Anupamaa Live Update and Daily Discussion Thread 06 Apr 2023 - Page 2

Originally posted by: CheekuKaBeej

(I low-key called myself talented🤭) narcissism ki bhi hadd honi chaiye

Narcissism? Oh no, no, no. This is called pure self-awareness.

If you feel this is narcissism, just imagine Anupa, then you'll feel like the most humble person in this planet.

(P.S. you stroke my ego, I'll stroke yours)

Long post alurt (its long every time though)

1 min,Barkha was ordering things which she likes, it means that they did not even hadfreedom to use the things of their own choice

I know ghee has its ownbenefits but I don't think using olive oil is a big deal, it is not like theycannot afford, they have money, they are so rich agar ek do cheezen extra lebhi aate toh kya chala jata, barkha ki pasand kaa oil, garden mei uske pasandke flowers laga dete toh kya chala jata.

but it is not the fault ofanupama alone, here anuj is also at fault, he has never respected his family sohow can we expect someone else to respect, anupama has always seen anuj talkingrudely with his bhabhi so even anupama does so, in contrast anupama defendedbaa and her family even for their wrongs, but has anuj ever said ki they are myfamily when any random person insulted barkha and his husband, never.

I know anupama is wrongbut anuj is no saint as well. I know this gold digging thing is wrong butI think small small things affect a person very much, barkha and her husbandwere changed but even after that they did not get the respect that theydeserved, so when they got the opportunity now they are enjoying thefreedum. I am not trying to justify what barkha is doing, but barkha wascraving for these small small things, if they would have done somethings as perher wishes instead of arguing with her then I think thoda toh respect hota hibarkha ke heart mei in logon keliye. Small things like changing sofa asper her wish, planting flowers as per her wish, using oil of her choice aswell, asking her for few things, asking her before making changes in the decorof the house, etc. I think barkha's taste of things is good so I don'tthink it would harmed anuj's class in anyway.

I am not saying ki it would have worked for sure but at least we could say naa that after doing so much barkha and family betrayed anuj.

Now those who are saying ki barkha and family is not anuj's family, so when anupama's ex and his family can be anupama's family then at least anuj and his brother are cousins and in India cousins are also your relative and that too close relatives.

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

Long post alurt (its long every time though)

1 min,Barkha was ordering things which she likes, it means that they did not even hadfreedom to use the things of their own choice

I know ghee has its ownbenefits but I don't think using olive oil is a big deal, it is not like theycannot afford, they have money, they are so rich agar ek do cheezen extra lebhi aate toh kya chala jata, barkha ki pasand kaa oil, garden mei uske pasandke flowers laga dete toh kya chala jata.

but it is not the fault ofanupama alone, here anuj is also at fault, he has never respected his family sohow can we expect someone else to respect, anupama has always seen anuj talkingrudely with his bhabhi so even anupama does so, in contrast anupama defendedbaa and her family even for their wrongs, but has anuj ever said ki they are myfamily when any random person insulted barkha and his husband, never.

I know anupama is wrongbut anuj is no saint as well. I know this gold digging thing is wrong butI think small small things affect a person very much, barkha and her husbandwere changed but even after that they did not get the respect that theydeserved, so when they got the opportunity now they are enjoying thefreedum. I am not trying to justify what barkha is doing, but barkha wascraving for these small small things, if they would have done somethings as perher wishes instead of arguing with her then I think thoda toh respect hota hibarkha ke heart mei in logon keliye. Small things like changing sofa asper her wish, planting flowers as per her wish, using oil of her choice aswell, asking her for few things, asking her before making changes in the decorof the house, etc. I think barkha's taste of things is good so I don'tthink it would harmed anuj's class in anyway.

I am not saying ki it would have worked for sure but at least we could say naa that after doing so much barkha and family betrayed anuj.

Now those who are saying ki barkha and family is not anuj's family, so when anupama's ex and his family can be anupama's family then at least anuj and his brother are cousins and in India cousins are also your relative and that too close relatives.

The context here is that AB & BB have come to Anuj stating that they have no place to go and bankrupt or some such nonsense. Anuj lets them live in their house. The next thing BB asks is if she change the decor. Why should they agree to it?

If I went to my cousin's house and said, I want to replace the sofa because it doesn't match my taste.... my cousin's family will politely ask me when my return tickets are booked for, or make the reservations themselves.😆 If I continue to stay put in their house, I'm sure I will also get the same treatment as BB or worse 🤣

Real life story

Ek husband ne adultery ki phir husband ki girl friend husband chod ke chali gayi

Ab woh husband apni wife ke pass aana chahta hai

Wife ko bhi husband se bahut pyar karti insipite of his adultery wife husband ko maaf kar Dena chahti hai

Wife ne sirf 10000 maintainece bandhwayi

Wife sab khuch bhul kar husband ko wapas Ghar mein rakhna chahti hai

Lekin maa ke teen bache bole ki is aadmi ko hum Ghar mein ghusne nahi denge isne tere saath bahut bura Kiya

Doosri Real life story

Husband ne adultery ki

Wife ki SaaS boli husband khule saand hote hain inhe jaroorat se jyaada Azadi to to yeh apni man ki karne lagte hain

Wife husband ki girl friend se baat karne Kiya

Girl friend ne bola,ki tum Mujhse se kyon baat kar rahi ho..main thodi hi tumhare husband ke pass gayi thi

Woh mere pass aaya tha .jaake apne husband ko rok

Ab wife mediation ke dwara husband ke saath happy happy rehna chahti hai

Another life story

Husband ne doosri shaadi kar liya pehli biwi ke hote hue .doosri biwi ne husband ko dutkaar diya husband ki condition Naukar jaise ho gayi

30 year ke baad pehli biwi ke pass lauta aur maafi maagne laga

Biwi. Ne maaf kar diya aur us phir se husband Bana liya.

Sub ne kaha tumne ise kyon maaf Kiya

Wife ne bola ki isko kiye ki punishment mil gaya .hai aur jub main young thi tub to isne mujhe bhale hi nahi poocha ho but bhoodape mein yeh mere saath rehna chahta hai to yeh mere liye bahut hai

https://twitter.com/guddi_1/status/1643923360051757060?s=20

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

The context here is that AB & BB have come to Anuj stating that they have no place to go and bankrupt or some such nonsense. Anuj lets them live in their house. The next thing BB asks is if she change the decor. Why should they agree to it?

If I went to my cousin's house and said, I want to replace the sofa because it doesn't match my taste.... my cousin's family will politely ask me when my return tickets are booked for, or make the reservations themselves.😆 If I continue to stay put in their house, I'm sure I will also get the same treatment as BB or worse 🤣

Jokes apart, it was sensible to keep BB-AB at a distance once they were exposed to be opportunists. However, the issue arises when the same courtesy was not extended to Maa ka maayka who could interfere and cause a ruckus at their will and then walk away with zero regret knowing they were free to do it all over again. Anujpama treated BB-AB quite fairly but eventually when they sobered up a bit, the prior suspicion ensured that they weren't taken seriously and eventually it was the puppy who lost out on support because the spicebox always had her phemli. One side was being held to the highest standard and another side was free to lie, cheat and manipulate. These were points the puppy should have considered instead of going to dance at wife's self proclaimed maayka and befriend her ex husband 🤣

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Real life story

Ek husband ne adultery ki phir husband ki girl friend husband chod ke chali gayi

Ab woh husband apni wife ke pass aana chahta hai

Wife ko bhi husband se bahut pyar karti insipite of his adultery wife husband ko maaf kar Dena chahti hai

Wife ne sirf 10000 maintainece bandhwayi

Wife sab khuch bhul kar husband ko wapas Ghar mein rakhna chahti hai

Lekin maa ke teen bache bole ki is aadmi ko hum Ghar mein ghusne nahi denge isne tere saath bahut bura Kiya

Doosri Real life story

Husband ne adultery ki

Wife ki SaaS boli husband khule saand hote hain inhe jaroorat se jyaada Azadi to to yeh apni man ki karne lagte hain

Wife husband ki girl friend se baat karne Kiya

Girl friend ne bola,ki tum Mujhse se kyon baat kar rahi ho..main thodi hi tumhare husband ke pass gayi thi

Woh mere pass aaya tha .jaake apne husband ko rok

Ab wife mediation ke dwara husband ke saath happy happy rehna chahti hai

Another life story

Husband ne doosri shaadi kar liya pehli biwi ke hote hue .doosri biwi ne husband ko dutkaar diya husband ki condition Naukar jaise ho gayi

30 year ke baad pehli biwi ke pass lauta aur maafi maagne laga

Biwi. Ne maaf kar diya aur us phir se husband Bana liya.

Sub ne kaha tumne ise kyon maaf Kiya

Wife ne bola ki isko kiye ki punishment mil gaya .hai aur jub main young thi tub to isne mujhe bhale hi nahi poocha ho but bhoodape mein yeh mere saath rehna chahta hai to yeh mere liye bahut hai

Toh? Aap ye bolna chahti hai ki Anupama ko Vanraaj ko maaf kar dena chahiye tha jab wo maafi maang raha tha?

Originally posted by: SmithaRam

I do agree that Anuj wasn't all that respectful while speaking to Barkha. But, did I read the lines in bold correctly? Why should Anupama or Anuj accomodate for Barkha's wishes like changing the sofa or decor? I can understand if they did for something like have pizza instead of Kichdi for a meal! But sofa? really? Or start using olive oil?

The context here is that AB & BB have come to Anuj stating that they have no place to go and bankrupt or some such nonsense. Anuj lets them live in their house. The next thing BB asks is if she change the decor. Why should they agree to it?

If I went to my cousin's house and said, I want to replace the sofa because it doesn't match my taste.... my cousin's family will politely ask me when my return tickets are booked for, or make the reservations themselves.😆 If I continue to stay put in their house, I'm sure I will also get the same treatment as BB or worse 🤣

I don't know how it is appearing in bold

but they were the only people who were so crazy about them, when barkha said that we are looking for a home (first entry) then anuj got so angry and he was like family hain hum and all that, when anuj asked anupama that "tumhe koi problem nahi hai naa agar bhaiya bhabhi humare yahan ruke" anupama said "iska jawab mera udta hua belan aapko dega, mujhe kya problem hogi" when they are family so they should think about each others wish naa.

and when anupama can go and rule in shah house which is actually Kavya's now so why can't barkha and her husband which belongs to his brother.

and anupama was the only one who said "India me cojin (cousins) nahi hote hain, bhai behen hote hain" toh jab bhai behen hai toh right bhi toh hoga hi naa.

Originally posted by: ShahH8er

Jokes apart, it was sensible to keep BB-AB at a distance once they were exposed to be opportunists. However, the issue arises when the same courtesy was not extended to Maa ka maayka who could interfere and cause a ruckus at their will and then walk away with zero regret knowing they were free to do it all over again. Anujpama treated BB-AB quite fairly but eventually when they sobered up a bit, the prior suspicion ensured that they weren't taken seriously and eventually it was the puppy who lost out on support because the spicebox always had her phemli. One side was being held to the highest standard and another side was free to lie, cheat and manipulate. These were points the puppy should have considered instead of going to dance at wife's self proclaimed maayka and befriend her ex husband 🤣

that's what I am saying, if you are considering ex family as your maika so how can you totally ignore your husband's cousins and no matter whatever we say if barkha has done wrong things then I don't think shah are less in any manner, in fact they are 10 times more cheaper than barkha, she has her own insecurities but what is shas problem, now anupama is not even in their life so what's their insecurity.

btw I have a question

if anupama's ex father-in-law is anupama's father now, her ex sasural is her maika now, ex mil is her mother now so why her ex husband is not her brother?

Originally posted by: IWasHareeshFan

that's what I am saying, if you are considering ex family as your maika so how can you totally ignore your husband's cousins and no matter whatever we say if barkha has done wrong things then I don't think shah are less in any manner, in fact they are 10 times more cheaper than barkha, she has her own insecurities but what is shas problem, now anupama is not even in their life so what's their insecurity.

btw I have a question

if anupama's ex father-in-law is anupama's father now, her ex sasural is her maika now, ex mil is her mother now so why her ex husband is not her brother?

Because he is her bachcho ke achche pita 🤣