is on tracks shown months back. Fans only see good n romantic scenes n skip faltu scenes n wait for reunion track to be back. They don't watch daily soap a for learning about women empowerment. They understand it's a business after all.
Same is the case with TRP viewers no one analyse or remembers what happened 3-4month back in show. They watch for timepass.
Those were the ones I could sum up in hurry before hitting off the gym in the morning.
There are many more but ab maa ke liye hard work nahi hota mere se.
To suri and thankooo...
Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej
did you read the original post. Where did I say that that post was about Anupa🤔😆
Glad you realise that she has flaws. But makers don't think so, that's why they conveniently put all the blame on Anuj and Shahs, giving clean chit to her, nor do the characters of the show including she herself that's why she makes comments like unhein abhi bhi lagta hai meri galti hai🤣🤣
This post may be inspired by your post, but this is not only for you, this is for all Anupa fans😳
This confusion is what happens when the actress and the character she portrays are seen as one by andhbhakts due to their lack of comprehension and any comment about the character is construed as an attack on the actress personally. 😆
Khair, ab stans ka toh kya hi bolein. Roj ka ho gaya hai ab toh. Udhar serial mein Rotlipama keeps shedding crocodile tears aur yahan stans keep crying that tum sab zaalim ho, you have insulted RG, everyone in the whole wide world is loving Anupamaa except this forum etc etc etc. 🤣
Even though I understand where you are coming from, I would be actually happy if people didn't hail her. If they understand she's just another roti bilakhti daily soap bahu, they would simply roll their eyes or think oh okay, here we go with another bechari cry baby, but the problem is that they defend her and every action of hers, no matter what, instead of taking her as another bechari bahu with typical characteristics, she is deemed as inspirational or better which I feel is absurd.
Another point in your post was about any person visiting this forum might think Anupa is hated is cool with me because I do hate Anupa and I'm extremely clear about it. And I didn't decline it even in my original post.
I'm still wondering how my post became about Rupali. It was very clear that this was about Anupa, the characterOriginally posted by: ShahH8er
This confusion is what happens when the actress and the character she portrays are seen as one by andhbhakts due to their lack of comprehension and any comment about the character is construed as an attack on the actress personally. 😆
Khair, ab stans ka toh kya hi bolein. Roj ka ho gaya hai ab toh. Udhar serial mein Rotlipama keeps shedding crocodile tears aur yahan stans keep crying that tum sab zaalim ho, you have insulted RG, everyone in the whole wide world is loving Anupamaa except this forum etc etc etc. 🤣
Ye bhi sahi hai😆 Matha kharab karne se body improve karna is way better👍🏼Originally posted by: bashful_moon
Those were the ones I could sum up in hurry before hitting off the gym in the morning.
There are many more but ab maa ke liye hard work nahi hota mere se.
To suri and thankooo...
okay not wanna sound rude and harsh but maa is hailed only by a certain type of people not gonna elaborate much on this but will tell you a story 😆Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej
Disclaimer: This is not an indirect. I apologise if it comes across like that. But a particular post asking about Why Rupali is hated raised question in my head unintentionally. Hence the question.
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My question is why is Anupa hailed by her fans to this extent. I mean despite her failings and mistakes, her constant baa baa jaap for that vile old lady, her going back again and again to her abusers after every insult and character assassination, her lack of respect for herself, how does these things endear her to her fans? I mean I can understand she had been conditioned like this. Fine. But for how long can this continue? Whenever the question is raised about her being respectful to her abusers, Anupa fans defend her which is okay. But what's the reason? I mean do Anupa fans like it when she's abused? Do they like it when she worships her abusers? Do they not want her to stand up for her self respect? Do they want her to forever serve them? Does this quality of hers not irk them, even in the least? Do they really like it when she forgets or doesn't prioritise the smallest of things regarding Anu, the foster kid but would go to any extent for children who character assassinate her just because they are biological children?
I hate Anupa. I loathe Anupa. I detest Anupa. I'm very clear about it. There are no two ways about it. And I have clear reasons for doing so. And I have mentioned many of the reasons in that post.
I want to know the reasons as to why she is loved despite all the things mentioned above. I mean her kindness can be applauded. But does this kindness ALWAYS has to extend towards her abusers, despite whatever they come up with to harass her?
So two three days ago there was this lady on Instagram who was bashing gaurav (mind it gaurav ,not anuj) for leaving anupama for a lady like akanksha(his real wife) and i was literally like hsgsjsgsgsjhsgssb😕
She was like accha ab samajh aaya..is aurat k liye aap ne anupama ko chhor Diya 🤣
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